not me.. still contemplating to go kk on sat..
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Hi Jojoboy, no, I dont't feel cramp at my lower part... Only lower stomach pain but mild pain. It went off awhile. No swollen nipple or sore breasts. I feel tired easily but dont know whether is it due to laziness or what... Lol. sigh... Super sian I agree. Think my hubby also going to feel I'm 'fan' soon. Lol.
I had my check at Thomson. I find that they are quite ok . I booked appt with Dr Judy Wong Clinic. I find that she is good and explains well. Can't comment much cos I never try other hospitals.
Seriously I kind of lost hopes already. I kept seeing negative till when I hold the test kit I am like expecting another negative again. Super duper disappointed. sigh...
not me.. still contemplating to go kk on sat..
Seriously how one's hCG can be so low...? Already 2 weeks and counting. It's still undetectable. Maybe it's just plain hormone imbalance.
Tempted to go GP for a blood test.. Menses didn't visit me for 11 days.. Sigh.. Kinda stressed since I'm not prepared for 3rd baby..
Just called Thomson. Can check urine test using FIRST urine of the day or may opt for blood test if you want. The GP at Thomson can check also. FYI only. I'm going to check again first thing in the morning tomorrow.
Sorry to interrupt… Just wanna share my experience with you guys. Remember a couple of yrs back, I also miss my menses for about 2 weeks and my menses has always been regular. At first I thought that I was pregnant and decided to take a HPT but it comes out neg. Thought that maybe give it a couple of days and then retest… still it was neg. I tested every 2 days and never got a +, so I decided to visit my gynae to find out why I am not having my menses since I am not pregnant. To my surprise, I saw on the scan that I have a “water tumor” (according to what the gynae calls it) the size of 5cm by 5cm. I thought that it is something really serious... but after the explanation my gynae gave me I sought of relax. According to my gynae, it is very common and in fact most of the woman gets it once in their lifetime. It is actually the water from our follicle that was not properly dissolved during the cycle that causes this to happen. I was then given some medication and there comes my menses…. After a week or so, I went back to do the scan again and the “water tumor” was no longer there.
I am not trying to put any scary thoughts but just think that its always good to see your gynae when you miss your menses for too long. After all, at least you know what is gg on in your body and put your mind at ease. I did not go to a GP cos I think that they do not have the equipment to really know what is wrong.
Lastly, I hope that you guys will get your BFP soon…
Thank you for sharing. Ya, you r right that a check up is advisable. I will monitor my cycles. If it still doesn't comes then I shall visit my gynae again.
Hi all, I'm new to this forum.
I want a baby too as my hubby and I have been married for 3 years.
However he doesn't want a baby yet but he said he was willing to give it a shot for Feb.
So we did the act 3 days before and on the day of ovulation itself.
I have been experiencing mild cramps and breast tenderness these past few days. My period is supposed to come on the 28th.
So, im not sure if these are symptoms of preg or period. So frustrating to wait!
I was so impatient that I went to do a preg test ytd, as expected the result was negative.
Sigh. So disappointing.
Ya, you are right. Its very fustrating to wait and guess the result. Menses and preg signs seem to appear similar. Think you should test 1 or 2 weeks later after your missed menses. It's too early to check now as your menses is not due yet.
Thanks for wishing me luck!
I'm hoping n praying that my period dont turn up this month as it is always regular...
If it turns up, I'm sure I will be very disappointed...
N I wont be able to try for a baby again till end of this yr cos my hubby doesn't want a baby yet.
Oh shucks.. Just thinking about it makes me sad...
I understand your feeling cos we all want baby over here. Personally feel that one with regular cycles is easier to track preg or not than one with irregular cycles. Try not to stress yourself as stress really will mess up menses cycle and cause imbalance hormones. dont't think too much. 10-11 days to go. Find something to do to occupy your mind. Meanwhile maybe dont't do any exercise just in case you r really preg.
FYI, I've missed mine for 17 days and not tested positive. I have give up testing and not even want to wait for anything now. Let nature takes its cos.
thanks for your encouragement.
May you have good news soon.
Right, I was to my gynae and she gave me progeterone for my missing period (1 month now). I am taking it now for a 10 days and the period should come 4-7 days after I stop. I was hoping so much to be a baby, but I am glad it is not something bad.
LadySolitude you should go to doctor to see you and to give you some meds as well. Crossing fingers for you to be a baby though
judyn youre right. let nature take its course. i un wanna be hopeful btvthat hope is silently kept inside..
thanks nataly. you went your gynae.. she gave you that med to induce mense? i am still tedted neg. wentbto kk bt was asked to make appt instead as my case is not life threatening. i went doc bt still doc ask to wait so i guess i have to wait for the appt first before i can conclude. hope its nothing serious.. hoping for that bundle of joy too.. thanks for your kind words..
i am having severe migraine now.. head throbbing badly. and today i vomitted the food i took. since this evening. trying to get some sleep now.
good luck to all tcc-ing.
May i ask why didnt you see a private gynae instead? Is your menses always regular?
I can understand how you ladies feel... i have been trying for nearly 5 yrs now... the dissapointment you get when your menses arrive is really heartbreaking...
But watever it is... dont't give up hope and one day we will all receive our Bundle of Joy... Baby dust to all ladies here...
Hi ladies, how're you doing? I waiting for so long. Had a mild cramp at one side of ovaries. Finally after 5 days of pain, I've my menses today. At least now I dont have to keep thinking of not having menses n not pregnant.
Hope you, ladies are doing well.
i had my mense after like 40 days.. at least its here.. rather than not here and not being preg roght.. wiating for the next O and the waiting game continues..
Ya, you r right. Let's let the nature takes it's course. dont't think and hope about it. Hopefully can do it! Good luck!
Hi, first of all dont't worry, the tests sometimes may give the wrong results, it's better to make blood test or for more info you may consult here https://saymommy.com/pregnancy-test/ hope it'll help!
Am glad to have found this thread as I was getting really confused and nervous and was thinking if there's something wrong with me!
My menses has been delayed for a week now and still no sign. I took a HPT yesterday morning on my first urine of the day. My husband was so nervous and excited that he stood at the door waiting while I peed on the stick. Alas, it was negative.
We started getting really excited and had to be really patient since I missed my period. We decided...wait one week. So we tested.
I have been feeling really tired of late. My temperature has been slightly higher than normal (usu it's 35.7-36.0, but in the past week, it's been averaging 36.6). I've been experiencing cramps off and on and my tummy feels queasy. But I dont't have sore breasts.
I guess, I'm going to be patient and wait another week before using the HPT again.
Any advice from you ladies out there?
It can be due to stress or health problems. Have you go for medical checkups?
Probably you may want to wait another week. Early check may not be accurate. You may also want to consider a blood test? There are also other possible reasons on a late menses. It can be due to stress that causes inbalance hormones too and also you may have maculated your days or late ovulation? Do you always have irregular menses? It's actually quite normal for one to miss their menses for a month. Of cos that one month, we feel impatient guessing if we r pregnant or just plain late menses. I've wasted a lot of $ on HPT and also blood test. All were negative. Went Thomson for a check last Saturday because I had a cramp on my left side ovary. I had missed mine for a month plus and had my menses finally yesterday.
Hope this helps.
Last edited by Judyn3o; 06-03-2012 at 06:32 PM.
Thanks for the advice. I've gone for a medical check a few years back and all was ok. But I only started trying actively about October last year. This is the first time my menses has been delayed for 9 days, so I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed and praying extremely hard!
Will wait another week to test again and meantime, trying to keep my mind off this and not be too stressed up!
Hi Ladies, wondering if anyone knows if taking Chinese herbs may cause miscarriage?
i just went for a seafood dinner and had some herbal prawn dish. I drank quite a bit of the soup. When I got ready to shower I noticed a light brown stain on my underwear. Making me paranoid. Yet on the other hand I'm hoping it's not a sign that my menses is coming!!
What a start to a bright and cheery Sunday morning...my menses decided to show up after a 12-day delay. The disappointment is huge...not just me but my husband too. Nevertheless, not going to give up hope just like that.
Need some advice here though. Seeing that my menses was delayed by 12 days, it kinda screws up my 32-day cycle. Any tips/advice on how to I calculate my next ovulation period?
Appreciate any comments.