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    Think GP can . Gynae ex ...haha...alot of gynae also offer prenatal packages after 8 weeks . Maybe the ladies got other advices to share?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by ebichan View Post
    Little Hamster I'm sorry to hear re: tr chemical pregnancy. If its ok to ask you, how late were you when you tested both times at home?

    Also, can a normal GP do a blood test or must we go our OB GYN?
    thanks, im over it already. First one i went to GP around 2-3days before af (I dont have gynae), then went to Kandang Kerbau Hospital, but sadly hcg no increase. 2nd one, i went to pte gynae i think like few days after expected af (this guessing only cos im spotting for 1 week ) i think i went to gynae too late.

    you want can go gp , they need 1 day to send the blood test to the lab, faster than gynae and cheaper ..

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    Ebichan, I think I will need advice too if I were you. Maybe a doc can help to induce af if there's no bfp? But of course I hope it is a bfp for you! My sister In law had her missed mense years ago and she went to traditional chinese medicine and that helped.

    Rav, nah...I also got sniff sniff the mucus Rub rub between my fingers too. No smell at all so I also think it's not semen! I wonder can I say that bd helps to push out the ewcm? I mean past days I have been quite dry. I try kagel and also nothing comes out. Usually by cd12 I will start to have wet mucus.

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    Finally I can see an obvious test line on my opk. Started poas on cd12. But still not positive yet as not as dark as control line...but should be coming

    Later 7pm I test again. If gets dark then bd tonight! But we bd yesterday at 4pm...dont know his army got ample time to build its force or not.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    dragontail, jia you! let your hubby take vitamins, chicken essence, coke etc ! hahaha...anything to boost his wellbeing and soldiers!

    Rav- dont give up yet! But hoh...i also feeling bit crampy..ocassionally pain on left and right...

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    Oh dear hubby did say he felt "stonger" while we were bd-ing yesterday. He said he felt he got a lot of army. Therefore, we bd twice within the hour. Hahaha tmi for a monday. He suspects it's really the traditional chinese medicine powder and the zinc he has been talking diligently lately. So ladies, go buy zinc for your hubbies .

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    Dragontail: either late tonight or tomorrow morning..hehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:769419
    Oh dear hubby did say he felt "stonger" while we were bd-ing yesterday. He said he felt he got a lot of army. Therefore, we bd twice within the hour. Hahaha tmi for a monday. He suspects it's really the traditional chinese medicine powder and the zinc he has been talking diligently lately. So ladies, go buy zinc for your hubbies .
    Woah...good for you...hee...Chiong ar!

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    Wow dragontail, your hubby gives you very prompt feedbacks! Haha....very good! Seldom guys will b so vocal about their body.

    I find that semen is usually very watery....but own mucus always has a bit if sticky texture...and semen has a strong iron smell....dont't know if this is applicable to all men but my hub's one always smells very metallic....that's how I differentiate between my own mucus and his semen....but usually the next day after BD, my underwear would be always wet. I would always assume that was just his semen. And if I wiped, I noticed it is just like water, no stringy nor stocky texture.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail View Post
    Oh dear hubby did say he felt "stonger" while we were bd-ing yesterday. He said he felt he got a lot of army. Therefore, we bd twice within the hour. Hahaha tmi for a monday. He suspects it's really the traditional chinese medicine powder and the zinc he has been talking diligently lately. So ladies, go buy zinc for your hubbies .
    Haha I want to buy!! But my hubs likes to complain these supplements too big , too smelly. I only bought Maca for balancing my hormone and for his energy. Lol

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by littlehamster View Post
    thanks, im over it already. First one i went to GP around 2-3days before af (I dont have gynae), then went to Kandang Kerbau Hospital, but sadly hcg no increase. 2nd one, i went to pte gynae i think like few days after expected af (this guessing only cos im spotting for 1 week ) i think i went to gynae too late.

    you want can go gp , they need 1 day to send the blood test to the lab, faster than gynae and cheaper ..
    Is it most GP can? Or should I ring to ask them?

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    Think GP shld be able to do blood work .

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    my hubby's sperm smells like soap, but not the nice kind TVH you're right, semen feels more watery and stronger smell that's how I make the difference, sometimes after BDing and when I desperately need to pee I check with my fingers if my EWCM is there among them haha sorry TMI Speaking of soldiers, my husband just got his sperm test result back and apparently his swimmers are very healthy, they only lack slightly motility but apparently that's because he held them for 1 week before giving the sample, they were all almost dead by then...it's good news for me as I was feeling down after that strange spotting episode. Started Maca root too. So now I'm on royal jelly, maca, EPO and CW.
    My sister In law with who we are in bad terms just found out she was expecting a girl.

    Ebichan, just say they are good for muscle gain !

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    So tricky, means have to really bd every 3 days to have healthy stronger swimmers. Wonder what my husband will say to that. We only managed twice per week... coz hubby sick...no mood ...then i keep thinking AF sure to come also no mood...meh

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Rav actually the days before you O it's best to BD every other day. Also if you do every day you also might not get enough as your hubby won't have time to produce. balance is key

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    Quote Originally Posted by tricky:769474
    Rav actually the days before you O it's best to BD every other day. Also if you do every day you also might not get enough as your hubby won't have time to produce. balance is key
    The thing is i am not tracking my bbt.. only agar see ewcm. Anyhow whack...haha...not using opk also...i will try track bbt next month if AF starts. :/

    Think my body heaty again, abit er xin after eating. Ate too much chocolate cake for my bday ....super sleepy after lunch...lazy much..haha

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Happy Monday blues (oxymoron I know)!

    Dragontail - wa your hubby super good! My man- once every 2 days, he wanna peng San already. Even after a week of abstinence. I think I will never get twice in a day treatment. anyway maybe you can do it tomorrow morning? Alternate days would be good.

    I so do not like the wet panty feeling and the funky smell. I'd usually use a panty liner and change regularly the day after bd. which means if bd alternate days, I would be wearing panty liners the whole time the whole week.

    Wa you all actually finger and smell???

    Ebichan - for my gynae - if do blood test before noon, can get the results back by evening. I dont't know about GP. But for me, I super kiasu type, I would rather go straight to the experts for anything else aside from general illnesses cuz it is not solely about the results but the expert advice / consultation. So anything to do with Vagina and womb - I would straightaway chiong to gynae cuz gynaes are the vagina specialists. leg injury straight to ortho. I would only go to the gp for general illnesses or if I really need a mc

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    Ebichan: call the clinic first see whether they do the blood hcg test first ornt

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    wooh i dont go and smell! i just use toilet paper and water to clean up!

    admire you all.....hehe....

    Ebichan- not all clinic do the blood test...my nearby clinic doesnt. So like what littlehamster suggest- call before you go.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    haha dont't need to put the nose close, the smell quite strong

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Haha… please dont’t stereotype me as CM-sniffer. I admit I like to observe my CM and I only sniff it when I have to tell whether I’m expelling my own CM or semen. It’s just those 2-3x during my fertile phase. Kaka I dont’t have a fetish of hiding in the toilet and do the sniffing thing.


    LOLOL.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I need to use panty liner after after bd as well... I also dont't like the smell...
    My morning sickness have started today... Can't eat anything... We ladies suffer before and after... Just complain husband.. you guys only enjoy..

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    oh me too..i always use pantyliner the next day after BD because if not, my underwear would be all wet and I hate the wet wet feeling...

    ya no need to put close to the nose and smell....cos the smell will auto reach your nose....hahaha...

    i agree with littlej too....some GPs have no knowledge about gynaecology.....even if they can get your blood test back, they won't know how to advise you....and then, you would have to visit gynae....i'd rather go straight to gynae than having to pay twice the cost and trouble...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by Thelay View Post
    I need to use panty liner after after bd as well... I also dont't like the smell...
    My morning sickness have started today... Can't eat anything... We ladies suffer before and after... Just complain husband.. you guys only enjoy..
    Congrats!!! Sorry you have morning sickness but it's a little suffering for great things to come!!! I'm very happy for you and hope it starts snowballing for us here, lol

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I must report!!
    I think I'm having some kind of stain. Maybe AF is on its way. I'm sad but also maybe relieved it's not early onset menopause or god knows what

    I will try harder next cycle!

    Btw any girls do BBT charting?
    My temp dropped this morning. This BBT device I have I feel is quite reliable. I'm bored in the office man. Maybe I should switch excel sheets and do charting a bit LoL
    Been doing it for 3 weeks only but at 7:30 every day in the morning.

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