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This is a discussion on We are trying to concieve-ing! within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by xiaohuiis happysoul > I heard from my preggie friends.. if you r preg.. you cannot bluff ppl ...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by xiaohuiis View Post
    happysoul > I heard from my preggie friends.. if you r preg.. you cannot bluff ppl n say you r not .. they say patang
    eh but i got say i am not, cos havent 3 mths

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hmmm but usually 1st 2 mths still cant really see the baby bump right?

    Usually pple start asking when they see the baby bump or unless morning sickness in first trimester quite jialat

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    TVH: When is your EDD ?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    In our culture also cannot share before 3 months coz after that pregnancy more stable..but wondering what if the bump is visible..

    I had few colleagues last year pregnant in our office, one got MC from Kandang Kerbau Hospital so definitely the manager ask how come Kandang Kerbau Hospital so she had to share, also she was eager to share so not a problem with her..the other colleague had fever for first two months and was advised rest so no choice had to mention the manager, she didnt wanted to share but no choice..
    the most funny part is that the manager herself was pregnant and can see the bump easily but she didn't share, moreso ever she denied when a colleague asked her!!! Can see the bump but still she refused!!!

    Just wondering how to go about when I am in that situation..

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    I got tummy from bloating. Maybe you can say that?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    @xiauhuiis - I will just tell that I am having symptoms of AF to my hubby..probably not tha I got AF..

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Can give reason for bloating or wear not that fitting dresses to hide the reveal!!!

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    coz they say even thou before 3 mths cannot announce, but if ppl ask you cannot say things like nope I am not preg or stuff like that.
    They say baby will pantang n leave you .. how true i dont know ...

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    @xiaohuiis - if someone ask me I definitely wont lie but I was very surprised by my manager's denial..
    Last edited by happysoul; 11-03-2013 at 02:24 PM.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Me happily tell all my colleagues.. Left the pregnancy test for husband to see... Husband never see.. And when I show him , the test dont't show anymore .. So irritated..

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    Thanks ladies..ya quite an unbelievable experience

    Ya I dont't think it is good to deny though I'm not the pantang kind and I feel you have to let ppl know esp those very close to you so that they can take are of you when you go out or show some consideration for you.

    Littlehamster, my EDD is 15 Oct
    Last edited by TVH; 11-03-2013 at 02:36 PM.

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    Oh.. So happy for you TVH

    When can you know boy or girl?
    It will be happy moment .. I can't wait mine to see...

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    Not so earlu I guess....maybe 4 or 5mths then can find out but doesn't matter for me as long as baby is healthy

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Heh. If me preggie. I sure announce loud loud. But sadly. have not preggie yet.

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    Hehhe Gabrielle, you will have a chance to shout loud loud in due time.

    I'm not pantang generally. But after a couple of MCs, I feel I will keep low profile because I dont wish for my loved ones to worry about me or feel sorry for me (I mean touch wood if it's not going to be a sticky one again). Not that I shouted loud loud last time....just that if bfp again, I just keep it among a few people till baby is ready to announce himself/herself.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    @missA - I feel little scared by your case, get few symptoms but still bfn, then ultimately get A F..
    I also felt few symptoms, cramps, spotting and fatigue..dont't know what will happen

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by happysoul View Post
    @missA - I feel little scared by your case, get few symptoms but still bfn, then ultimately get A F..
    I also felt few symptoms, cramps, spotting and fatigue..dont't know what will happen
    dont't think so much for now! i think i might have been stressing myself out too much and cause all the so call symptoms to come out. haha... my gynae think i am crazy for feeling so desperate since its just my 2nd month of trying. but sometimes its hard to control the anxious feeling.

    baby dust to you and all who are trying to concieve-ing!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    MissA.... I totally understand how you feel. Me trying first 2 months also feel super desperate. Now alrdy disappointments 6 months . have not seen anything gynae yet, hubby keep saying next month next month.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    by way do we still take CW during 2ww?

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    Yes yes poohy.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    okay thanks! wonder when is actual O..hahaha...BD too much also painful ...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by missA View Post
    dont't think so much for now! i think i might have been stressing myself out too much and cause all the so call symptoms to come out. haha... my gynae think i am crazy for feeling so desperate since its just my 2nd month of trying. but sometimes its hard to control the anxious feeling.

    baby dust to you and all who are trying to concieve-ing!
    Anne, jia you k ^^ I also started trying to concieve same time as you haha.. last month i also thot i might be successful.. coz got some sore boobs, always tired, lots of discharge coz some mummies say they got alot of discharges when they got their BFPs...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    @poohy : you too violent izit haha

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    hahaha i think more of i too dry!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    @poohy : you never buy pre-seed?

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