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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    lishan - oh gosh!! I didnt grow up with a maid but i dont believe in hand wash clothes especially work shirts! Use hand wash function on the mahcine with lowest spin from the washing machine. And also, once the machine is done washing, immediately take out to hang, it will be less crumpled. If my hubby says the 'my mom will do for me' to me, then i will tell him to marry his mother pls.. dont get offended ok?

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    happilymarried: no no i'm not, dont't worry. in fact, i can use that line on him. hahahah!

    the reason i hand wash, becoz my mother in law says white cannot mixed with other colour and cannot leave it there for too long, as it will turn yellow. which means, i can't wait for 1 whole week to machine wash all his shirts and no mixing with my coloured clothes. well, 意思浅浅,so i just handwash loh...LL.

    now i see my hands, i always feel like crying....我的玉手. T_T

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    Happily married, I firmly believe it can be taught from young. So, we should educate our kids next time, I will let them know this is not the sixties and everyone is in equal status. No such thing as the men should be served. Believe in what you think its right and pass down to the next generation. Oh I m in the 10th dpo but I m sad cos the temp dropped this morning.

    Dragontail, yes I just feel that my face tweaked when I saw the drop. N really thanks for being so encouraging! I appreciate it. Yes, I must firmly tell myself nothing is impossible and miracles do happen! From now, I m gg to bd as and when I like n only stop when AF comes.

    Lishan, same! I dont care for my case. My mother in law has to get used to I am not gg to serve the man like a king in the past. We do work and we do bring money home. We are as tired. There is no such thing as after work, woman must do this must do that. I think you have to slowly slowly let your husband know that setting up a family is not just a woman's job. A man needs to helpout as well or else the woman will die from juggling work stress and home stress. (Diff story if you are a stay home mummy). what is FML?

    Why dont you do a O test? heee...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Lishan, you can wash all the light colour clothes together right? I dont hand wash at all except my panties which my mother in law said washing machine cannot wash panties. -.-
    My mum says there should be no issue. Sigh! Its ok.

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    Lishan, I feel for you. The only thing I will handwash are my delicate lingerie. No way Im going to hand wash anything else. My mother in law has her way of washing clothes too and frankly, I dontt wash my hubbys clothes. I only wash my very own. To me, if she has her way, then let her wash. I dontt want to wash my way and end up she thinks Im not doing good enough (although I feel she wont say things like that as she is a very understanding new age mother in law).

    Urm have you ever tried dontt care and just throw your hubbys dirty laundry all into the washer?? Heheh sorry if Im sounding like a devil here.

    For me, I always get creamy CM a day or two after Ive O-ed. It will last all the way till maybe 2 days before my AF show ups. But it depends hows your CM pattern like in a cycle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lishan0613 View Post
    happilymarried: no no i'm not, dont't worry. in fact, i can use that line on him. hahahah!

    the reason i hand wash, becoz my mother in law says white cannot mixed with other colour and cannot leave it there for too long, as it will turn yellow. which means, i can't wait for 1 whole week to machine wash all his shirts and no mixing with my coloured clothes. well, 意思浅浅,so i just handwash loh...LL.

    now i see my hands, i always feel like crying....我的玉手. T_T
    Oh..i dont care ...i throw everything inside the washing machine other than those fabric requiring hand wash, panties and bra..my husband not particular..so i will just mix all together,..white with colours..hehe..my mother in law dont dictate how i wash my clothes..even when i stayed at her house for a few mths.

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    love baby: i have been trying to brainwash him even before we are married, but he just lip svc me with his 'orh orh, ok, i will do', but end of the day also never do. i nag until i sian ..so i surrender and pick up his dirty socks n underwear to wash. >.<

    FML - f*** my life =X

    I'm actually in a delimma, dont know to test or not. i keep telling myself to relax and let nature take its course, so i'm refraining to test, on the other hand, i dont know if i have O-ed. hmm...

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    Lovesbaby, same same. Although my mother in law is understanding kind, she still holds some old days belief that you cant wash woman’s panties with your man’s laundry. The reasons given I cannot accept. In fact, I feel kinda offended. I mean what’s so “bad” “dirty” about soiled panties? It’s his wife’s panties what. I mean men's brief not smelly too meh? I heard some grannies ever said if you washed soiled panties with your hubby’s, he wont strike 4D. Huh. Before I moved in with my hubby, he also never strike 4D what (not that he buys regularly). I mean I did wash my laundry and his together a few times. My mom always says it’s ok to do that too. I feel fine, and so is my man. He also says such belief are BS . I feel if my mother in law is puntang, then she can wash his son’s clothes all she wants. I dont’t mind! When I have my own house, I can wash his clothes finally and dont’t need to separate mine from his. Haa. Of course I will separate the whites, and blacks, and colored.
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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    lishan - Invest in super good night hand cream. Even better - make your hubby buy you the hand cream!


    i think it is just weird. when hubby & i were living with his parents, i have to wash my own panties because cannot mix with the mens underwear. So ok, i did just that. And i can tell you ladies hands are not made for touching soap powder every single or even alternate days. thankfully that just lasted around 8-9 months. After that, they came to live with us in our house, since im the MRS of MY house, i wash everything together (4 persons underwear). haha. i dont care because since it is my washing machine and my house, i make the rules.

    By the way, does EWCM happen before or after O? Should it happen before or after O? Or is everyone different? I noticed i had EWCM but it was during my medicated cycles, so i am just curious.

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    dragon/natalie: how i wish my mother in law just take his clothes and wash loh...i will be over the moon
    i did throw his shirt into the machine before, but kanna caught, then kanna nag by my mother in law....zzzz

    few mths back, he was away for 2 weeks for reservist, it was the best time of my life, coz i no need to do his laundry! hahaha!!!

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    Dragontail - i got the will not strike 4D reason too. In a way, she says will bring bad luck in general to the men so play safe better. I asked her before in WHAT way and she couldnt answer. OMG. Pure nonsense to me. A soiled piece of clothing is a soiled piece of clothing. Husband and wife what is there to separate in terms of washing.. (of course my more delicate and slightly expensive clothing which i dont't mind a quick hand wash once in awhile )

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    Lishan, if I am you, I will also just act blur. Sorry to say, if you continue to do for him, then you are also spoiling him. you can start slow. Sometimes you do for him sometimes you dont. If not, he will take for granted afterall he is used not to wash all these years. Haaa. testing should be fine. If not, you just see if you have the elastic CM. that should be quite accurate I guess.

    Dragontail, high five! My mother in law is nice but she also has some super old belief. By the way, when I wash my panties, I didnt mix with my hubby and yet she say, in her house, panties are not allowed in the washing machine at all. I was like "OK FINE" in my heart. A bit upset n pissed, not as if I ask her to wash for me but telling my washing machine is out of bound. So, now I m manually washing it. But things will be different when my house comes, well my washing machine is new age washing machine. Out of respect, I dont mix but I dont see why my washing machine cannot wash certain clothes. Its nosenses!
    Preciously, if she has so many concerns, she can hand wash all her son's clothes. I am fine.

    The bottom line is, I dont want to pick up a fight but I want her to know that we come from different places, brought up differently and I hope we can respect each other instead of refraining each other to do certain thing. Agree?

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    Lishan, yes yes please apply handcreams. I do that few x a day and I must also apply body cream right after shower. If I do chores like washing toilet, I must wear gloves too. Must take care of yourself ok.

    Happilymarried, haha yup you’re the boss now. I look forward to be my boss too!

    About the EWCM, should be before O, and maybe during O-day too. These days, the EWCM will surely disappear after O (becomes creamy lotion like that). Last time, I still get nagging EWCM for a few days after O.

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    I only wash my own bras n panties, the rest just throw into my front load machine..... if stay on own, have no choice to wash myself..... i cone from a no-need do housework family.... but now i need to do everything, and even need to satisfy my hubby sweet tooth....
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    Missy 10, you are so sweet!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lishan0613 View Post
    dragon/natalie: how i wish my mother in law just take his clothes and wash loh...i will be over the moon
    i did throw his shirt into the machine before, but kanna caught, then kanna nag by my mother in law....zzzz

    few mths back, he was away for 2 weeks for reservist, it was the best time of my life, coz i no need to do his laundry! hahaha!!!
    why cannot throw shirt in washing machine? hmmmzzz...my mother in law dont comment on anything that i do..since the day i patok with her son which is 14 yrs back...she also dont complain to my husband. ...cos no use...
    rather,if she has anything that she need my husband to do, she will ask me to go and inform my husband..
    having said that, i dont think i am the model daughter-in-law..maybe she chim sim already :P ...or maybe she complain but i dont understand her language..hehe

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    Missy10 - that looks nice! Which reminds me, i havent baked in ages. I get lazy with all the kitchen cleaning. And now looking at your pic, i am going to get a snack for myself now. Oh i really hope i can get my BFP soon.. so i can get green light to snack more and at any time..

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    dragon: i apply handcream right after my toilet break in office, but when im back home, always forget. haizz...think i must invest in handmask...time to shop on Qoo10

    missy: you are so nice to your hubby, what did you make for him?

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    Thanks lovesbaby

    Happilymarried, actually i only bake those simple cake.... hahaha lazy too....

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    natalie: coz i wash his shirt with my coloured clothing, but im very very sure that my clothing's colour dont't run that's y i dare to do that.
    i cant be washing his one shirt everyday with the machine ...like so waste water. later my mother in law complaint again...zzz...

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    wah handwash hubby's clothes? cool! saluate you!
    Hah, lucky my mother in law also dont do housework type....so she dont dare tell me all these stuff about washing and mixing of clothes. So I also just dump all clothes together into washing machine. Hubby cannot make noise coz i'm the one who put inside machine and hang! hahahaha...

    and now that my kiddo is older, i also dump her clothes and wash together with ours....hehehe

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Haha today is a D-IL rants about M-IL day. If all our M-ILs come together to have a thread I'm sure the thread is going to be a long one.

    We all might be M-ILs next time. I feel the best way is to close one eye. Peace.

    My goodness I'm so hungry today. I had breakfast at 9am and by 1130am I was so famished. So much so that I was trembling. Ate so many things during lunch. Now, I cant wait for my hubby to be off work soon so I can eat like a pig for dinner. I am like that days after O. :P

    What's for dinner, ladies?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail View Post
    Haha today is a D-IL rants about M-IL day. If all our M-ILs come together to have a thread I'm sure the thread is going to be a long one.

    We all might be M-ILs next time. I feel the best way is to close one eye. Peace.

    My goodness I'm so hungry today. I had breakfast at 9am and by 1130am I was so famished. So much so that I was trembling. Ate so many things during lunch. Now, I cant wait for my hubby to be off work soon so I can eat like a pig for dinner. I am like that days after O. :P

    What's for dinner, ladies?
    If my second one is also girl...think is my son-on-law's mother who will complain rather than i complain about my son in laws..ahahha ...cos i am not those who would cook..so got nothing to impart to them..housework, im still okay with it...

    dont think will want to stay with any of my kids when they are married ...too much trouble and chances that conflicts may arise are high since i am a very blunt person...*only my husband can tahan me*..

    what to eat..im hungry also..maybe will eat noodles...yum yum..

    but cannot eat too much at a go..or else there will be a merlion in the west..haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:792166
    Haha today is a D-IL rants about M-IL day. If all our M-ILs come together to have a thread I'm sure the thread is going to be a long one.

    We all might be M-ILs next time. I feel the best way is to close one eye. Peace.

    My goodness I'm so hungry today. I had breakfast at 9am and by 1130am I was so famished. So much so that I was trembling. Ate so many things during lunch. Now, I cant wait for my hubby to be off work soon so I can eat like a pig for dinner. I am like that days after O. :P

    What's for dinner, ladies?
    Then what about you planning to eat like a pig.....
    Have been craving for Ajisan Volcano Ramen since yesterday afternoon..... but doubt I can have it tonight.... hubby will only be home after 8pm

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