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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    rav3naers
    your hubby hands will b even more bz now that you r preggers!

    Shez
    my hubby also very kacau with the hands every now and then.
    are all of your hubby just as kacau?
    i am wondering if he will behave if we were to have children some day.
    Last edited by quincy1986; 02-04-2013 at 05:51 PM.

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    Dragontail, hugs and glad you have spent a nice day.

    Littlej, thank you so much to keep us in your prayers. Really hope our wish will be granted

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    I kacau my hubby. He's a tv addict. Got tv, no me. And usually the programmes he watches are super boring like what car shows. To entertain myself, I touch him everywhere. He got no reaction becos his senses, like most men, cannot multi task too..........

    I dont't know if I can still behave like that after I have children.........

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    my mum was a B when younger and after her 2 kids and at 54, she's now almost a D !
    but ladies if you want more boobies you need estrogen dominance. (I obviously wouldn't recommend any hormonal imbalance, unless you're super desperate lol) so drink lots of soya and eat taohuay.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    littlej, thanks for the prayer, very sweet of you

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    Quincy: you r right. He 'attacks' me alot now. Haha...he will sometimes get so fired up that he will popiah himself in his blanket and pretend to whine. Quite torturing that we can't bd :x

    I still get horny, is it normal?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TVH:774780
    I kacau my hubby. He's a tv addict. Got tv, no me. And usually the programmes he watches are super boring like what car shows. To entertain myself, I touch him everywhere. He got no reaction becos his senses, like most men, cannot multi task too..........

    I dont't know if I can still behave like that after I have children.........
    TVH: now that we cannot bd, i want to *ahem* service him so will kacau him but he also engrossed in his tv shows plus i think he feels like it would seem like showing live porn to baby. He weirdo...hahahahaha

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    is it all guys the same? tv shows that important to them?? very hard to peel my hubby's eyes off the tv

    i still feel horny now but sex now feels very weird..maybe it's psychological like afraid to strain the uterus too much...so very cautious...end up didn't enjoy at all cos kinda painful nowadays....and also very dry....

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Thanks littlej, shez, prayinghard. You all made me wanna cry one. I wanna hug you all back. I feel touched me being in your prayer, littlej. I guess I need that.

    Today I've done something I havent done for a looooong time. An ahpek came up to me. Cooked up a story (ok .... usually I'm on guard and feel most of the time, these people are not genuine) and needed money. So I passed him some. Not much but I thought "what if he really really has lost his EZ link card and have no money to call home or take train back to his loved ones?". He's so old already... and I can't be much poorer when someone like him comes up to me once in every 10 years. I just hope he is home safe with his family right now.

    ebichan, I sketch and do acrylic painting. Usually animals and people. Trying to get better at landscape though.

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    I read about this before : Why men like to get themselves stuck in front of the TV after a long day?

    Once upon a time, there was this era called Stone Age. The men will go out in the day and hunt for food. The women will be at home taking care of what's to be done and the children. When the men are back with their livestock, the women will set up the logs and the men will start the fire. And the cooking shall begin.

    When dinner is finished, the woman and children will adjourn to their hut and call it a day. The men, however, will gather around the open fire and do "fire gazing"; a moment where they interact and talk about their glory catch of the day (I guess just like some men I know now also discuss about what level they have achieved in Candy Crush. I dont play so I dont know what's the catch ) and perhaps their aspirations. Therefore, TV now is like "fire" in ancient times. They will gaze at TV and shut themselves off from our presence. TV-gazing has become a natural association of such in today's context.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    rav3naers
    i read elsewhere that preggy women can be very high

    TVH
    my hubby can be glued to tv n ipad.
    but when i am glued, he feel like kacau me

    Dragontail
    you r so talented !!

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    Dragontail: where you get all those info? @..@ built in mechanism in men

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    no wonder my husband says he needs his "me time"

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    Rav, either I read from somewhere or heard it over radio. Some relationship guru shared this. When I told this to my dearie, he gave me that yaya, there-you-see face.

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    Dragontail! your paintings are awesome! Wish i can sit down quietly to draw & paint again. Think i let the passion fade over the years . you r really gifted

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hello all ladies..

    @dragontail - glad to know that you are doing well.. take care dear

    Adding on the discussion going on, I love more than my hubby to touch his body when we are just layed down..just move across my hands slowly throughout.. touch all the sensitive parts too.. I like the soft feeling of his asset too, feels good to touch.. he also touches me but I feel I am more inclined towards touching than I am shy..shy..

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail
    You have good technical skills. I like how you drew the fine feathers on the bird to give that visual texture.
    What background do you use for the dog?
    Are you self-taught?

    I went to art school too then drop out and switch to normal uni but cannot make it one.

    Speaking of men and TV... my husband of late, is glued to his iphone playing games. I find it really annoying.
    It is one of those with Social networking where you form a team and battle together. (it's Japanese) and sometimes I think he chats
    I dont like it because i would be upset he chats to other girls !LOL I mean, I understand he needs to relax like this but its annoying.
    I dont want to nag either so I keep quiet.

    My husband loves baseball so when baseball season (Japanese tv) he cannot stop watching. I dont understand it.

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    Guess the saying.."all men are all visual creatures" is very true after all...without graphics, i think they will feel very lost

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Oh my dragontail - You're talented! clap clap! Is there a pix of your dog? Pray share! BTW, glad you're feeling slightly better

    BTW dragontail - I think your tale of stone age came from "Men are from mars, women are from venus" - Sounds familiar. Hahaha. In that book, it also states something about men retreating into their caves. So if he needs that "me time" or "boys time", give it to him - dont't ask, dont't nag, dont't bother. And I think something about men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they spring back - so sometimes they need to pull away then feel closer. Oh gosh, I read that book like eons ago and it's now coming back to me in bits and pieces!

    Hmm - I didn't feel very horny during my first trimester. Maybe I did a darn good job of convincing myself not to feel anything so I won't give in to any urge. But hahha I "serviced" my dear - I think in these 3 months, he has touched my boobs more times than in the last year. He's now like - "wa really bigger". And I would be like, "chey - last time you say you not a boobs man...."

    And oh I cannot kacau my hubby when he's surfing on 1) golf + cars 2) watching his movies / dramas / TV 3) playing his games. He would swat me away like I'm some irritating fly. But when he want some action, it's his way and no other way. So even when I'm reading a super exciting part of a book, he will take the book away and kacau me. Sometimes I find it irritating but aiya, I figured if I dont't make him happy, then who else do I make happy - anyway, it's still happily ever after

    Oh talk about making boobs bigger! I've tried all ways when I was 18 years old. Everyday - Drink HL milk, eat bean curd / drink soya bean + eat papaya and drinking papaya milkshare (And I hate papayas) but to no avail. It was the same size before and after the 6 months experiment. Only my hips and butt grew bigger.

    Ebichan - My dear chats on car forums and some of them have formed a private facebook group with very frequent messaging. And y'know, I do know of ladies who purposely go into car forum websites to pick up men. So yeah sometimes I also dont't like but what to do. like what I said above from "men are from mars, women are from venus", you need to give the man his "cave time" - And it's a matter of trust I guess. For me, I trust that he loves me and will honor the promises. Besides, I can't be stalking him 24/7 My thinking is, if my man wants to be naughty / playful online or offline - All I can say is, I know I've done my very best and I can face myself straight in the mirror every morning.

    But that's just my opinion!!! I'm think I'm a bit of an anomaly sometimes. Take for example, my bffs think we're weird cuz we keep our phones seperate. As in, I dont't even know the password to his phone and vice versa....

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    little J - oh!!! its great your husband appreciates your boobs! hehe I would be happy but i understand mine being so small, my husband really cant play with them LOL
    Yeah you are right you know. What can we do. Need to give them their time and also need to trust that they honor and love us.
    Maybe I'm too needy I dont know.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Littlej - indeed i do drink lots of HL milk during puberty.... my dad side were all flat-chested.... as mum side were all big bone size, so im short, only 156cm so therefore got the D, mum always joke im not their daughter, cos figure dont look like them

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    good morning all
    and good morning to CD11.

    yes i agree with Missy10 diet is important.
    i skipped meals during school days.
    and now that some of us are pregnant, i urge all do not worry about our figure post pregnancy at this moment.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Littlej>> didn't your breast sore? My poor husband doesn't even dare to touch me... Lol... I m so emotional and short tempered.. I feel guilty too..

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    morning girls......... got a silly qns to ask. I know BD is not allowed during 2ww. But what about wet dreams?! I felt like shit now because this is something that we can't control. T-T

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    How are you feeling today, especially all the preggie boobies ladies here?

    Rav, oh when did you stop painting? What did you like to paint?

    Ebichan, the doggie painting is on canvas. I treated the white canvas with a colored based coat first. I am self taught since I'm not going pro A little interest that makes me happy.

    Littlej, I was trying to paint my sis' dog. A frenchie. Hope you could tell. Ha!

    Talking about men-space.... I think it's important we let them have some. Just like we ladies need it as well. But of course, it all begins with trust. Sometimes, I wonder why my man never gets jealous. Like I wanna see how it looks on him . I mean he never feels anything when I tell him this guy friend or ex boyfriend once a blue moon asks for a catch up with me. He just says go l.or. But you know we ladies ... if a girl asks him for lunch, I will ask 101 questions. Even for our wedding, he asked me to invite two of my ex-boyfriends (because we are still in contact as friends). See, he is like that. He's cool about it. I mean if he invited his ex-girlfriends to our wedding, I will throw eggs at them. LOL just kidding.

    So the way he handles such, has an effect on me. I feel trust is the foundation of how long we've been together and in love for 10 over years now.

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