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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Good morning ladies..

    I am little disturbed this morning..I dream a lot in my sleep and remember them very well.. When I have recurring dream about something I make it a point to read the dream analysis too..

    I am getting very negative dreams since this week, mainly about death of my immediate family..it is so weird and bad..got for two days and each day one family member..
    I just googled and found that it is common to get weird dreams during pregnancy..
    I am not drawing any conclusion with my bfp if it is going to be there but when reading about dream analysis for death dreams I got to know about the above fact..

    Just wanted to share with you all, I feel it is such a negative effect of pregnancy, quite stressful when I think about it as I remember my dreams very well..I end up crying in my dreams..
    So stressful..

    Hormones working inside the body and making the mind crazy!!

    Anyways, hope you all have a nice weekend..
    Last edited by happysoul; 09-03-2013 at 07:45 AM.

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    Happysoul, I get weird dreams all the time and they dont seem to give me bfp indeed some dreams feel so real I end up sobbing and had to hug my hubby in bed to comfort myself. I think dreams are just another unexplained dimension....we get them good sometimes and bad sometimes. That being said, dont't worry about your "bad" dreams ya. I personally think dreams dont mean anything.

    I do dream these quite often : my deceased grannies. They usually look very good and happy in the dream. Flashes of my overseas trips. Being followed by bad guys (I hate this kind! So scary). And recently my ex boyfriends. Lol.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Glad to know that you also get much dreams and you remember them coz I asked so many ppl around they are like they rarely remember them..

    I am not worrying about my dreams but is difficult to sleep through such negative dream of death of immediate family member..

    Not sure about correlation between pregnancy and the drrams!!

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    Could be stress also. I always have very bad dreams whenever I feel very tired or when I am very stressed. I often dream of ghosts or I'm being chased and I would wake up breathless and heart beating very fast. Maybe try relaxation techniques during the day to destress so that you can have a better night's sleep. I also find that ever since I started sleeping with socks on, I have very few dreams at night becos I sleep better. Perhaps you can try sleeping with socks?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I do sleep well and try to sleep early too so that I can try to have long sleep atleast few times during the week..
    I did wear socks to sleep for few days after suggestion on this group..will start again to wear regularly..

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    Ya last time I also dreamt of parents dying and end up crying in sleep....or else is dream of me falling from heights....the kind of fear really makes you jump out of sleep.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    last night i dream i was spotting !! but I've always had vivid dreams and dont't think it's a symptom for me. dreams reflect your state of mind generally and indicates to you how you feel

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    Happysoul, hmm not sure if you are the 迷信 type but I definitely do.
    The first time I get my bfp I vividly heard of baby cry along my corridor but I remember clearly that there are no babies in my neighbors. That's when I tested my first bfp a week later.

    The second time I got my bfp, I have been dreaming myself surrounded with alot of children when I go visit a house then inside the house a lady pass her newborn baby onto my hands.
    I carry the baby all the way making the baby to sleep.
    That's when I tested second bfp a week later

    But for the second MC, I dreamed of alot of ghost surrounding me I keep hearing their voices in my ears. That dream make me so scare and that's when I get my mc that day.

    I ever heard of if you dream of snake or turtle meaning something good is coming either strike lottery or baby coming to you

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    Indeed it's "strange" to me that someone doesnt dream (or dont't remember I guess). I cannot imagine one being "blanked out" for 6-8hours. I always ask hubby what did he dream the night before and he always says dont remember. I usually will remember dreams better when my sleeps are disturbed. So I conclude good night sleep = no dreams!

    Anyone going to the IT show?

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    Poohy I used to dream of falling off too. Like from a cliff. Also dreamt of flying. Or being naked in front of crowd (read that this means one is afraid of being judged). But I feel the worst dream is having falling teeth! Always wake up and heave a sigh because I know it's unreal. I cannot imagine cannot eat my fav food being bo-geh!

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail - hee hee I hope you didn't dream of ex bfs and hugged hubby at same time

    I think sometimes dreams are a function of your thoughts just before you sleep. I have dreamt of work, doc visits and they were co-related to what I was thinking of before zzz. Oh and I have been watching tvb before zzz the past few nights and guess what, I've been dreaming of murders, forensics and policemen!

    That's why experts say before zzz, clear your mind and meditate, pray. Dont Watch tv, read newspapers,etc. Have a moment of silence for yourself and for your mind (since our minds are boggled with 1001 thoughts during the day), reflect on what you did in the day - what's the one good thing you have done in the day and one thing you could have improved, give thanks for today's blessings and envision your goal.

    I find that if I do that I sleep better and deeper. Argh I need to put my tvb far far away before zzz.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Haha dragontail - me dreamt of falling teeth too and I'd wake up touching if my tooth is still there / shakey or not!

    I have dreamt of falling then will "jerk". Haha my dear thought I had a wet dream. *faint*

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    Today I also like Keep dreaming. Long drama lol. Kinda abit forgot What issit

    My bpf I had some weird dreams, sometimes is dream about friends kid or can't remember What else

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    Dragontail, i also always remember my dreams. Dreamt practically every time i sleep, short naps too. Weirdest dream i had was 2 days ago, dreamt that i am breastfeeding my baby girl. With the trying to concieve, Think too much already...haha

    Really interesting to c that so many share the same issues

    The Teeth falling out ones are scary. Coz i will dream that my mouth is full of the 'freshly fallen' teeth and i dont know whether to swallow them or spit out. Really bizzare >..<

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    Ladies, you can try www.dreammoods.com for dream interpretations.

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    That's so true about the late tv! When I watch one of my fav channels, Crime & Investigation, just before I sleep, I usually end up living in CSI in my dreams. So scary when you are surrounded by psychopath!!

    Told hubby our new place no no no tv in the bedroom anymore. I feel that's the right thing to do. Now is "have to" because my inlaws hog tvb in the hall which I dont watch

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    Rav lololol so funny on your dreams on mouthful of fallen teeth. Can so imagine that helpless state you felt in the dream For me is usually I talk talk in the dream then suddenly I feel something loose in my mouth. Touch my teeth and alas some are shaking. I got very worried in the dream like how to go to work bo-geh??

    My last bfp, some days before bfp, I did dream I had a baby. In the dream I was very shocked (good shock) the baby resembles me so much. But I wouldnt think it has anything to do with the bfp . I guess I was missing my first baby...during oscar scan I actually thought the baby had my face features! (I know...it was too early but well...it's a mother's thing I guess).

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    How long have you guys been trying for baby?
    Im only trying for 4-5 months and I'm getting impatient and stressed out alrdy. Why some ppl get it so easily.
    How long after trying should we go see a dr for Fertility tests?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hello Gabrielle. For me, I saw gynae quite immediately after starting - it was part of my bi-annual check up anyway. Then traditional chinese medicine 2 months after. Then subsequently it was monthly gynae visits and weekly traditional chinese medicine. But I am a kiasu one. Also I am approaching 35 so I felt time is not on my side. If I started much earlier say 30, I would do a quarterly gynae check, but regular traditional chinese medicine.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hahaha - reading all these posts on bo-gehness, I hope I dont't dream of falling teeth or mouth full of rattling teeth tonight

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    Gabrielle, if you dont wish to play with time anymore, suggest you hop on to a fertility doc soon. At least it will speed up process, whatever the underlying issue is.

    For me my issue is making my bfp a sticky one...so that's what my sinseh says. Had 2 mcs last year.

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    Thanks for all advises. Oh... Any good gynae to intro? What are the prices like? Anybody seen dr Ann Tan @ paragon before?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Very very interesting conversation on the dreams here..I love it..I always try to interprete the situation and stuff I experience in my dreams..

    @prayinghard - your actual experiences and dream corelation is very interesting..I didn't understand the Chinese characters you have typed but I feel you are trying to say 'superstitious' or 'believer'..I do believe in the situations and stuff that I see in my dreams sometimes..I feel it's the unnatural way of some kind communication to us..

    One of my friends was due soon and a week before she delivered I dreamt her mother carrying a baby boy. After a week, she delivered a baby boy!!

    Other time I got dream about my exam result percentage and I got exactly the same!!

    But I have had death dreams before and I have read that it doesn't directly relate to actual death but it denotes a phase in my life which is going to end or something in my life is getting over..

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    Gabrielle, if you r worried then no harm heading to gynae for checks. From what i hear from friends, many of them conceive when they just let nature take its course. Perhaps you r really too stressed up? Go holiday with your hubby? Alot of ppl conceive when on holiday hth

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hi Gabrielle. My gynae who's also a fertility specialist is at Gleneagles. A check incl vaginal ultrasound, body check, consultation, vits for him and me would cost around $300. Mine is a male doc though.

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