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We are trying to concieve-ing!

This is a discussion on We are trying to concieve-ing! within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by MXLO Just curious anyone believes in feng shui? MXLO, both hubby and me very into feng shui ...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by MXLO View Post
    Just curious anyone believes in feng shui?
    MXLO, both hubby and me very into feng shui while we are trying to conceive. We have this feng shui master who look into both our Bazi and will give us guide on what are the timing to bd is best for us. She also introduce crystals for us to buy and will even come to our house to place it on the correct position. She even tell us to re-paint 2 of our wall .
    She even told us that I should continue follow diligently on my traditional chinese medicine and not yet to the extent of IVF. So both me and hubby follow whatever she say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prayinghard:837671
    Quote Originally Posted by MXLO View Post
    Just curious anyone believes in feng shui?
    MXLO, both hubby and me very into feng shui while we are trying to conceive. We have this feng shui master who look into both our Bazi and will give us guide on what are the timing to bd is best for us. She also introduce crystals for us to buy and will even come to our house to place it on the correct position. She even tell us to re-paint 2 of our wall .
    She even told us that I should continue follow diligently on my traditional chinese medicine and not yet to the extent of IVF. So both me and hubby follow whatever she say.
    I am into but becos staying with in law so difficult plus they are of different religion to mine so lagi difficult. But I will do what I can within our own room.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:837664
    Me starting to feel funny feeling on right ovary!

    But then it's only cd13 and cm is getting loads (dangling) but is creamy one. Not stretchy ewcm yet. I'm thinking of opking on cd16, as I averagely only o around cd18-20. Should I opk earlier or cd16 is ok?
    I wanna ask... what does creamy and stretchy transparent cm means? Ovulation happen when its creamy or clear stretchy....

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    I also used to be confused with all these cm descriptions!

    Only ewcm (egg white cm) is considered fertile. Creamy or lotiony like is not. My ewcm is clear and can stretch between two fingers beyond 2 inches or so.

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    Ahhhh ok I will read about it more.... I used to have them some mths then some lesser... but I rmbr last month I dont have and I also not sure if it's semen or ewcm. Keke

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    For me, the best way to tell if it's ewcm or not is how far it can pull. dont't care about the color. If can stretch more than 1.5-2cm at least then it's time to get working! Semen doesn't pull like that.

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    Gals...need a little advice...today i'm on cd20...normal cycle is about 28days...today me having yellowish sticky discharge...issit an infection?or?

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    I get super loads of yellow creamy cm few days after o all the way to couple of days before af. Can get irritatingly a lot. It isn't infection for me. Shouldn't be so for you.

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    Orh okay relieved to hear that! Tls dragontail... =)

    Kinda scary when see yellowish/greenish yellow cm after ovulation...hope it doesn't affect fertility...

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    Yukki, make sure it doesn't have foul smell. If yes, might be infection. So you gotta do a lil sniff sniff act

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    And whether your down there got itchy or not

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    Foul smell? I dont know hw to define foul...smell like cm smell ...not itchy at all...will monitor again for e next few days...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I read somewhere that if cm smells foul, not the norm cm smell, it cld be yeast infection. and MXLO is right, if it itch real bad, coupled with foul smell, its better to seek med help about it.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail, hey this is going to sound really weird, wth, but I envy you for having ewcm!!!!!!!!! serious! somehow, my cm doesn't seem to be dat stretchy and runny, and I m beginning to pay close attn. read somewhere that EPO helps, but some mummies advised against it as EPO tends to cause uterine contraction. though the way to take epo is day 1 of af till O then stopped/replaced with omega fish oil, but some just warned against taking epo when we are trying to concieve

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    ebichan: I checked my O bible aka the calendar and I calculate (so many times) that days to go for it is cd11-cd17 (thks dragontail and ebi for clearing up what cd n dpo meant..) so today seems really early... but what the heck, just do it, he said just treat it -chem like clearing stocks (we have not't been ml since the agonizing 2ww..then my af starts, so hubby said had lotsa overstayed spermies to cleared)
    hahahhaha...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    but is there any ways, like anything I can take to help my body to produce cm like those of dragontail?
    is it like some gifted thing? you either got it or dont?
    I m quite worried that I m not having enough cm as mine seems dry... I m seriously thinking of getting pre seed.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Maq, I have not done research on increasing ewcm :P But some months I dont get enough of ewcm too. No harm getting the preseed.

    Me and my man are guilty of doing the deeds only nearing to O (we do clear dead army few days before fertile phase to get rid of old stock). But according to what I've read, it's best to bd 2-3x a week right after AF. This will keep the sperm in optimal attack mode. But hack... work so stress how to bd so regularly.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Good morning ladies!! O.S.I.M!!!

    Ya work so stress how to bd...haizzzzzz......must learn to relax......

    Just wanna ask is it better not to bd if we are in the 2ww? or a straight no...cannot bd at all?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Good morning too Mxlo. What is OSIM huh?

    Personally I dont’t. Partly scared partly no bd mood. (during O already do until pong-zek. We just need a break!). But my fertility specialist says ok for the first half of 2ww. 2nd half not to because bd may affect the implantation. I also know of some gals who also bd during 2ww. It’s your own call I guess.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Maq,
    i think CD 11 can start to do already!
    Were you able to check with ovulation predictor kit?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    er.. I alredy bd on CD4... oops

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    today I m goin to take the bazhen.. my mom was pleasantly surprised when I asked her to teach me to brew it...

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    Good timing on your bazhen soup Maq. Can add an egg into it. It's yummy.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hello all..i am back. I think i've shared with some of you before...this month AF seems a bit longer..I am in CD17 and it is not fully cleared yet! This month super draggy maybe got to do with my cold few weeks ago. I am just curious, does prolonged menses affect ovulation? Still need to wait for a week before seeing my traditional chinese medicine. dont't dare to take anything which might affect trying to concieve.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:837802
    Good morning too Mxlo. What is OSIM huh?

    Personally I dont’t. Partly scared partly no bd mood. (during O already do until pong-zek. We just need a break!). But my fertility specialist says ok for the first half of 2ww. 2nd half not to because bd may affect the implantation. I also know of some gals who also bd during 2ww. It’s your own call I guess.
    Keke it stands for Oh Shit Its Monday!

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