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    Update here.. Thomson FBI sales nothing much. Me now heading to expo.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Thanks all for the advice on traditional chinese medicine.
    I think I will go see EYS as planned. She will have to impress me and connect on first visit LOL

    Dragontail, sorry to hear.
    Is the IPPT some NS related thing?
    sometimes I think SG men who do/ did NS very cool and manly.

    My husband (being Japanese) goes to these KTV places whenever new staff comes to Singapore for training.
    Other wives try to comfort me, "these girls there are not so pretty like in Japan, dont worry!" "your husband comes home everyday dont worry"
    "singapore no love hotel cannot take home dont worry"
    but how not to worry
    i really hate it when he comes home late and smelling of alcohol
    then too tired to any BD with me

    I dont know which is better
    that he goes to KTV or holds these sessions in my home
    they talk so loud, drink so much and some smoke (not my husband) and I must make all these food and snacks. like mama !

    Although recently, I started to feel bit upset towards him about not getting BFP. it feels so silly . why i blame my husband...
    dont know normal or not.
    when he asked, "how this month baby result" I say, of course not success because you said no need do anymore! I felt like I was so frumpy when I said that. oh god what am i becoming...

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    Im also heading expo!!!! Hahahahhahaha hubby so excited on baby stuff now.... planning to buy new baby cot or 2nd hand.....

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I'm now waiting for my man to wake up...seeing his work shirts nicely pressed and his fav fish soup being dabao for him. And I will also tell him i got pms cramps and weather so hot but still ironed his shirts so nice. I make sure there's no chance of him to saying no to my next 12 requests. HNG! Moreover tonight his mom comes back he will have a quite a ear. 他 这次惨了.

    My brunch wasnt that lonely afterall. Bumped into a common friend (more like my hubby's ex school mate) and his wife at the hawker. I couldnt help it and asked her "are you expecting AGAIN?". Geez they already have 3 ! 2 boys and 1 girl. This in the tummy dont know gender yet. My goodness they are like baby machines. One after another. First one is 6 (told me about their agony of pri one enrolment for next year). 2nd one is ~ 4. The 3rd gal is 1.5years old. They said their house is getting smaller and smaller with each baby coming along. I salute their courage for having FOUR kids. But they are quite well to do and the guy's parents also rich (his father is a doc). The old folks live in a big landed and some times can "dump" their children at that house. I mean money aside for raising kids, all these parents support (grandkid-sitting) and big space do somehow make a difference.

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    shez - with a 7 seater.. 2 or even 3 kids no problem! haha

    littlej - I totally understand!! I always get bullied by the picnics & streams & odesseys... its not fair! these people more often than not have babies n kids on board.. how can they be so reckless... anyway, as long as you r driving safe & try to avoid these crazy drivers.. can already.. stay safe for family!

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    Littlej.. Yesterday the trainer mentioned not advixe mummies to drive over 30 weeks. Please be careful.

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    dragontail - wow! 3 kids with another on the way? the first thing that popped into my mind was... so fertile ... still dont understand why n how it can be so easy for some people... sigh.. but its a good thing that people like them who can well afford it, have many many kids. I hope they did spread some baby dust over to you!

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ebichan - awww... Think it is the af hormones talking... Anyway go see traditional chinese medicine and see how!! At least you know you are doing something =) are you going to the eys at paragon?

    My old man sometimes have to entertain at ktv too. Cuz his clients are sad old men who have to pay to seek for women's company (that's what I call them! =p) but I have learnt that trust is important. I was a little upset initially but my old man knows his boundaries. And I would rather he tell me than go behind my back. At least he doesn't get drunk at these places cuz he will have to send his clients back - and his car too precious for valet driver =p

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    ebichan, yes IPPT is a regular routine (once a year? till certain age) where men whom have served NS need to run 2.4km, to upkeep their fitness.

    My man doesnt need to do customer entertainment. Mostly is with his co workers or friends. And it's not exactly regular (recently like got more but usually just once every 2-3 months).

    Personally, I dont agree my man to go "funny" places, though I totally trust him . So I am comforted to know his job doesnt require him to do that. But if next job needs to, then say l.a. I dont like to think/worry for things that havent happen.

    But in reality, this is just how business socialisation works, sometimes. If I am still single and my bf has to do that regularly, I might nag nag and even go party and drinking with my kakis also. Ha! You go out late I also can have my late nights what. But since we are a married couple, I always remind myself "I marry you and I love you and that means I accept the whole of you" (so long I know my trust is not breached). My "rule" is if you really have to go such places, it has to be for business only. Not sukak sukak jio your friends and go there (I know he wont do that). My man gives me complete trust and till this date, he has never set conditions on me or angry with things I've done (except when I take tooooooo long to makeup up / do hair to be ready to go out with him. Hee the most his face black black awhile only). He accepts me unconditionally and that is something I always keep in my heart and cool myself down whenever I think he "should or shouldnt have done" this or that).

    Ok hubby just woke up. He told me he really didnt overdrink but just drank seriously too fast. Gave me big hugs. Then I held his hand and showed him his crisply pressed shirts and the dabao food. He hugged me again and said thank you. NICE! Then he said after IPPT he will bring me to this nice ramen place for dinner then go for a drink at jewel box (our regular part tall days spot). DOUBLE NICE!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Littlej, aiyo these drivers!! I also totally cannot stand it when they dont signal, drive too fast or drive too slow (on the wrong lane). All these are just posing danger to other drivers. Talking on the phone is another one. Seriously???!!

    By the way, I read that there are plain clothes poilcemen in non police cars petrolling on the road. I hope they catch all these people who talk on the phone and swerve lane dangerously!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    oooo dragontail's hubby is super sweet !! hahahaha.. dragontail - do you feel like the luckiest woman on earth now? :P

    Oh I hope there are more of such plain-clothes policeman. catch speeding buses, speeding heavy vehicles, lorries who drive on 3rd lane, and crazy maniac drivers who think they are F1. wahahahah!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail
    Your hubby very sweet and tonight you go dating!!! Maybe he take you home tonight even LOL hahaha (joke, like dating days, the excitement of whether go home w boyfriend or not)

    Little J, yeah I think AMK is too far for me to go after work and back esp on a regular basis. So I try EYS first see how.
    I'm more interested in accunpuncture than traditional chinese medicine.
    Hmm in my husbands' company, its not sad old men who go to KTV and Geylang. It's young ones too.
    Usually Japanese men are sad like that.

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    Wahhaha I miss those days of to go or not to go to boyfriend's house after a date. As with my hubby, it was more like I took him home since I was living alone. More convenient. Hehe.

    Had a wonderful jap dinner. He brought me to this new place at Orchid Hotel. Got few authentic jap restaurants. They are quite tiny though. I felt I went to Japan and back. Very japanese 家乡味道!

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ooooo. Dragontail - did he pass his ippt? Wahahaha. Feels like dating all over again eh...

    Ebichan - ya ya.. My old man's clients are youngish folks like 30s / 40s who are going to ktv. Sad thing is, some of them are married and with kids too. Oh well. There are some who are single and well - they are very introverted so only by going to such places they feel they can "open up". Oh well.

    Ebichan - see what traditional chinese medicine person says !!! dont't unnecessarily poke your own body if not needed =)

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    hi mummies... how is the saturday shopping?

    team blue mummies... how is the clothes shopping? maybe I have only just started my hunt for really cute clothing... but why r there so little baby boys stuff around?

    littlej - I saw 2 baby rompers that are so very muffin.. 1 says "stud muffin" the other says

    step1 crawl
    step2 walk
    step3 golf!

    hahaha!

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    ebichan - when you see physician zxm, just let her take your pulse n see what she says. if you r afraid of accupuncture (I was very scared), just let her know so she will be extra gentle.. also for chinese med, if you decide to take, always get the eys counter staff to give you the list of herbs used. you can keep that in case you need to change traditional chinese medicine in future. enjoy your traditional chinese medicine visit next week!

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    dragontail - you & hubby both so sweeeeeet! not like me & my hubby... we behave like super old couple nowadays... by the way ippt cannot fail right? if fail need to go extra training right? hope he gets pass score for his run!

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hahahah happilymarried - where did you see those rompers?

    Oh boys stuff are not as many as girls. Save more $$$ remember... =p

    I only went out for Pilates and tabao dinner... Accomplishment for today : Started on my little photo book for muffin - hopefully he will keep this book and pass on to his kids in future... Wahahahah... Hopefully!!!

    Section 1 completed - this section focuses on daddy and mummy thru the years... Oh my - I never realized me and old man took so many photos - i had a hard time selecting - am so glad it is done!!! Section 2 will be the ultrasound scans... To be continued...

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    Quote Originally Posted by littlej:813945
    Hahahah happilymarried - where did you see those rompers?

    Oh boys stuff are not as many as girls. Save more $$$ remember... =p

    I only went out for Pilates and tabao dinner... Accomplishment for today : Started on my little photo book for muffin - hopefully he will keep this book and pass on to his kids in future... Wahahahah... Hopefully!!!

    Section 1 completed - this section focuses on daddy and mummy thru the years... Oh my - I never realized me and old man took so many photos - i had a hard time selecting - am so glad it is done!!! Section 2 will be the ultrasound scans... To be continued...
    So its time for you to rest now!!! Nitez...
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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Good morning!!! Me #1 today - woke up to pee...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Good Morning!!!
    whats the plan today?

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    good sunday morning dearies!

    its time to put glorious food in our bellies! I am so hungry...

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    Awww so sad me no first today.

    Good morning!!

    Hubby failed his run by 37seconds. Maybe if he wasnt drunk the night before he could have saved himself 37seconds. Now he has to retake it soon .

    Today he needs to start his school assignment already. Yeah it's like non stop....Till october then he will be a free man.

    My plan today is just pack my room and eat chocolate! (Pms remedy).

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    Quote Originally Posted by happilymarried:813961
    good sunday morning dearies!

    its time to put glorious food in our bellies! I am so hungry...
    Good morning! Hee...good to be hungry. Little one pestering you for food! I have been waking up early even on weekends coz of hunger pangs too. Used to be concuss till noon on weekends :x

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    Dragontail: aiyo...why you so energetic? Hahaha. I zzz on your behalf later

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