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    Shez: is it the kind of weird heavy feeling that cm is coming out? I had that before af, ended up bfp & had that feeling up till 8 weeks of pregnancy. As long as af not here, got chance!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Shez: maybe is good sign?? hehe

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Rav, it's that kinda feeling like your panty feels soiled, & you think AF came unannounced and you have just super stained yourself.

    I have had CM (non ewcm) till about fri, before being dry over the weekend.

    Ooo I also hope it's a good sign! If AF comes this cycle, I will be visiting a fertility specialist to get some advice. Previously, I was just visiting a gynae.

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    I dont think I can do any shopping today. I just lost 1 twin. doc said due to chromosone defects. bye bye twin b. mummy will miss you.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Shez, hope its a good sign for you!!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Oh no!!! happilymarried... BIG huggsssss dear I'm sorry to hear about twin b. Take care of yourself ya !

    Shez... I have the same signs as you .... we pray for the best that AF no come for the next 9 mths !!!

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Oh no happilymarried! Sorry to hear about twin b! Do rest well - do you need to do any procedures since twin a is still growing well?

    Momomum, oooo I keep my fingers crossed for you too!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by happilymarried View Post
    I dont think I can do any shopping today. I just lost 1 twin. doc said due to chromosone defects. bye bye twin b. mummy will miss you.
    happilymarried, please feel okay and be okay. twin a needs you more now stay happy

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Happilymarried, sorry to hear that . Pls take care, dont't think so much. You have twin a who needs your care! . My sis-in-law also the same case, lost one of her twin but the one got deliver is very cute and healthy! Stay positive is most important for now

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    Sorry to hear your news happilymarried.. stay positive for twin a!

    I've been suffering from breast tenderness for the past 3-4 days (more severe than usual) and I think it's a sign that my AF is coming.. only good thing is that I can ask hubby to help me 'relieve' my breast tenderness.. lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by happilymarried:805930
    I dont think I can do any shopping today. I just lost 1 twin. doc said due to chromosone defects. bye bye twin b. mummy will miss you.
    So sorry to hear that. But twin a is doing ok right? Stay strong. Hugs.

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    thanks ladies appreciate your suport. the tears r finally pouring in once I hide in my car. I saw twin a waving n kicking and im very thankful for that. but now I finally know what a miscarriage feels like. I feel so tired of life suddenly. I went thru so much to get my babies. y does this have to happen?? doc said she doesnt see any signs of cramping or bleeding. cervix is still shut right now. any bleeding must go to her immed. just blood test today to test for some infection markers or something. I was just so dazed.

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    Take care happilymarried. .. be strong ..

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Happilymarried sorry to hear about the twin b. Like what others have said, you have to stay strong for twin a after going through so much. Jia you!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Happilymarried: sorry to hear about twinb.. I know its difficult to not be sad. But stay well n think positive for twina ya. Take loads of care!. Hugs!

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    thanks ladies for all your kind words. you make me cry even more. heh. i just cannot rub out their images in my mind. twin a was waving madly as if saying mummy im doing well n twin b was in a kneeling position as if saying im sorry mummy. my sweet baby. its just so hard to think that less than 2 weeks ago I saw them on 3d scan both with healthy heartbeats.


    keikokon & shez - breast tenderness n light plain discharge r good signs. I had a bit of both. plus fatigue. so rest well for the next week or so ya? quincy n momomum too! momomum aren't you late for af already?
    Last edited by happilymarried; 08-07-2013 at 05:32 PM.

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    cherriejoy - thanks! I hope my case is just like your sis in law. by the way have you gotten your blood test result back?

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    Happilymarried : sorry to hear about the news. Hugs! Twin a will be very very strong for twin b. Pls take care!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    happilymarried - my prayers to you. Cry as much as you want today and tomorrow. Maybe what you can consider doing tomorrow is to do something to bid goodbye to Twin b - Pray at temple / church or wherever. Write your feelings down so that one day you can read to Twin A and let him/her understand how you felt then and make that the one last goodbye note. And make that the one last cry.. Once you've done the final act, you have to live for the living. Remember, you're a proud mummy - there is still a life beating inside you *love dub love dub*. So look at it from a glass half full (not a glass half empty). You have to live positively and be happy - you wouldn't want a sad sad baby right?

    i think life works in mysterious ways. what's meant to be yours, is meant to be yours. And what doesn't break you, makes you stronger. You have the support and the love from all of us here

    *hugs hugs hugs*
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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    happilymarried: Sorry to hear about twin B... hope twin a will stay strong! go home early and rest more..

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dear happilymarried, here comes my big virtual hug. Cry again if you may. Have your hubby and besties embrace you while you cry. It's never easy to say goodbye.. but we know life has its way. I know the little one will always have a special place in your heart. Nothing can take that away.

    Now, the life inside you is waiting for mummy to feel better; to be fed and to be given happy beats, and to be talked to with sweet nothings. Yes, live for the living. Surround yourself with supportive friends and good happy books. The precious little beanie in you will appreciate that.

    Everyone here will be one of your support pillars. You aint alone in this. You're loved and we truly look forward to seeing you on your strong feet again, ready to take on the world again Muaks.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    hugs hugs happilymarried. you seem so cheerful here. i heart pain for your t-tc journey and twin b. sayang sayang to you.

    agree with what everyone says. you can pour out your feelings here. anything that can make you feel better. but bear in mind your little one inside you

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    happilymarried: twin a is so sweet. jiayou! fighting!

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragon tail - what doc say?

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    Littlej, my appointment is 940am tomorrow. I changed to tomorrow because I'm sure morning's parking situation is much better than afternoon.

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