@Adrenalin - dont't be upset! Cheer up cheer up! There's always a silver lining and we're all here in the same boat!
The upside is, your traditional chinese medicine didn't say "eh both of you confirm no chance. forget about tiaoing... gone case".. He said both of you have chance and all he asked for was your patience
Well - I personally think that's the beauty of traditional chinese medicine - It helps to 'tiao' the body so that the body is prepared to receive the spermy and subsequently prepared to carry the baby to full term. I used to think traditional chinese medicine is a miraculous solution but by and by I realized nah - There's no one shot kill all medicine - These things take time. And again - like what I mentioned to Shez, you would want your body to be better prepared.
Did your traditional chinese medicine give you any med to take? If yes, then just take that.
I think, dont't be disheartened. Pray (if you believe), and at the end of the day, what's meant to be yours is meant to be yours. Docs always say this and that but my mother always tells me - The woman's body was made to have kids - that's it - as simple as that. Sure, medical advances have made it easier to 'predict' this and that - but at the end of the day - medical science is not 100% chop stamp guaranteed and it has yet to solve every single problem has it? The body is still way more advanced than any medical science.
I mean - that's what my mum told me . Sure, I trust docs but at the same time, I believe the spirit is also stronger than science And y'know, sometimes, I like to think that, it's just fate or whatever the big guy (whether it's Buddha or God or whoever you believe) wants to bestow on you too...
Oh and with regards to whether you should go for IVF now, it's really your call. I think perhaps you could write down a list of pros & cons and have a good objective perspective. I do that cuz I think writing helps to make me see the situation more clearly.