Poohy dont't be disheartened.. I have not't had any kids but I can also feel that the whole romance of bd-ing is so different after being together for so long. Plus work tying us down so the whole process can become a routine and sometimes, even a chore. See if both of you can go for a short trip during your fertile period and revive the romance ..
Ziryngirl I just copied from my previous msg.. You and your hub have to pray to the main god of the Shuang Lin Temple first. Thereafter, you buy another set of offering for Zhu Sheng Niang Niang. Say your name and your hub and address, DOB and age. Tell Zhu Sheng Niang Niang you two wish to have a healthy baby and promise will return with red eggs (eg 100) to bless other couples. I usually pray to the one on the left (carrying a baby).