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    Happilymarried!!!! Is that KKJ?? I have been thinking of Happilymarried-junior kkj for very long time you know. I can't really see clearly from my phone. Later I go back office and enlarge them on my big screen. You know how I get excited with baby porn pics, dont you? Awww...kkj.

    Lolol.

    Anyway the pics look good. Happy ending. Hugs...dont be mad anymore ok?

    For me, strangely (dont know what went wrong), as I grow older, I dont really keep photos anymore. Even my wedding photos, I didnt print a single one! Serious. They are all still in a cd. Dont even bother to look at them after the wedding. Ok maybe just once. I guess I now appreciate "the moment". Everything I keep them in my head...and treasure the priceless experience there and then

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    Wantonmee, how are you feeling today? Maybe preggie hormones do make one a cry baby. Did you say planning a trip? Think that's a good idea. Get away from work, mom (yes I know we love our moms deep deep still), and other nitty gritty bothering things. A lil trip surely makes wonder. Come back from holiday then whatever comes (again) then say!

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    Hahaha dragontail, y you obsessed with baby kkj?!?!

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    Every mtbs and trying to concieve ladies LISTEN UP! Dont be like littlej....work until the brim! Hahah must start maternity leave a week or two earlier. Keke at least that is what I will do.

    Littlej dear, omg . You gonna pop anytime do you know that?? I wonder how it feels if I were you right now. Can you describe what's going through your mind in 50 words?

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    TVH you are next after littlej! Why am I so excited this morning?! Have you prepared all stuff for your little one? Are you already on maternity leave yet?

    Dont know ...I see kkj baby porn pics my heart beats very fast. Lolol. I'm just very fascinated by the spade-like shape. Maybe I never had a brother. Nor was I close to any baby boy when I was growing up. When I visit my bff, I love watching her bathing her coming one year old boy. The heirloom jewel looks so cute.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thelay:829346
    I think only tv shows have romatic guys.. I feel the feeling different when you ask and they do without you need to ask..

    sometimes I feel he at home or not at home no difference... he either glue his face to tv, computer. Dont care what happen to me.

    Dont know what will happen when our daughter arrive..

    And actually I also stupid . Sometimes we go out I not very patient, so I always take out my wallet first..

    but he still give me money if I tell him or I take money from his wallet or acct, he dont say anything.

    Maybe I m hoping too much or greedy.
    Actually I prefer practical guys than romantic ones. I always have this idea that if my hubby can waste effort to be romantic then it means that he will make effort to hide a mistress. :x practical guys will find it a terrible chore to juggle 2 women, you know what I mean? Haha. Maybe its a warped logic of mine. My hubby dont't give me monthly allowance, didn't ask for any also coz he is the one paying the household bills & he still got to pay his sch loan. Will ask for abit when I am on maternity though, for baby. Keke

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    Wahaha...Dragontail super Genki after kkj pics.

    Can't wait to c actual baby pics starting from Littlej!

    Wah...my mum just told me that she had me at 37 weeks. Hope baby feel comfy and stay in water bed for longer than that. Told me first child will be earlier than edd!?
    Last edited by rav3naers; 26-09-2013 at 10:30 AM.

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    Hope you all cool with me being a thread spammer today.

    Rav I kinda agree!! Hmm...before I married to my hubby, there was this guy who was courting me (er? Is courting this word a passe?) too. I can say he came on quite strong and he is every way an eligible bachelor. Quite different from my man. At least he is much taller. Haha. But I cannot stand him being overly romantic and kou-hua-hua. Maybe he meant it...I dont know . But it just came to a point I was even more sure I love my practical man!

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    Dragontail.. I see from your post.. your husband also very nice.. he buy things for you when you dont ask and he ask you out etc..

    My husband never buy things for me unless I told him what is the particular thing I wanted. Even dinner like that.. we have been in relationship for so long.. cant he guess what I want? There is no suprise from him.

    I also never ask for monthly allowance. I will ask him to pay household big items. Hee.. enough of my rant..

    Sometimes its my fault . He said he buy also I dont like so might as well buy myself...

    I think I am greedy to be able to feel more pampered now. Too independent ald so they take things for granted.

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    Thelay: My hubby also ask me what I want for bday/xmas etc, coz I know he dont't have 'sense' of what kinda bag/accessories I like. He is not the adventuerous type who likes to try new food or explore new places, I always have to drag him along. And I only gotten a single rose once when we just started dating. Maybe I am his first & only gf so he is kinda blur. Hee....
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    Ha ha..

    Btw.. I feel werid to see little's boy kkj. Lol.. I have no brother and never take care of baby's private part.. thats one of the reason I dont want boy..

    But will I feel werid to clean my little girl also? Lol

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Yay Dragontail is back!!! *claps claps* miss you!!!

    In less than 50 words, the thoughts in my mind are "????". It's a mix of apprehension (how will birthing and recovery be like), excitement (how will muffin look), worry (will I be a good mum / all ok with muffin / will i be able to manage), anticipation (when will muffin arrive / how will the relationship be like with old man / will we ever resume our sex life)...

    Just got back from doc. Muffin is so not ready to face the world. Cervix is clam shut tight, muffin not engaged, negligible contractions. Muffin is 3.4kg, good heart beat. Hand over face today (kinda saying "leave me alone"). Doc said I still have a lot of water so could still tahan for a week more.

    Old man asked doc "what about c sect". Doc was funny exclaiming "no why c sect" (kinda high pitched tone, like why would you think of that!). Then he immediately said "let me take that back. I am more pro natural. Let me outline the risks and benefits of c sect versus natural..." (In a lower natural tone).

    Hee hee happilymareied's son has a very well rounded kkj. Looks well endowed =p

    Baby's kkj really very cute. Small small, round round, like a miniature torpedo - very "innocent" looking. Especially when tucked between the fat thighs! Hahaha. My bro is 10 years younger than me so I helped to change his diapers and bath him etc when he was a baby so that's how I know!! Ok - do I sound like a paedophile now? =p wahahaha!

    My old man is very practical - "buy flowers for what, waste money", presents are bought with me around "you tell me what you want" (then when I tell him what I want, reply will be "huh another bag? Save money "), best buys are cameras / ipad for birthday, "no need to celebrate anniversary / valentines's day", "birthdays just nua can already", save money, "why must say i love you for what, you know can already"... on the contrary, My ex is very romantic - flowers for no occasions, sweet surprises, luxurious holidays, jewelry for presents, wine and dine, let's spend every single cent cuz we dont't know what tomorrow brings, writes poems promising the world and forevers and you are my one and only - *pui pui pui* - ex cheated on me ! Needless to say - Between the two, I go for practicality.

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    Hahaha... Ladies.. all of you never fail to make me laugh...

    Dragontail, we were trying to get you back here with the Kkj pic... Knew it would work!! Heehee.. heirloom jewel.. what a funny description!! I am not used to seeing a baby's Kkj too....

    How about Littlej post muffin's really package when born? Ooops! Is that a big big big request?


    Rav, I share that warped logic with you... I prefer a guy who is more practical than romantic... So much so... When hubby gives me flowers... I will ask him.. hey, you did something wrong Issit??!

    Thelay, must talk to hub nicely n calmly... Esp when next time baby comes n can hear n react n even learn... you need to get hubby to listen also n speak same way.. I also gotta try change my habit of speaking to hubby at home.. I can be very sarcastic to him, we are used to it but I think it's no good for the young child to see parents being sarcastic or short tempered with other half...

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    wahhh my hubby has never bought me anything! not a single stalk of rose, not cheap lil sweet things nor whatever! I hint so many times but still no move. Well I guess our hubbies have different love languages.

    acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts.

    Id say mine would be acts of service. Small lil things like sending me to work although he comes home past midnight, helping me to do stuff (though sometimes must kena forced), bringing me to places although he dont like it.

    The rest can forget it!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by littlej View Post
    Yay Dragontail is back!!! *claps claps* miss you!!!

    In less than 50 words, the thoughts in my mind are "????". It's a mix of apprehension (how will birthing and recovery be like), excitement (how will muffin look), worry (will I be a good mum / all ok with muffin / will i be able to manage), anticipation (when will muffin arrive / how will the relationship be like with old man / will we ever resume our sex life)...

    Just got back from doc. Muffin is so not ready to face the world. Cervix is clam shut tight, muffin not engaged, negligible contractions. Muffin is 3.4kg, good heart beat. Hand over face today (kinda saying "leave me alone"). Doc said I still have a lot of water so could still tahan for a week more.

    Old man asked doc "what about c sect". Doc was funny exclaiming "no why c sect" (kinda high pitched tone, like why would you think of that!). Then he immediately said "let me take that back. I am more pro natural. Let me outline the risks and benefits of c sect versus natural..." (In a lower natural tone).

    Hee hee happilymareied's son has a very well rounded kkj. Looks well endowed =p

    Baby's kkj really very cute. Small small, round round, like a miniature torpedo - very "innocent" looking. Especially when tucked between the fat thighs! Hahaha. My bro is 10 years younger than me so I helped to change his diapers and bath him etc when he was a baby so that's how I know!! Ok - do I sound like a paedophile now? =p wahahaha!

    My old man is very practical - "buy flowers for what, waste money", presents are bought with me around "you tell me what you want" (then when I tell him what I want, reply will be "huh another bag? Save money "), best buys are cameras / ipad for birthday, "no need to celebrate anniversary / valentines's day", "birthdays just nua can already", save money, "why must say i love you for what, you know can already"... on the contrary, My ex is very romantic - flowers for no occasions, sweet surprises, luxurious holidays, jewelry for presents, wine and dine, let's spend every single cent cuz we dont't know what tomorrow brings, writes poems promising the world and forevers and you are my one and only - *pui pui pui* - ex cheated on me ! Needless to say - Between the two, I go for practicality.
    oh..3.4 kg ar...could be more or less...but boys are usually heavier..

    that time my gynae estimated my girl is 2.9 kg, in the end is 3.125 kg....

    its good that your gynae is pro-natural..dont like those gynae who like to promote c-section...so no need to induce?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    yes happilymarried - the crown jewel of yours has lured dragontail back

    natalie - so far no need. see next week how .

    so i asked the doc what can i do to help baby come faster - walk up stairs, squats, eat curry... doc said contrary to popular belief, all no use. i asked him what about sex. he said yeap that will work, but must make out at least 3 times a day. then he laughed at my hubby's expression.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Wahaha... happilymarried, yes I guess the kkj pics worked! Call me a kkj sucker (er... sounds wrong. Sucker for kkj? Darn still wrong!!!) l.or.

    I can't make out the kkj pic of your junior, now that they are on my big screen. I gotta see a kkj soon. Tonight go back ask hubby to 脱裤 (littlej's version of foreplay)! Anyway, we havent BD since my last O :P

    littlej, I guess those pretty much sum up for most first timer mummies! Looks like little muffin super comfy now. He will be ready soon

    Talking about men... there's one thing I cannot accept. Zero tolerance. Broke up with my ex boyfriend because he loves doing that. Roving eyes. Maybe I am old fashioned? I mean you can take 2nd look (TOP). Afterall, it’s natural to look again at something beautiful. But if those pair of eyes follow it through, that’s it. I dont’t care you see until eyes pop out when I’m not around. But if I am beside you, can give me some respect or not? I remember one incident I was so pissed with my ex. He did his roving again. I said “why are you staring again?”. He denied “where? I dont’t even notice any girl”. I was really in foul mood that day l.a. I searched for that girl and walked to her (I remember we were in cold storage) and pointed at her and told my guy “see! This one!”. I really wasn’t talking to her. It was just purely to my ex. That girl looked at me without a clue what was going on. Haha poor gal. Not even her fault. I told my hubby this incident and he said he swear he will never look at others more than twice. He said it must be so embarrassing for a man! Oops. That’s just me… one thing that I will never stand. Frankly, I wont hesitate to do that again if a man doesn’t show me respect in the first place.
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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    LOLOL littlej that’s so funny what Dr Tham replied about 3x of sex a day. Was he on tickling mode when he said that? He cant be serious right? Hahah so funny.

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    Littlej really super onz. Churn out essay as per requested. Lolz...thanks for all the posts to keep me awake today. Literally stoning today. Brain cannot connect at work. Zzz...

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    Dragontail.. I will be the one show my husband when I see pretty girl or wear sexy.. ask him to look.. lol..

    Glad that you r back.. forum quiet when you all not around..

    I remembered one occasion he bought perfume for me and I asked him what do you do.. lol.. he said he claim voucher from credit card and dont know what to buy.. lol..

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    Littlej.. so excited for you.. I already feel like waiting long to see her.. lol..

    Took half day from work. Having stomachache. . Called gynae and then decided to come back home and sleep.. just want to lie down on bed rather than waiting at her clinic. If worst, I will go a&e . Actually also bexos I want to see my girl tomorrow..

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    Littlej. . Do you drink coconut juice?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail - Hahhaaha - Love what you did at the supermarket to your ex.. And whaahhaha wherever and however you placed the word "sucker" - it still sounds wrong! i coudln't stop laughing at your post!

    Doc said sex 3 times a day with a straight face. then he burst out laughing at hubby's expression and said "that ain't going to happen". So I'm thinking wow - really 3 x a day?? I asked my hubby wanna try or not.. What do you think my hubby said??

    Oh - Doc also said that if give birth naturally, there will naturally be some 'loosening' down there. So he said that's why some women opt for c sect as they dont't wish to compromise their sexual enjoyment. he reinforced that once you opt for c-sect then stick to c-sect for the second child as there are risks. and c sect also comes with some risks if you're planning for second child as there could be placenta issues or womb sticks to dont know what during recovery - but these are potential risks, may not happen to everyone. that said - of course c sect is also safer for the baby as it involves taking the baby out without baby needing to curve and bend through the vaginal pathway. but he said, women have been giving birth the vaginal way all this while. and he would recommend c sect only if necessary e.g. breech or some other complications.

    so naturally - me being me - I asked him if it's possible to sew tighter if i opt for natural.. He had a twinkle in his eyes and his reply was it's not about the tightness outside but inside. so if really want the tightness, then there needs to be some reconstruction of the internal muscles and sure he can do that but this means no more second child. i asked my hubby later on - eh should we try - maybe can even sew back the hymen - i think my hubby thinks i'm crazy now. hahahahaha!

    Thelay - ya i'm drinking coconut juice now. super cooling especially in such hot weather.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hi girls
    i have a (maybe) silly question.
    how do i know if i still have my baby inside? its a long wait from my last visit to the next milestone. 7 weeks heartbeat -> 12 weeks
    the only signs I have are extreme fatigue and swollen breasts and hunger
    im just worried
    how did you cope during the early preg phase of waiting?

    i started to have some nausea but its usually at night
    not sure if its from the progesterone (probably)

    actually re: C section. I am a high candidate for elective C Section.
    based on my cervix issues

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ebichan - just relax and wait! And trust that your baby is doing well. And well, what is meant to be yours is meant to be yours. And of course dont't do anything that will jeopardize - like no caffeine, no jumping, no heavy exercises, no sex etc.

    The only sure way you can tell is via ultrasound. So you can ask your doc to see you earlier... Or see another doc... That said, I heard that too many ultrasounds is not ideal.

    During first trimester, I saw doc at 4 weeks, 5 weeks, 7 weeks, then every 3 weeks after.

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