Littlehammie, this you gotta ask yourself how you feel about the eys traditional chinese medicine so far? Do you feel any difference?
This is my very personal experience and thoughts, after going through traditional chinese medicine with 2 bfps (non viable) and now with fertility gynae (no bfp yet as you all know so I cant conclude the latter in a way).
I feel dr wu had definitely helped me with the bfps. My first bfp was merely 2 weeks of her powder. Throughout many sessions with her, she has given me encouragement that I could conceive easily. But she is worried of recurring mc happening to me. As for my hubby, she said he is perfectly well weaponed.
Now that I have switched to a fertility doc, I am scanned with fibroids (sinseh couldnt spot that). And hubby has sperm issues (my sinseh said otherwise).
I am not saying these to imply dr wu is all wrong. I'm trying to put across that traditional chinese medicine and angmor medicine each has their department they are perfect at. I believe both can compliment each other most of the time.
Now that I found out I have fibroids, the more I will put aside traditional chinese medicine because we do not exactly know what's in the powder that may aggravate them (doctor's advice ).
Since there's just this much pulse reading can do (no eyes to our inside), I suggest all you ladies (whom have not) to for thorough scan first. Or even hsg (this is what I will consider next if I dont get bfp soon. Anything could have happened to my tubes all these months. Of course I will hear what dr chew say about that). And also encourage your hubby to perform SA. It's not just a woman's job ya know.
When the results are out, consider your options to explore with traditional chinese medicine or angmor doc or even both concurrently.
I think my trying to concieve journey hasnt been as long as most of you here. Therefore I truly wish especially those whom have been trying to concieve much longer than me to get the gift of bfp soon! I'm so late in marriage/family planning I just feel age is definitely a big hinderance for me. True that I dont feel I need to look like a 41 but inside my body, I'm surely aging faster than anyone of you! It will be such an amazing miracle if my body can create and hold a life.
Goodo raku everyone!