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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    It's Monday blue!!

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    Omg. Poor osim chair.

    Cherrie, I was also thinking if my o will come late since I suddenly had a lil blood on cd11. Just have to wait and see.

    Are you using opk?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Mixed feeling..one hand i told myself to wait, another hand thinking to make appointment with fertility specialist for checking. I dont't feel very comfortable to go back to my gynae though he has my history...unless when i got bfp.
    Waiting game is no fun. I must learn to be patient!

    I have opk strips but always nothing shown on the strips..never ever got a positive line. That's why i'm not so keen. I am not very good with OPK. Partly due to my timing. Can't be possibly pee in office haha..and sometimes i will go back home late..can't have time consistency to do OPK.

    Do you have any ideas why you had lil blood on cd11?

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    Anyway there's difference between a gynae and a fertility doc. Maybe a fertility doc can give you different perspective.

    I seriously am puzzled by the bleeding. Ironically this is the first cycle I am on Dr wu powder. Surely not o yet because my bbt still flat. And I have never ever o-ed anything before cd17. Now on 14.

    Oh yes...now I remember you mentioned you could never get an opk line. You bbting right? The opk strips I got come with mini cup. Can use and then throw into the sanitary bin in office toilet. Quite easy

    Oh the opk strip that I peed on yesterday does show up a line after I checked back 15mins later. Not very light neither is it dark. Maybe I poas shortly to compare...

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    I got a qns again.... if using opk must it be the 1st morning pee? I bght the cheap ones can try twice a day right?

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    According to doc's advice, clearblue digital opk use fmu. Cheapie ones I opk around 10am and 6pm daily.

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    I mean doc says cheapie ones dont't use fmu.

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    Seriously Dragontail? I didnt use FMU on my CB Digital OPK . Thought is the same application for all OPK strips. I bought a box of CB Digital OPK..very expensive and couldn't detect anything and decided to buy cheapie OPK strips. Now i dont't know when should i start OPK-ing? I just resume back my bbt-ting due to my travelling. Maybe wait for few more days see my AF will clear completely or not..i have experience of not O-ing for one/two cycles.

    You have not't O right? I think you just wait and see how it goes.

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    Oh ya..i always dont't get what is POAS..what is that actually, Dragontail? Does it happen to everyone?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Also, Dragontail..do you recommend Dr Peter Chew @ Gleaneagles given that you have visited him before? May I know what is his charges like?

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    I also thought so cherrie! Until dr chew back then asked me what pee I used for my cb opk digital. Told him evening pee. His face was full of disapproval and told me " must use fmu. Evening pee you dont't know what has gone into it you know". Then I asked him I thought can mah. He said other brands can use later-pee. Cb is different. But honestly, if I do o, I get a positive regardless what brand or what time I pee. So I take what he says with a lil pinch of salt. But i follow what he says since cb digital not cheap!


    Poas=pee on a stick. No, not everyone will get it. Lol. Cherrie, I think you meant pcos? I have heard about this syndrome. But dont't have much knowledge about it.

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    I think if your af hasnt cleared, o shouldn't be around near? I think. Maybe you wait for af to completely clear before opk? Yes continue your bbt will be good.

    Well I was with dr chew for 3 cycles but couldn't succeed. Dont know exactly what was missing. In the end, I didn't want to spend so much anymore nor did I feel like doing iui or ivf. I pong-zek with the many visits. So I stopped with him. But if you google about him, many ladies succeeded with his magic hands.

    It really depends on what he gives you. I had medicine and also gonal f. If simple checks without medicine, it's just 90ish. With pills for both me and hubby, at least 200-300ish per visit. Not including gonal f.

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    Thank you dragontail!! No wonder the guardian opk says no fmu.... whereas I read CB ones says fmu!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail - you are so smart! I got POAS and PCOS mixed up. Maybe i dont't need to be so gan jiong .. Must work harder after my trip. That's what i told my hubby. Get to work on time when it's the day!! hahaa..of course doesnt want BD to be a chores. That's not good.

    Give myself some more time to try harder. I believe in traditional chinese medicine and hopefully under traditional chinese medicine medication will get bfp..

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    Jia you!! Everyone is telling me to relax, dont stress....I will go back to zumba next week after af then stop until the next cycle comes then meanwhile, do briskwalk what is PCOS????

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Jia you!! Everyone is telling me to relax, dont stress....I will go back to zumba next week after af then stop until the next cycle comes then meanwhile, do briskwalk what is PCOS????

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    Cherriejoy..yr af still on? Must take good care and dont run into anemia coz bleed so long.

    Me skipped month this cycle...no signs of it except more pimples around mouth..hope its pms then I can start a new cycle.

    trying to concieve really takes a toil....am glad this month gonna be busy month then wont keep thinking about it but bad thing is it meant no energy to bd...so irony.

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    Poohy, my AF is just draggy. The volume is very low just like spotting. Why you skipped yr AF? Didn't come at all? Any possibility of bfp?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Poohy, anyway you might be going for IVF soon… perhaps just keep your mind off trying to concieve for this month. I mean of course time is precious. But I find no point pushing something which we probably can’t fulfill it well. Rest your mind till AF/IVF comes (of course we pray for miracle in between).

    Cherrie, I think Poohy meant she missed her O this month. How long have you been seeing Dr Wu?

    Past few nights I have been sleeping like a baby. I have just switched to her 2nd batch of powder. Maybe those are like sleeping pills. Ha! My sleep damn nice lately.

    I’m now rather dry and wondering if I should BD tomorrow as scheduled by Dr Wu. I got a feeling it’s too early to BD (as in I might O late this cycle). Usually my opk cheapie will start to look darker couple of days before the stark dark positive. I think tomorrow night I do an opk. If it’s still light then I postpone and check my opk next day again.

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    Cherriejoy dragontail. ..my af didnt come nor issit a bfp..so should be skipped cycle aka no ovulation. Today cd44...maybe cd60 then af come. Hah.

    Ya im keeping my mind off trying to concieve since no af anyway.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Poohy - thanks for clarification. Hmm..i encountered AF come later than what it should be few months ago. MY menses came CD45 and i thought i was preggie. No hsg detected in my urine and went to do blood test instead...Think now you just relax and dont't think about it. dont't stress yourself too much on trying to concieve..slowly tiao back your body..when your AF turns up and finish later on.

    Dragontail - I checked back my record, i started with traditional chinese medicine in Aug, I am in my 4th month of bbt charting.Dr Wu gave me green light to try naturally in my 3rd cycle. I told her i dont't sleep well.Think she incorporate some powder to aid sleeping..hehe. The powder now become very "ku" nowadays and I am not on powder. She gave me "an tai" powder before i went holiday. I was like..err..r you sure i need it? No sign of bfp, how to an tai. She asked me to take it if no AF. if AF turns up then stop immediately and resume once AF is cleared. Need to resume back when my AF is finally cleared - in the next two days i hope. I am thinking to see her tomorrow. Quickly get her to tiao my body back..and see it is feasible to take an tai or she will prescribe other medicine.

    Dragontail - Just go with the flow..if tomorrow got feel then BD .

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    Hey gals...me on cd22 today...normal cycle is 28 days...bbt still up..having sore breasts and slight backache today..wondering issit a sign of af?

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    Hi Yukki, sounds promising to me! Bbt still up, sore breast, back pain but but dont read too much of the symptoms to avoid disappointment. If you want can do hsg test?

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    Cherrie, maybe mine is the "sleepy" powder because this 2nd batch not nice to drink. Bitter plus I dont't know how to describe. First batch concoction was much better!

    Will be good idea you can visit tomorrow since you've no powder now. I should be seeing her next Wed instead of Sun. Beat the crowd.

    Yukki, why are you reading symptom when you are so early in your 2ww huh huh? At this point, anything can happen so just relax

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    Dragontail. .how is the crowd on wed? I'm working and thinking to take queue no during lunch time and go there after work again. Im not sure how is the queue on Wed? Do i have to go 2 times instead of going straight after work?

    I still have 3 weeks an tai powder. Havent touch at all. Dont know whether is it appropriate to take and best to see her 2ml I felt.

    something to share with you..I have a colleague from other department. She looks young to me but she is 37. She conceived naturally. Haha so good!

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