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    Indeed, natural or iui or ivf, depends on many factors. My bff did her first ivf months ago and it failed. Gynae said there was sign of implantation. But somewhere somehow, it didnt go further than that. Her hubby teared when he heard that. Awww...I feel for them.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    @poohy - ya went for my first IUI a couple months back but failed unfortunately. New gyn told me that there is no point in doing IUI if my tubes are faulty so must get to the root of the problem first... i think iui as compared to IVF is soo much cheaper and more convenient...

    @Dagontail - my new gyn said couples who go for IVF will tend to have higher expectations on the success rate so the emotional part is more intense... is your bff going for another round of ivf? my colleague's wife went for the 2nd round and she got bingo.

    @Missy10 - didnt know you are a property agent. must have made a ton of $$ during the good old days. Hee.. My agent told me his owners will grab at the first tenants if the price is realistic. Primary market is still ok. Secondary market not doing well. Good luck for Newest!!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail, hugs your bff on our behalf She's going for a next IVF? It will be successful eventually, took my ex-colleague-and-friend the 2nd try to get it. I can't bear to see my hubby cry (though I doubt he would over the matters of children :x) so I hope it won't have to get to that (more like I'll cry)...

    Missy10: Good luck (dont't see aunty tomorrow) and more sales!!

    poohy: I'll be praying for you - keep us updated! Go with a happy, open heart, and take things in your stride, I guess.

    Glitterystar: What's the difference in price between IUI and IVF? I'm sorry that your first IUI failed, are you intending to go for another round with your new gynae? Packing and unpacking can be a chore - I hated it when I was studying overseas! :x Now I also very scared my tubes are faulty or maybe something is wrong but just first few checks with gynae can't pinpoint only... :x

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    @qinn - My hus paid for the IUI procedure so i didn't have exact numbers but it's less than $1K including the washing of the sperms. And he doesnt quite track his expenses.. sigh. For IVF, my new gyn told me it will cost approx $15K. With 50% government subsidy, it will be about $7.5K.
    I dont think tube blockage is that common. That said, you may want to consult and ask your gyn about it. So dont worry unnecessarily.

    Hope you are looking forward to your business trip... i love cold climate.. hee.

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    Qinn ..why so many sad face?

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    Dragontail. ..aww this is sad. Guys seldom drop tears...the hubby must be really sad.

    Glitterystar ya iui def cheaper and easier than ivf. Heh hope my this round successful....my gynae giving me 2 chances only. ..guess if both times fail then will suggest ivf again.

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    Yes my bff is going for her 2nd ivf in july. This seems to be her only choice (though some friends tell her to seek 2nd opinion). Both her tubes are blocked, near the womb, as such that the gynae couldnt unblock them even though she was there lying on the operating table. She said will give it a shot for this 2nd ivf and pray for best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thelay:788521
    Thanks... I m so lazy type... last time take up those facial packages and end up never go. Do you all taking pregnancy milk. I get some sample from gynae. I m normally not a milk person.

    Have you all sign up for antenatal pkg? My gynae pkg is 800 for 8 session plus 1 post delivery. I m still thinking whether to chnge doc or not. But very lazy to see another gynae. My current one is quite ok.

    Today went for 14 weeks check up. Baby keep moving .. cant see the gender... husband was disappointed. I told him cant tell means girl. Lol...
    I dont drink milk for pregnant women though my daughter (?!) would always nag me to buy when we pass by the milk powder aisle in the supermarket until I told her that i am drinking milk...I have low fat milk along with my cereals for breakfast. ..
    Kandang Kerbau Hospital dont't have any package. .so would be charged by per visit..but my gynae would usually ask his staff to waive the charges if I see him just to review the results. .so save abit of costs..
    Last edited by nataliengbh; 15-05-2013 at 08:02 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glitterystar:788556
    @poohy - ya went for my first IUI a couple months back but failed unfortunately. New gyn told me that there is no point in doing IUI if my tubes are faulty so must get to the root of the problem first... i think iui as compared to IVF is soo much cheaper and more convenient...

    @Dagontail - my new gyn said couples who go for IVF will tend to have higher expectations on the success rate so the emotional part is more intense... is your bff going for another round of ivf? my colleague's wife went for the 2nd round and she got bingo.

    @Missy10 - didnt know you are a property agent. must have made a ton of $$ during the good old days. Hee.. My agent told me his owners will grab at the first tenants if the price is realistic. Primary market is still ok. Secondary market not doing well. Good luck for Newest!!
    Glittery - there's no such thing as easy money

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by Missy10 View Post
    Glittery - there's no such thing as easy money
    I have a couple of personal friends (property and insurance) who work really hard for their success - jiayou Missy10!

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    Qinn, are you Ok? Hug hug.

    Poohy, wish you best of the best luck tomorrow ok, your gynae skill will definitely success on first attempt.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Qinn- how was doc???

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    Quote Originally Posted by qinnnsenne:788675
    Quote Originally Posted by Missy10 View Post
    Glittery - there's no such thing as easy money
    I have a couple of personal friends (property and insurance) who work really hard for their success - jiayou Missy10!
    I know no hard work no money....

    WHY so sad??????

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hmm - In the afternoon, I had an ache on my bottom right of the tummy - kinda like a stitch kind of ache?!? dont know if it is normal... But I was so busy at work that I forgot about it... I just got home and remembered about it! Anyway, I am seeing the gynae tomorrow to pass up my detailed scan report so will ask.

    Thelay - I am drinking Meiji skimmed milk. I dont't like milk actually, only drink it to prevent osteoporosis.. And Meiji is the only brand I like. Oh, and Anlene the extra calcium packet milk.

    Dragontail - very corny 咸菜豆腐汤! you mean your husband can just take oysters like that?!? Me - I need to have fresh oysters with wine... Actually I never experienced the aphrodisiac effect of oysters before. Hmm, maybe I drank too much wine so mabuk already... wishing your BFF all the best too...

    Missy10 - happy selling and hope aunty goes on leave!!! I admire the tenacity of your profession - if it is me, I would have a) stabbed the client or b) stabbed myself.

    Glitterstar - hope you found a new place that is suitable? And when is your op scheduled? Sorry maybe I have forgotten but have you done your hsg?

    Poohy - tomorrow is the day!! Quick talk to your hubby balls now and ask the mr sperms to 加油 and swim well. Also talk to womb and ask miss eggto be good and receptive. Seriously!! These cells all add up to a baby - so I am sure the cellular structure can be "responsive".

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    i like oysters with tabasco pepper sauce.

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    Littlej, my man is a oyster-man anytime. I see him eat like it's such a porn to watch. Haa. But I can't stand the fishy smell.

    He says wanna eat tonight again and tomorrow too because he wants the swimmers to be "concentrated" on friday bd. I think somewhere in chancery has a wholesaler on fresh oysters. Big ones. Gonna hunt it down later.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Rainy morning! Hope everyone zzz well

    Dragontail - let me know where to get big fat shiny oysters. Maybe I can do a oyster and wine house party after I pop. Everyone will head home horny after

    Poohy - today is the day! Is IUI all done? Good luck! Praying for guai sperms and egg for ya!

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    Littlej..Thanks wilk pray over the sperm and egg later to meet and implant.
    But am upset today....firstly my hubby sperms not a lot..very very little. Then next is raining and traffic jam...send the sperms in late....sigh. both me and hubby got a bit frustrated and upset.
    .l
    Now waiting for lab to complete washing..dont know still got any left. ..sigh. pray for me ladies...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I’ve checked and the place is at Greenwich Ave. I will call to confirm the price (heard it’s $2.50/$3.50 each depends on size) then will swing by. Ok will update you if they are good!

    LOLOL this kind of party everyone will like. Not bringing home door gifts but horniness. Priceless.

    Poohy, wishing you all the luck! dont’t worry dont’t worry… it’s the quality and not quantity that counts. Awaiting your goody news.

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    Poohy, dont't worry about the amount, after wash all the powerful ones will be inserted into you.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Poohy - agree with dragontail - it's the intensity and the strength, not the volume. The best wars were won with strength and strategy... Not mass numbers. Let us know how it goes...

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    Hi everyone..thank you for the encouragement! Im done and now can only pray for the positive. They said lower counts but still within the can get pregnant range...hope for the best and im now in 2ww!

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    Good luck poohy

    Take good care of the body so womb will be a comfortable place for the egg to grow into sticky bean.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail View Post
    Littlej, my man is a oyster-man anytime. I see him eat like it's such a porn to watch. Haa. But I can't stand the fishy smell.

    He says wanna eat tonight again and tomorrow too because he wants the swimmers to be "concentrated" on friday bd. I think somewhere in chancery has a wholesaler on fresh oysters. Big ones. Gonna hunt it down later.
    my hubby opposite. i like shell creatures he doesnt. sometimes feel he so wet blanket

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Good luck poohy! Rest more n avoid cold water!

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