But he marry you that time, he marry "you" rite, not your stomach rite.
I know , some men r like that, even my husband, tho he never say, but he also hope to have a son, but he always say son or daughter nvm, chey, like real.
When my husband marry me, he tho one day I will slim down, hehehehehe, but now I put on more wt, he say since we still trying for more children, until we have enough, then I go on diet .
But I will start to try to loss some wt soon, cos I will start to try for baby again in end apr. There is a old saying : Woman marry man, thinking man will change after marriage, but he nevers. Man marry woman, thinking woman will never change after marriage, but she changed.
For my case, my husband had changed (becos I very short temper), but I remain the same, or FATTER..........hahahahhahaha