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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    It was my 3rd wedding anniversary on thurs..initially my hubby was not keen to have a kid..when one of our close friend had a kid within a yr of their marriage my hubby changed his mind..now all his friends around him are sharing good news!!i think we are starting to feel pressurized..
    My mum n mother in law also keeping asking..haizzz..all their friends children until no.2 already n married after us..
    We just leave it in the hands of GOD..to have faith in him that he will make it happen!!!
    Even if we are not blessed take it as his will..and everything happens for a reason..

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Heartz, maybe can test again in 3 days. I'm a week late but tested negative twice. But everyday my temperature remains high (I do bbt charting) and AF not here yet. I'm stressed wondering if got any serious issue instead.
    If pregnant is it for sure no tender breasts?
    I understand. I'm older so In my case I wonder if I "missed the boat"

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    WL thank you for writing back to share! Wow! You know how I feel!! Thank you!
    So your periods were at the most one week late or early?
    Now I'm so worried if my case is going to be two weeks late then no come (gasp! )

    Why is hot yoga no good btw?
    Also I do a lot of sauna and baths too do you think I should completely stop?
    Or during the times between 2ww?

    I must say my work life is quite stressful and these are ways I cope.

    Lol my husband would be surprised to see me at home too

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ebichan: ive read that once menses missed breasts will start to feel sore like before menses n my colleague told me 'itch like' feeling in breasts if preg..i always have this feeling before menses..this time before AF nothing like that..
    Im also wondering my cycle seriously haywire this month..
    One of my coll had her first kid when 36 n then no.2 38..these days even 40 possible..i know of ppl who deliver at 40..dont worry.i hope we ladies all have good news to share soon..

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    Looks like i am out for this month. Bbs are starting to get sore. 3 more days to AF. Bummer X_x

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartz01:769270
    It was my 3rd wedding anniversary on thurs..initially my hubby was not keen to have a kid..when one of our close friend had a kid within a yr of their marriage my hubby changed his mind..now all his friends around him are sharing good news!!i think we are starting to feel pressurized..
    My mum n mother in law also keeping asking..haizzz..all their friends children until no.2 already n married after us..
    We just leave it in the hands of GOD..to have faith in him that he will make it happen!!!
    Even if we are not blessed take it as his will..and everything happens for a reason..
    Congrats on your anniversary. Happy that your hubby is feeling paternal. Me married for 5 yrs, also actually didnt want kids, planning to get a dog & cat. But you know how our bodies react despite our logical thinking, managed to convinced hubby to try for a baby after he completed his part time studies. Haha...if lucky pop before i turn 33. Abit rushed coz just turned 32. Hopefully we can all have our little miracles. but in any case we r not meant to have kids then have to accept it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gabrielle86:769267
    Sonetimes... bD many times n feel so posituve to get a BFP, but in turn AF come. Sigh... I experience it for 5 months . Hopefully this month I dont get disappointments. If not I reallt wanna go see reproductive specialists liaoo
    Feel the same way gabrielle. Tempted to take things abit quicker but doc say to try for at least a yr before heading to fertility specialist. Think conciously or sub conciously we r mostly stressing our body and causing all the hormonal haywire. Its hard to believe how some get pregnant so easily but i have also seen so many whom can't despite all they had done. And those that defied the odds. So Keep the faith cheers. Btw from your nick, you r born in 1986? Thats younger than alot of us. Jiayou!

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    Hey ladies, dont't give up hope yet. Every woman's symptoms are different. I did not feel any physical symptoms, no sore breasts. In fact, I was quite certain I was going to get my AF cos I had the usual cramps. But little would I expect to get a BFP later on. So, dont compare symptoms because everybody has it different from others. Just like thumbprints, there are no two exact symptoms.

    I believe good things would come to all of you.

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    Ebichan: your hpt is normal or sensitive type? Have you throw away your negative hpt? Mine I had faint line after a while when dry up, but sadly it's too weak n didn't make it, and af cones full blast around 5 weeks..

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    For me I feel I can't trust those signals sent out by my body. I didnt feel much of anything and I got my first bfp. Last cycle, I got all the preggie symptoms and yet bfn. Haa life is an irony isn't it?
    Therefore I suggest go easy on symptom spotting. Our mind is a very powerful tool. Somehow we can get all these funky symptoms just by THINKING.

    Oh...not a nice feeling knowing weekend is ending

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Little hamster , I was very kiasu. I tried one from Watson original brand (had leftover from last time) and
    another digital one from Clear Blue.
    So I dont't think after they dry they become positive.
    When you say full blast you mean period? Or you mean real positive sign?

    Yeah I agree. Symptoms can be different and differs for everyone.
    Just worried if period not come and still not pregnant what other serious problem I have.??

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    I had faint positive then negative, aka chemical pregnancy. I did blood test at doctor n hcg was super low. Full blast flooding lol

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Little Hamster I'm sorry to hear re: tr chemical pregnancy. If its ok to ask you, how late were you when you tested both times at home?

    Also, can a normal GP do a blood test or must we go our OB GYN?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    *warning : GRAPHICS GRAPHICS*

    I find this site offers the best pics on various types of cm.

    GRAPHIC- What different CM looks like. - Getting Pregnant - BabyCenter

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ebichan : when I was traveling, it could be early or late. Most frustrating especially on biz travels cuz always need to be "prepared" and make sure one needs to wear the right clothes (ie no white or pale colored bottoms)

    Also, my personal advice is no sauna, no steam bath, no hot yoga, no hot springs. And the same goes for your man. There are differing opinions on this. But I would rather err on the side of caution. I heard / read The hot temperatures may affect your body temp so that could render bbt ineffective. And it is also not good to let the body "over-heat".

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ebichan : to relieve stress from work, turn to bd. it has been scientifically proven sex relieves stress and burns calories

    Ok - but seriously, try yoga perhaps? I did yin yoga, find it relaxing. Also did tai chi. And swimming. Also, curl up with a good book. Hahaha, very sedentary activities I know. I didn't used to be like that too - I mean, I used to be the person whereby if there is alcohol, I will be there and i was also the one who will jio others for drinks. but well, to be honest - I also knew it wasn't exactly the most ideal lifestyle as sometimes, I feel like crap the next day

    Anyway, the life of trying to concieve resulted in better complexion and no eye bags so that was good too! And yes, it is also great to chat with all the lovely ladies here - that is a stress reliever too!

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Heartz - well, I guess god has his way with everyone. All in his time.

    Well. I feel that as long as one did his / her best, then the rest is up to nature. Personally, I feel it is good to also see gynae first just to clear issues - if any. I mean, if try for one year and then realized aiya because it is a cyst that blocks the cervix then quite wasted the year of trying? But that's just my opinion .

    Sob sob, it is Monday....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:769344
    *warning : GRAPHICS GRAPHICS*

    I find this site offers the best pics on various types of cm.

    GRAPHIC- What different CM looks like. - Getting Pregnant - BabyCenter
    Thanks alot Dragontail! Really informative btw didnt think that the pictures are that gross

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    Ouch ouch ouch monday Well lets just look forward to the work week to be smooth and over!

    Rav, yeah these are just au naturale The mucus plug looks new to me though!

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    Dragontail: Good Morning to you! Weekends also feel so short. Wish i could work alt days only. Hahaha...

    Having the creamy lotion cm this morning...looks like AF gonna start. Bleahz...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    *sob* monday monday....
    did you all say cannot go for massage during 2ww? i was tempted to go foot massage/back shoulder massage...so achy.

    oh yes, i got the mucus plug coming out when i dilate....i thought what happened and rush to hospital.hahaha...but was sent back home coz havent dilate enough and ask me wait

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    Rav, till AF comes...else, you know mother nature sometimes likes to play games with us

    Today is my cd16. Yesterday 2hrs after bd, i was in toilet and had dangling ewcm. As this cycle I notice I dont have much ewcm ( my very first sign to watch out if I'm fertile), I am hopeful to see some. I reckon if it's semen, it's not stretchy right? But could it be arousal fluid? What you think? O-day should come in 2-3days time.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by littlej View Post
    Ebichan : when I was traveling, it could be early or late. Most frustrating especially on biz travels cuz always need to be "prepared" and make sure one needs to wear the right clothes (ie no white or pale colored bottoms)

    Also, my personal advice is no sauna, no steam bath, no hot yoga, no hot springs. And the same goes for your man. There are differing opinions on this. But I would rather err on the side of caution. I heard / read The hot temperatures may affect your body temp so that could render bbt ineffective. And it is also not good to let the body "over-heat".
    I see. I think that I depend too much on sauna, hot baths etc to detox and sweat. I should try to be more flexible. Cannot imagine pregnant no baths but I might as well start training now.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Sigh... Monday blues?

    I want to seek your advice. If in 3 days time still no period. And HPT is negative, should I then go to doctor for blood test? Normal GP can or must it be my own OB GYN?
    In case of the latter. Very hard get appointment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:769385
    Rav, till AF comes...else, you know mother nature sometimes likes to play games with us

    Today is my cd16. Yesterday 2hrs after bd, i was in toilet and had dangling ewcm. As this cycle I notice I dont have much ewcm ( my very first sign to watch out if I'm fertile), I am hopeful to see some. I reckon if it's semen, it's not stretchy right? But could it be arousal fluid? What you think? O-day should come in 2-3days time.
    Hurhur..dangling is about the right way to describe it. Mine ewcm also like that, wipe will drag . Tmi...hahaha...
    looks like a good fertility sign...semen is like a gush of watery cm for my case. Smelt different also. Abit er xin i know. Haha

    Monday super blue plus tio 2 red bombs from cousins. Will kena all the in-your-face gossips and 'advices' when the relatives converge twice over if i am not spotting a belly. Groans...

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