Our Mobile App: iPhone · Android

  • You are trying to conceive?
  • You have pregnancy questions?
  • How do you know whether your baby's teething or has a cold?
  • You have Family, home & financial issues?

...Then you have come to the right place!
we will try to help you with your problem.

Page 70 of 912 FirstFirst ... 20 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 120 170 570 ... LastLast
Results 1,726 to 1,750 of 22794
Like Tree700Likes

We are trying to concieve-ing!

This is a discussion on We are trying to concieve-ing! within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; means you drink DOM during your 2ww?...

  1. #1726
    Consort-in-Ordinary quincy1986's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2012
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    2,008
    Rep Power
    7

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    means you drink DOM during your 2ww?

  2. #1727
    Worthy Lady tricky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    katong
    Posts
    351
    Rep Power
    4

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Yah Dragontail, i thought that too but I read that both are important as follicular phase needs enough time to mature the egg, my cycle being a bit on the short side. my LP is 15 days so quite ok. actually apparently short follicular phases can be a cause of anovulatory cycles.

  3. #1728
    TVH
    TVH is offline
    Imperial Concubine
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    964
    Rep Power
    4
    Quincy, I drink DOM from the day my menses end until one week before next period starts...

    Tricky, tried taking supps to lengthen the follicular phase? Follicular phase and luteal phase both equally impt..

  4. #1729
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Oh I didnt know that about follicular phase. Now I know! Thanks. My FP is always quite ok. Like 18-19days min. Its my LP that I find aint ideal. Only 10-11 days . Sob. Hopefully the CW does extend it. I will chart n see if any improvement this month!

  5. #1730
    Worthy Lady tricky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    katong
    Posts
    351
    Rep Power
    4

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    thanks for the tip TVH !

    Dragontail, try taking B6 vits for LP !

  6. #1731
    TVH
    TVH is offline
    Imperial Concubine
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    964
    Rep Power
    4
    Not sure what you can take to lengthen follicular phase but I have been taking royal jelly for a long time cos it is supposed to help you produce healthier eggs for ovulation, you can try bee pollen too if you are not allergic.

    I think blackmores cw gold would b quite a good supp to take cos I compared the ingredients with the supps ly gynae gave me versus the blackmores one, whatever should be inside is inside. My gynae also told us one impt thing...take vit D. Many supps do not offer this in the combination, the first month me and my hubby took vit D, we got it. Not sure if this is what was missing all these while, I'm inclined to think it is

  7. #1732
    Worthy Lady tricky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    katong
    Posts
    351
    Rep Power
    4

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    valuable info TVH ! thanks !!! I was meaning to start royal jelly soon and will look up for vit D

  8. #1733
    Imperial Concubine littlej's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    1,933
    Rep Power
    6

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I think royal jelly is good. That is what my book says. See how many eggs the queen bee lays!

    Vitamin d - I also read that in a book. The best vitamin d is from mr morning sun. If you can - go for a walk in the morning. Those with dogs - best. I walk my dog every morning.

    Also I read in the book vitamin e is also good.

  9. #1734
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Wah so many supps I cant catch up. CW got b6 already. I think I just let CW covers the basics. Me lazy . Acupuncture also will help on lengthening LP.

  10. #1735
    Worthy Lady prayinghard's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Bukit Batok
    Posts
    365
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Do you gals feel uneasy when your surrounding like Facebook friends, colleagues all married later than us but already pregnant and web give birth?
    i dont know if something wrong with me I know I should be happy for them for all I feel is why am I so lousy yet they so fertile and easy... sigh so bad my thinking right...
    My dear hubby already 35 yet he is not affected at all... He like children so much also but he dont't bother about others getting pregnant and giving birth

  11. #1736
    Consort-in-Ordinary quincy1986's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2012
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    2,008
    Rep Power
    7

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    hey @prayinghard
    sure we do.
    i even had and ex classmate who find it so necessary show off to me she is pregnant.
    like for instance, when she trying to concieve, she told me she will not be telling anyone her pregnancy for 1st 3 months.
    and she goes on and on about how she saw her gynae and how she saw her egg which i couldnt even interrupt when she talks!
    but when she really is pregnant she drop hints to me so that i had to ask her if she is pregnant.
    like she saw me on my dumb bells and she was like oh great i used to exercise but now i couldnt anymore. and that made me pop the question "r you pregnant?"
    but when i ask her anything you did to get pregnant, she just couldnt tell me!!

    i know it doesnt seem like it but trust me, i've known her ways during school days.
    stuborn n naggy ^^ me the st maria online

  12. #1737
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Prayinghard, I dont feel uneasy.... happy for them. Maybe because I already hit the big 4 and I feel everyone else ( who are younger) should be preggie! Dont worry...you'll get there since you're young. Others strike because it's their time. Yours will come. Honestly to share with you dear ladies, I wont choose this trying to concieve road at this point if i have a choice. Im so used to the freedom without a new commitment. But hubby is young and is the only son. It's only the "right" thing for me to do... to trying to concieve. Of course when a baby does fall from the sky, I will give up everything (almost hee) and embrace this gift from heaven. Im waiting for the blessings.

  13. #1738
    TVH
    TVH is offline
    Imperial Concubine
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    964
    Rep Power
    4
    Like dragontail, I dont't feel uneasy. I feel very happy for them. Of course, there are times when I feel inadequate compared to them but there is nothing I can do. It came to a point where I stopped meeting friends because I was afraid they are going to tell me they are pregnant again. I very often wished how nice if I were them, I could imagine their joy. dont't stress about this and dont't compare, stress will only hinder the process even more. Take a holiday when you could. When you are relaxed, the success rate is higher

  14. #1739
    Worthy Lady tricky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2013
    Location
    katong
    Posts
    351
    Rep Power
    4

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Yes Dragontail, I take my b6 vit from CW I think that should be enough. no point overdosing with supps

  15. #1740
    Worthy Lady prayinghard's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Bukit Batok
    Posts
    365
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    my sis-in-law also been trying for 4yrs no result... And you all what are the ever nasty words she get from her husband's best friend mum? She look at her and ask "aiyo you busy pai sey never preg still dare to come outside show face?" I was like what the hell ! We ppl trying to concieve is already so difficult facing all the problems ourselves, yet those aunties talk like never go through the brain..
    i cannot imagine one day when I encounter theses type of aunties talk to me in these ways, I guess I will cry immediately...

  16. #1741
    TVH
    TVH is offline
    Imperial Concubine
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    964
    Rep Power
    4
    Aiyoh I really do hate those big-mouthed aunties. dont't bother about them, dont't cry too. Luckily, I'm rather feisty, I would probably just tell her...you think I pig, say give birth then give birth?? Auntie, then y you dare come outside show your face? This not 7th month yet.

    Sorry, that's just me. I dont't show respect to ppl who dont't show respect to me, regardless of their age.

    dont't mind what other ppl say, they are not leading your life. Some ppl just like to say nasty things cos it makes them happy to make other ppl feel bad. Avoid such toxic ppl.

  17. #1742
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Prayinghard, I agree with TVH. There are all kinds of people, even if they are your kins. I really dont bother what people say especially those brainless comments. So far I've not met any but you bet I will bite them back. I will use TVH lines about 7th month if I have to. Thanks TVH.

    One of the worst in human kind is belittling another. Dont let that get into you ok. Stay strong.

  18. #1743
    Imperial Concubine littlej's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    1,933
    Rep Power
    6

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I am happy for my friends but I am envious too. It got to this point whereby I would rather not meet them. Cuz to be honest everytime I meet them they will be talking about babies, pre school, pregnancy etc. not only do I feel left out, I am thinking ok i am bored and I am thinking I wish I can participate in this conversation too. I mean, I dont't blame them cuz I am the odd one out. But on the other hand, I am also thinking why make myself upset... So ya we kinda drifted apart in a way.

    But hahaha I do know when my time comes I sure wouldn't be that way with my single or no kids friends cuz I know how it feels to be on the other side of the fence.

    I guess life comes in phases.

    Oh but quincy - your friend... Erm. Hahahah I guess I know there are those "smug marrieds"... Now there are "smug preggers" too.

    Thank goodness I dont't have kpo relatives.

  19. #1744
    Imperial Concubine littlej's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    1,933
    Rep Power
    6

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hahaha and yes I agree with tvh.

    Maybe what she can do is also burst into tears and say "oh aunty why you treat me this way, what have I done to you. I love my mother in law so much and even she dont't say such things to me" y'know throw a big tantrum but at the same time declare love for everyone - until the aunty also pai seh.
    Heehee.

  20. #1745
    Worthy Lady prayinghard's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Bukit Batok
    Posts
    365
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Wahaha that's a good way I will learn it up and teach my sis in law hehehe...

  21. #1746
    Worthy Lady prayinghard's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Bukit Batok
    Posts
    365
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Friends I know we can try avoid meeting them but colleagues will be hard...

  22. #1747
    TVH
    TVH is offline
    Imperial Concubine
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    964
    Rep Power
    4

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    then you have to play their game. if you display emotions that they expect you to display after their remarks, then they will gloat over their "win".

    anyway, just avoid these ppl, talking to them is just a waste of your precious time, you could have used the time for a better purpose. dont't let them run and ruin your life

  23. #1748
    Worthy Lady
    Join Date
    Dec 2011
    Location
    Seng Kang
    Posts
    145
    Rep Power
    6

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I agree with TVH that Blackmores and DOM shld be quite sufficient for ladies of cos the men have to take supplements for their swimmers too

    Oh talking about big mouth aunties, i dislike CNY visiting cos those annoying relatives will start asking the same old qns like when you gonna have baby etc.. I was like got nothing better to ask or say meh... Damn sian one

  24. #1749
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    I think my relatives are alright. They never ask me about my mc desite they know about it. So I think they are a nice bunch. The only person "hoggin" me is my hubby's grandma. But I think it's all just because she looks forward to a great grandchild. She doesn't say any insensitive words.... just always tells me must see traditional chinese medicine, drink por, rest more etc. At her age, I can only imagine how excited she would be if she does get a great grandkid!

  25. #1750
    Worthy Lady
    Join Date
    Feb 2009
    Location
    Bendemeer
    Posts
    313
    Rep Power
    8

    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Ya dont bother about what the "San gu Liu po" says. Those ppl got nothing better to do . At least we know ourself that we are trying our best. All we can do is wait for our turn ..

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Connect With Us

facebook twitter rss

MummySG Facebook Group

Loading...
All times are GMT +8. The time now is 09:18 AM.