This is a discussion on trying to concieve for 3 years within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by joeybeadz another familiar situation... but then, when I had a heart to heart talk with him, actually ...
i cry and cry like crazy.. he keep on smiling.. looking at me like im a nut case
imagine my anger during the cry and was laughed at.. arghh
until now.. he kept smiling and asking me not to stress it out.. if we have.. we have.. if we dont.. how can i change what god have written for us..
im gonna gt referral.. but still am afraid with the cost.. as tht is the only concern m hving for 3 yrs.. sigh..
im gonna start forcing myself to swollow veggies!! die die have too...
28yrs of my life without veg.. is bad enough!..
need to change my lifestyle.. although i do exercise.. but still bad habit on smoking n no veg life got to go.. not easy.. but for the sake of baby.. have too..
I think you giving yourself too much stress that's why you dont see any results.. The more things you try n try I think it will just add to your stress. I feel right now you should just rest n relax dont think too much. Tats how I manage to strike too. May I know how old r you?
Found this blog.. really interesting for those trying to concieve. Hope it can make you less stressed...
Maybe Baby Blog » Dear God
Last edited by Px22; 19-10-2010 at 10:32 AM.
But that's also not healthy to keep it all to yourself.
What have you got to lose if you open up to family or friends? It's not like you wished this upon yourself. We'll never know how hard it is to get pregnant until we try. People are more understanding then you're imagining them to be. Just open up to one person. It doesn't have to be the whole family.
woahh tdy im very emotional.. reading your words already made me cry..
sigh.. i have the most buziest family members.. where no one can really talk to me.. my parents r old enough.. i dont wanna make them worry.. and believe it or not.. i dont really have friends..
no one is close enough to talk too..
but i do have my cousins whom i m very closeeee too.. maybe i can talk to my cousin.. and see hw it goes..
im soo stressfool these days.. lil things makes me cry.. *like a crazy wacko*
as you can tell.. i hate crying.. becos it makes one weeker.. *to me at least*
thnx for hearing me out.. it means alot to know at least there is someone out there to hear me out..
cos no one really takes me seriosly.. as i m well known as a joker.. making people laugh is what i do.. but inside me.. no one ask.. or bother.. cos im always smiling and laughing...
Well at least you're talking on the forum and getting things off your chest, that's a start.
Now to make the next move and talk to your cousin. At least there's someone you can choose to talk to. dont't hide behind your own laughter.
Please dont't cry, crying won't solve anything and it certainly doesn't make you feel better.
yup2.. i hate crying .. but does tht often now..
even my own husband or family members dont know this side of me
but m ok w tht..
i dont wanna cry.. seriously.. but the kick on the throat thingy kinda make me give way..
n thank god for this forum where i can let it all out..
and feel good
im gonna talk to my cousin n see hw it goes.. haizz..
why must anyone in the world suffers infertility..
and i see arn tht ths happened to those who love kids.. BUMMER!
those who r not ready.. or some even throw babies away.. always ended up hving kids..
tht is life.. full of challenges