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We are trying to concieve-ing!

This is a discussion on We are trying to concieve-ing! within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Lucky you, Momo! 2nd cycle already jackpot. I was also "lucky" because the first cycle with traditional chinese medicine I also got ...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Lucky you, Momo! 2nd cycle already jackpot. I was also "lucky" because the first cycle with traditional chinese medicine I also got a bfp but didnt get full term. Anyway, for you, if it happened before (one shot fame!), it will happen again.

    Hmm I dont know what's your hubby's fetish... not sure sexy lingerie/dance works? When my man is stressed, I talk how dirty he also has no interest! On the contrary, if I tell him dont we want a baby? Then he will kinda gear up. Hee.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hehe Dragontail... I tried want baby? dirty talk? tried massage him? It is my fertile period this week, I'm on my CD 14 and my cycle is around 33 days. He just tell me dont distrub last evening... soooo i just retreat back to the room and sleep in tears when he do this to me.

    I just dont understand what is on his mind?? Maybe he dont want to have the 2nd kid that's why he is treating me this way??? I feel confused, lost and helpless *><* I just feel that my clock is ticking and may not be so lucky with the marksman shot, if he really dont't want I know what to do. But but he give me confused answers (sometimes want and sometimes dont't want) The reason why we didn't actively try for one is also because of this *-* haizzz

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ermmmm I would like to ask, wanted to try BW, I must confessed I've not done that before. Can recommend me a good one to try, want to see if after BW will be able to perk up my man!!! I am trying any way to arouse him ... am I too much???

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    sorry what is BW?

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    Hi momomum!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    BW = Brazilian Wax

    Hellow littlehamster!!

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    icic. it maybe something new for your hubby
    some guys like it hairy.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Really?? Hmmm I did tell my husband that I wanna try BW, he was like .... em do you need to do that??? T.T he make me more confused where to do BW or not +-T

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    momomum - lucky you! you can strike naturally so fast after seeing traditional chinese medicine. are you still seeing traditional chinese medicine again now? you can try the same sinseh with the same concoction of herbs that worked for you previously? I think im the only odd person here.. my beanies r created thru divine intervention. I pray & hope they r sticking well as I type this..

    hmmm momomum, i guess sometimes men need some serious talk. you have to communicate with him & find a way to turn each other down gently & nicely (maybe in this case more for him) its not too good to go to sleep crying.. maybe he is really going thru a really stressful period at work? both of you must be heading in the same direction before trying to concieve for #2. otherwise you will feel very stressed out.. as for BW.. haha my hubby has done it before for me. I will never go for BW cuz im too scared of pain there. but you can surprise your man & maybe he'll like it?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Thanks happilymarried!! I did tell him maybe he should go back to the doc for our 2nd baby... he wants to try natural a.k.a do it as n when he likes.... i feel he dont know my concerns and he feels he will still be a marksman for the 2nd time He did tell me it's a stressful time when we are trying for our 1st beanie when he has to bd soooo many times n he can't control his emotions and stress during the bd period like do at least 3 times for that fertile period.

    So this time round he was to go slow and steady and I would say it's almost no sex since my gal was born. Only had 3 times for the last 15 mths after the birth of my gal. I think I like sex more than him, I almost go amok if not for my gal!!! That is why I am asking myself, "Am I so unattractive that he dont wanna make love to me"!!! I really am doubting my appeal to my husband. Friends told me that I am very beautiful but what I want is my husband to love me and tell me I am beautiful to him not other guys around me??? Am I attracting the wrong man in my life!

    I really wanna try BW and see if it will turn him on .... alas with his remarks.... I kinda chicken out not because I scare pain but I scare what if what if he got turn OFF when he see me clean n bare @_@

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    Hi all.... just had my lunch.....
    Baby growing good....
    4 June - 6.2w
    18 June - 7.8w

    EDD brought forward 3 days

    Blood clot still there.... but gynae say its ok.... as long as baby growing....
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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    MoMoMum: just curious, have you already sat down and have a good talk with your hubby that you want a no. 2? it might be true that he does not want no. 2.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    MoMoMum: for myself i would like to have my pte covered with the bush because my skin is creased after so much bd. so much that i hope it grows more bushy but some of us have mentioned here removing the bush could lessen the irritation, and even perhaps the smell.

    maybe this one could help with your consideration.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missy10:799463
    Hi all.... just had my lunch.....
    Baby growing good....
    4 June - 6.2w
    18 June - 7.8w

    EDD brought forward 3 days

    Blood clot still there.... but gynae say its ok.... as long as baby growing....
    Missy10 - Wow your baby grows fast!! what is the w? 7.8w means? So when is your edd now? Take extra care still cuz dont wanna aggravate the bloodcot.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Missy, nice pic there! Hi lil beanie

    Quincy, we had a long chat about whether to have no. 2 Jan this year, he was very eager and brought me to my chinese sinseh to tiao my body as he knows my body weaken after giving birth. I did my BTT and also check my CM and body changes during each cycle since Jan. I was really working very hard to get the best time to BD since husband is not into sex at all =_= we only BD twice in May (and that's all from Jan till now) when we are in BKK for a short getaway, but that was not my fertile period.

    I had a funny cycle, had AF in Apr and then all the way till Jun for the next cycle, a whole 59 days cycle... it's the longest I had since I gave birth. dont know if I am gg to menopause soon looking at my long cycle..... oh no oh no oh no

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    Wonderful missy10! Your mummy is happy too?

    Happilymarried how are you feeling today? Talked to the double beanies today?

    Momo, pink parlour is not bad for first timer BW. I've found a cheaper one and I have signed up 2nd package with Blush Wax. I like to stick to the same therapist. I dont want 10 different women to be checking out my down there! If you really wanna try, I recommend pink parlour. I cant really share on pain factor as everyone's threshold is different and I do think I have high tolerance on pain. I feel nothing is ever ever near painful as labour pain so I think that makes me conquer pain, for now. Haa all in the mind.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    MoMoMum: in that case then i agree you should go back to your gynae. i think menopause can't be that early. i also think most likely it is stress for your hubby. my hubby also stress now from work

    at most do something else that can give him the mood? eat aphrodisiacs... watch porn? slowly slowly no hurry

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    Momo, haha menopause not yet not yet! If coming, I think I will get it first before you Maybe you can restart your traditional chinese medicine visits? I believe it can regulate your cycle.

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    Hubby called and said lets go eat oyster dinner tonight. Hee he is gearing up!

    Momo may I ask which sinseh you were visiting?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail View Post
    Qinnn, I read that some fishes are better to be avoided during bfp. Saba is one that might have mercury content which can be harmful to beanie.

    I have some stretchmarks from teenage fats which went away eventually (I mean the fats not the marks!). Butts and thighs. Didnt know how to take care or even knew there was such thing as stretch mark. So I do believe I will kerna new stretch marks again if bfp in later stage. So sad one. But I will still diligently apply if bfp .
    I just read until pg 255, I want to share with those preggy mummies a regime I have done since even before preggy, I scrub on a weekly basis and put on lotion, I just Johnson baby lotion I did not get any stretch marks at all. I feel that scrub is a very important to keep stretch marks away. I can't stand the smell of Clarins so I could only use something (Johnson baby lotion) that won't make me MS. I MS every day from morning till night for around 5 mths before my beanie allows me to eat.... Just to share my experience For information only.

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    Happilymarried - 7.8weeks, im surpised by the growth too....

    MMM - thanks....

    Dragon - think my mum teared..... i asked her to follow me for the scan, then she asked what's that blinking... hahahaha dont have this kind of scan when i was still inside her tummy.... and im her only child.... so happy that when she just saw my dad... keep telling him that she saw lil baby like kidney bean.... hahahahahhaha

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    quincy, oh I've not done it in my whole life so I dont know if mine is creased around my pte oh you tell me a point what if husband really got turn OFF by my creased pte instead.... I am quite bushy bushy there n so very quite tempted to try BW to clean it up since so many of the ladies tried and love it!! ^-^ hmmmm

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missy10:799463
    Hi all.... just had my lunch.....
    Baby growing good....
    4 June - 6.2w
    18 June - 7.8w

    EDD brought forward 3 days

    Blood clot still there.... but gynae say its ok.... as long as baby growing....
    Yay hello beanie...trust your gynae...no worries...grow fast well & strong

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail, may I know how much for 1 seesion of BW and where is Pink Parlour?? I went to the sinseh in Race course road, Nam Hua, but she is super duper pack during Sat, I have to wait at least half a day to see her and sometimes 5 hours for my turn +.+. Maybe you want to try her, she is Dr. Xu, very good with pregnancy. Her charges not to expensive like $25 for consult and med depends on what you are getting around $50 - $80 range.

    Thank you quincy... I hope he will tell me exactly what he wants .... I have been cool as a cucumber since Jan until now .... just got to see when husband is in the mood to bd or even try .... I hope he will be less stress in work soon....

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    Momo, I believe they have first timer special like 20ish if I'm not wrong. Can give a call to check. Geez was many years ago I went to them. My last visit was at Clarke quay but I'm sure that branch is gone. So maybe google to see their outlets now.

    I'm now with a new fertilty specialist. Stopped my traditional chinese medicine for 2 months already. Keeping fingers crossed.

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