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This is a discussion on We are trying to concieve-ing! within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; dragontail, ya agree with littlej...you should show your hubby this page...then he will know he's not the only one who ...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    dragontail, ya agree with littlej...you should show your hubby this page...then he will know he's not the only one who has to go through SA test...it's actually very common

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Tvh - same! My hubby will ask things like can she be on top and how many times can she come. *faint*

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    Whahha seriously? Tvh and littlej, your hubbies can ask doc such questions? I cannot imagine mine will be like that. The first time he heard my gynae said "no sex from now for first trime", he already let out a hurhur shying away. I'm sure he wont ask like your hubbies do Even if he really really wants to know an answer to a sex question, he will make me ask instead.

    Ya! I think we try to bd then try to catch the swimmers into the cup (if lucky!!). I dont see how my man can diy himself into a cup. Lol. But , by when we must send in the sperm within an hour, after seeing the fertility specialist? If say I see the gynae on cd8-9.

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    Dragontail! Cannot BD then shoot in the cup! The sperms must b clean! The sample must be done through masturbation. And you are not supposed to BD at least 3 days before giving the sample. When you call to book the SA sample appt, the nurse will let you know the date your man must clear his army and the date to release into the cup. And oh ya, not just any cup, you need to get the small bottle from the clinic then the nurse will let you know which date you can come to provide cos they need to schedule with the lab too. On the date, you just quickly pass the bottle to the nurse.

    Wow littlej, your man even more power! Mine just ask if we can have sex only haha
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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    i am very unabashed myself. from watsons pharmacy counter to doctor's desk. wahaha~

    i am getting so heaty from the weather. getting headaches often. i want get myself some cooling drink T.T

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    Oh gosh I am so sua ku about the whole SA episode! Thanks TVH for enlightening. Hahaa I feel so silly now.

    I guess I have to put some effort in turning him on to diy. Really have to think of some strategy. Haa.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:794081
    Oh gosh I am so sua ku about the whole SA episode! Thanks TVH for enlightening. Hahaa I feel so silly now.

    I guess I have to put some effort in turning him on to diy. Really have to think of some strategy. Haa.
    You can masturbate for him hehe...no oral though...only hand job...

    If not, you do a sexy dance for him then he can diy himself.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hi Dragontail - when you see the doc he will advise what you need. Maybe only from second visit then doc decide need sa?? Ya tvh is right. you can't just DIY into any cup =p must be a sterilized beaker provided by the clinic. And no bd 3 days before. And you can't help cuz salvia will 'interfere' so hahaha maybe If you do at home you can help provide visual stimulation but he no touchy you you no touchy him!

    Ya I cannot believe my hubby ask that kind of questions. *shy*

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    lol littlej how come your hubby wants to know how many times you can come? how is that related to a gynae visit?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Because he thinks that we should just make quickie love. Me come once, he come once - all done. Nothing too much otherwise the lil' muffin will be having a tsunami.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    littlej: wow that's very imaginative

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    Yeah guess I have to be a visual porn-wife-in-da-house on that fateful day

    Great Sg Sale is on! Got some good buys on basics from cotton on, forever21, and some random shops in orchard.

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    hahaha thanks all for being so funny.. & making me laugh..

    dragontail - dont need to feel swaku.. you are so cute! we all will have our first time in any area.. sexy dance or anything visual you can try! strictly no saliva! the cup is sterile to prevent contamination to sperm sample. so you only open when hubby is ready to deposit. also I know some clinics/labs have 2 sizes. check & get the larger cup! easier~

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    Dragontail - thats when you need 战袍 too....

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    quincy - if heaty you can take room temperature 100+.. no cold drinks!! keep up the good work!

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    elppa - you r right!! men only need to do in cup whereas we ladies have to go for multiple scans & blood tests etc etc... so dragontail... your hubby must be brave ya?

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    Happilymarried, oh then I will ask for upsize cup. Not that my man can fill up one. Haa.

    Missy10, yes my man is a visual animal. Tell you frankly, first 10-15mins of our BD is he enjoying the sight of me in 战袍。And he is already very li ki ta the moment he sees me all geared. Aiyo sometimes wanna get into action I also have to wait for him to see finish I think that fateful day I also have to include that .

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    Happilymarried, you are so right. Men just shoot and bonus point is he gets orgasm. Women have to have a stranger poke a finger into them, insert a cold apparatus into her delicate part, blue dye flushed into her tubes, probably pops in more pills then the man, etc. And we dont even get an orgasm from all these! Hello?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    i think i gonna b a disappointment for this month. just treated myself n hubby to starbucks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:794109
    Happilymarried, you are so right. Men just shoot and bonus point is he gets orgasm. Women have to have a stranger poke a finger into them, insert a cold apparatus into her delicate part, blue dye flushed into her tubes, probably pops in more pills then the man, etc. And we dont even get an orgasm from all these! Hello?
    haha.. yeah man.. on top of all these we still have to wash their clothes n underwear... women should be treasured more & pampered in every way possible!

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    dragontail - thought I had a spare one at home to take a pic but I think I discarded it. here's a pic from internet. I thought it was weird to receive one that is smaller fr 1 of the clinics I trial & error at - prof ng soon chye.. I didnt continue with him becuz he had a horrible nurse. she was so mean. talks loudly ( partially yelling your hubby has to put sperm in cup, does he know the procedure. . me so embarrassed!!) & has no sympathy for patients like me who needed help.

    your hubby may grow to find the cup okie becuz of all the special seduction from you! haha... treat it as a fum thing.. remember to note down time of deposit & days of abstinence
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    Quote Originally Posted by happilymarried:794049
    missy10 - I got the constipated look too! its like my hubby has questions but too paiseh to ask... your countdown to 1st scan getting closer! so exciting!
    Im the one who climbed on him, and he will push me away... say dont want bd, scare will hurt my tummy n his precious inside.... say must wait after gynae visit... then i say man got needs, woman also got needs .....

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    Oh happilymarried, I'm with prof ng soon chye now haha. Agree the nurse has very low EQ. There is anothet nurse now and I think she is bettet, mote soft spoken. The auntie nurse now retreats more to backroom activities. I think got ppl complain about her. Anyway decided to stick with prof after I conceived after my first visit with him. He brings me luck!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    oh dear...if I encounter such a nurse I will be looking for the feedback form. I very bad and no give face one.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    happilymarried: I constantly remind hubby if he knows how much a woman needs to go through even before pregnancy. I am so glad I got his respect over time.

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