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    Preggy related issues can't take mc I think. I mean mc won't very valid. true?

    I think alot companies all not pro preggy one. Unless those big mnc Where benefits very good n no problem hiring temps

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I think I'm comforted to know my company is pro-family, especially my GM. I'm sure I'll be in safe hands should I be preggie next time

    I keep to my no-bfp-in-aug-buy-an-air-ticket. Going to visit my sis in China next month. I'm quite clueless what to do there (except seeing pandas). But she says no worries. She will pack my schedule full. And I can order now all the taobao stuff I want so I can bring home next month. Yay! But now I am worried the days I want to go clash with the leave of my teammate/s.

    littlej, can i know how does the transfer work? What will happen to the package @ Dr Chan?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    TVH: i'm dropping you a big hint. a lot of things can be done during maternity leave i didnt type further cuz scared spoil the market. no worries just a suggestion.
    by the way you working in financial sector? financial sector is like that one (according to my friend).

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quincy: I want to know too. Hehe

    Dragontail: when you going? Can tong bang taobao items? Lol

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    littlehammie, sure. So long they aint big stuff. Sigh... I think likely hard to go on my ideal dates (~6 to 10Sep) because I now remember my teammate's wedding is on 7Sep. And he's on leave on those dates. Unlikely boss will approve on my last min application. Looks like I might have to plan that for end Sep instead (depending on next cycle's trying to concieve outcome). Will let ya know then

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I think my company is quite pro family too. I mean, got people take 5 months or 6 months maternity also can - mostly the ang mos though.

    Anyway I think we can only do what we can.

    Dragontail - has af made its arrival??? That's nice to visit your sis! Hahaha can try to time such that it doesn't clash with fertile time plus colleagues? (Many considerations).

    Oh. I think if I were to change docs. Then will forfeit package with dr chan already =( But I'd probably tell the new doc (if I do change) that I wanna pay per visit instead of signing on new package. Anyway I think dr Paul doesn't have package. The most impt thing is - I dont pay deposit with gleneagles first so I still can switch hospitals if needed.

    Hmm - dr Benjamin tham's clinic never call me back...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    littlehamster: I got to thank heavens that so far the jobs I applied for are pro-family type. means women's clinic medical cert/fertility specialist medical cert also ok. but it happened that we had this manager previously, he was sarcastic towards newly weds and pregnant mothers =.= thankfully his assignment in Singapore is over.

    okiez I will PM you about what I meant

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    littlej, AF hasnt shown but my temp dipped this morning too. I'm just awaiting. Ya, I will only go when it's not my fertile phase

    Actually, Dr Ben Tham was my first choice. I thought he was still in Kandang Kerbau Hospital back then. I went to the Kandang Kerbau Hospital private suite (right after the maternity tour with my hubby) to ask to book at date with him. But the counter staff told me he's no longer in Kandang Kerbau Hospital. I must have gotten the info outdated. I had a list of Kandang Kerbau Hospital gynaes in my mind... so Dr John Tee was my 2nd choice.

    Dr Tham is very popular with the mummies whom I have made friends from my first bfp thread last year. And if I remember correctly, his package is only $600?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Yeah. I was researching on Ben Tham (seriously I felt like I was doing some final year project!) and he seems to be extremely popular and very experienced. also quite technically inclined - hahaha so hopefully this means nice and clear ultrasound pix? =p

    Not sure if so popular until got no time to take me on . I have already filled up the contact us page online. i will call the clinic on mon morning. If still no feedback by afternoon, 霸道 littlej will make a visit to Thomson Medical Center to ask the nurses in person =) In this instance, i guess docs with own clinics better than those who co-share with other docs. Hahaha anyway - I figured if I do need to make a drive down to ask, at least I can ask about two docs - dr Chang and dr Tham (both belong to same clinic) so 一举两得! =p

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by littlej View Post
    I think my company is quite pro family too. I mean, got people take 5 months or 6 months maternity also can - mostly the ang mos though.

    Anyway I think we can only do what we can.

    Dragontail - has af made its arrival??? That's nice to visit your sis! Hahaha can try to time such that it doesn't clash with fertile time plus colleagues? (Many considerations).

    Oh. I think if I were to change docs. Then will forfeit package with dr chan already =( But I'd probably tell the new doc (if I do change) that I wanna pay per visit instead of signing on new package. Anyway I think dr Paul doesn't have package. The most impt thing is - I dont pay deposit with gleneagles first so I still can switch hospitals if needed.

    Hmm - dr Benjamin tham's clinic never call me back...
    You have good companies. Although my company by the book is supposed to be or portray they are pro family, my boss seems to have some negative comments about people pregnant and going on maternity leave.
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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ebichan: same here. I always feel my boss has 2 faces. Lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by littlej:815449
    Yeah. I was researching on Ben Tham (seriously I felt like I was doing some final year project!) and he seems to be extremely popular and very experienced. also quite technically inclined - hahaha so hopefully this means nice and clear ultrasound pix? =p

    Not sure if so popular until got no time to take me on . I have already filled up the contact us page online. i will call the clinic on mon morning. If still no feedback by afternoon, 霸道 littlej will make a visit to Thomson Medical Center to ask the nurses in person =) In this instance, i guess docs with own clinics better than those who co-share with other docs. Hahaha anyway - I figured if I do need to make a drive down to ask, at least I can ask about two docs - dr Chang and dr Tham (both belong to same clinic) so 一举两得! =p
    I think you do have to enquire as not all gynaes would take in mother to be who are in their 3rd trimester. .I thought I read that dr chang would be on leave also?

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    Ebichan, I know what you mean.. My co is very pro family too but I think it's just the one in charge and he got smelly mouth too... So I dont want to announce to my colls.. sigh
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    Ladies. ..I feel so puzzled now. Im in cd20 and still having a lot of cm! Cant be leftover semens right since the last bd was on 7th? Or I havent o ?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by poohy View Post
    Ladies. ..I feel so puzzled now. Im in cd20 and still having a lot of cm! Cant be leftover semens right since the last bd was on 7th? Or I havent o ?
    er...go and pee?

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    Poohy what kind of cm? I always have loads of lotiony cm after o all the way to before af.

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    Oh I just peed and opk is dark line! Now then ovulate??? Isnt that too late?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Poohy: wow which cd you in? Sometime can ovulate twice one I heard. Ajiway did you done your iui cycle this month? Aniway since its dark just go ahead bd? Bd more is ok haha

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    poohy: there are people who ovulate on cd20.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hehe I just realise you did mention you are in cd 20. Yeah just like what quincy said cd 20 is nornal too. I have about 36 days cycle so I do o on cd 20 to 22 as well.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Natalie - ya! Dr Chang on leave 18 - 24 sept as stated on website. But he and dr Tham same clinic. So if I dont't get a response by mon, I will pop by clinic to ask if dr Tham ok to take me in now... At least I know than just wait....

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    Poohy I usually o on cd19 on my own, with a 32 days cycle thereabout. Your cycle can be quite long at times right? So cd20 with a dark line sounds norm. Happy bd-ing tonight!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    poohy: did you mean to say you went for iui and scan that there is an egg there and you didnt realise now then it's going to come out?
    leftover semen...my only understanding is that our uterus does not really keep fluids
    ovulation usually comes with more cm
    Last edited by quincy1986; 10-08-2013 at 07:43 PM.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Poohy didnt go for IUI this cycle, right? I remember you said you count on Dr Wu totally this month

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    Yes yes dragontail good memory. ..this month depending on dr wu...and ya will try bd again tonight or tomorrow morning. Heh

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