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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    rainboww- i've been trying to concieve for #2 for a quite a while and tried IUI few times also failed. So doc suggested to go for ivf, plus my hub's soldiers not strong/weird shape/low count etc. of coz my eggies also need a lot of 'encouragement' before they come out ....so ivf was my last resort.

    i'm seeing dr yu at singapore general hospital.

    ooh dragontail- ask AF to shoo away and comes the baby!

    i've been feeling very tired this week....dont know issit coz i'm going to fall sick. Hope wont affect my 2ww....sigh..somemore got weird dreams last night! dreamt of my uncle and my late grandma (cant be subconsioucs thinking of them in daytime!)...and also dream that my dad sent me to work at 4am when i'm not changed yet! and i said why so early! ahhahaah....
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    Happy mid week to all! 今天会更好!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Yes it's mid week everyone. I know it's gonna be a GOOD day. *positive thinking*

    Maq, mine wasnt exactly ewcm, although it was stretchy like 10cm! Stretchy creamy. Dangling from the very when I was done pooing. Haha sorri ladies TMI. Hope you all had breakie.

    I do get that sometimes post-O (especially when poo-ing because of the little straining). So it's "norm' I hope.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    poohy, did your temp go any higher today? Haa dreams are really funny sometimes. Sometimes I wake up having a grin on my face because I realised I just had a nonsensical dream. Gulp down cups and cups of water!

    On the IVF topic, a closed one of mine did hers at Kandang Kerbau Hospital (under an Indian lady doc. Think she is popular on IVF). 2nd round and it is successful. Twins. She is approaching 14 weeks. She has one fully blocked and one partially blocked tubes. Doc mentioned hard to unclot them. And it was also found out she has a cyst somewhere in there. It was surgically removed after the first round of IVF. After removing, then she strike in her next IVF. So perhaps the cyst could be part of the reason that first round didnt make it.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    poohy i have been trying for the longest times too since 2011. maybe ivf is the only way for me.. sighs! btw do you know if they scan and place good eggs as in the fertilized eggs (not sure how else to call them) that are genetically good and that baby/babies will be healthy and no need other pregnancy testings? i read that they do screening in certain countries so that more often than not, the babies do no have any problems and are all healthy ones. my concern cos i m past 35

    dragontail, twins! wow wow double wows.. i love to get twins!!!

    oh dreams - get that a lot during 2ww somehow..

    btw so raspberry tea is considered not 'liang' and can drink with wild abundance

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    hi hi dragontail, my temps is in the 36.6 range! and you know..my FF chart is so long now with CD59 that it looks so small on my screen! dont know why i tend to dream of me rushing to work without properly dressed yet...so stressful.hahaha.

    rainboww - have you let fertility specialist do a full check on you and hub? if not maybe good to let them check and see whats wrong. have you tried iui? my 1st one was via IUI..succcessful 1st time i took clomid. I think they will put in embryos that are in good condition but not sure if they are already genetically good. i also like twins but then i guess it will be quite handful to manage them!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Poohy, wahaha ya ya… your cycle so long you need a big smart tv to see your FF chart clearly. Kaka.

    Haa… looks like you must be quite stressed on work. Friday coming and weekend coming!

    Rainbow, I may be wrong but I dont’t think SG does any genetic checks on the eggs and spermies. I dont’t even think SG allows picking of Y-chromosome soldiers (ie pick the boys).

    My buddy who has the twins now told me a bunch of eggs are being injected with the spermies. Then left for 5-6days for them to become blastocyst. This is where it’s the best time to implant them into the womb. She just did her Oscar test 2 days ago with flying colors. dont’t need further tests. She is 35 and her hubby is 42.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    dragontail, oh yeah i need a big smart tv!!! and i think i should copy to the paper BBT chart if i'm going to see dr wu or else she going to squink her eyes to see! But am glad i O'ed..just that its later than usual. No wonder breastfeeding moms without AF also get pregnant.....

    oh yeah, IVF in spore doesnt allow you to choose whether to inject boy or gal spermie in....if can i think a lot of couples will go for ivf . =)

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    poohy i was going for checks when i got preggy n lost at e end of 1st trim. anyways, you might not need ivf after all

    dragontail, wows! non identical twins i believe. r they e same gender? yes i m thinking of genetic checks so oscars etc are tests as formalities. your buddy is super duper lucky! many congrats to her!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Good morning its Wednesday!! Mid week! I can smell weekend!!

    Welcome back yukki!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    According to my frend who did IVF with Dr. Steven Teo, they made her inject everyday to get more eggs and in all she got 15 eggs out and all these 15 eggs will be fertilised with hubby best troops....out of which only 3 were successful and in Spore only 2 embryos can be implanted at one time. Hers in the intial stage doc scan is 1 embryos successfully implanted then when she went to her traditional chinese medicine, the traditional chinese medicine told her she got 2 but 1 is very very weak....so i guess traditional chinese medicine gave her an tai medi. When she went back Kandang Kerbau Hospital to scan, there comes out another one!! So now she is at 12 weeks plus...

    I know during IVF she got to have bed rest but i am not sure how long, but she did mention like no exercise, no cycling etc etc.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I am going to get the raspberry leaf tea too!!

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Rainbow, since my buddy is still quite early stage, the scan of gender cant be confirmed. But the sonographer saw an extra something on one of them; while the other twin doesn’t have. So high chance one prince, one princess J. Yes they are non identical. I cant wait to greet them in May 14! Thanks for the congrats.

    But twins also has some woes. They have to plan something extra on the care-taking. I have another girlfriend whom has triplets! Naturally. Oh my… must a challenge.

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    Dragontail, omg...pre seed sounds fun! Hehehe...

    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:841323
    RD, use the syringe like thing of the preseed like a tampon. Can ask hubby to do it for you. Can be part of the uh hmm foreplay mah. Otherwise, can still apply externally like any other lubricant.

    You mentioned your health is not so well now...try to eat more por if your sinseh gives you green light. And take some multivits to boost your system too. Must take care oh.

    Yes 10dpo. But I dont wish to give myself unnecessary hope because 3dpo I already had similar spotting. So this LP has been full of surprises.

    My temp usually drops a day before af. So I shall see hows my Friday's temp.

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    I just bot raspberry tea from halland & barrett at raffles city. Cheap ...1 pkt $5.9 & 2 pkt $9.9!

    Cant wait to try in ofc later!

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    Red dates first try go easy on e gooey stuff k. I got kiasu n goes overboard on my first try n those exceds just trickled out..I got all sticky gooey overall just a very yucky wet mess. Hubs n I had a good luff over it though. He keep saying love juice volcano!!!

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    Good piece of advice there from Maq. I only use 2-2.5. Anything more likely the spermies gonna flow out with the preseed. That's what I think for my case.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail your friend can 'close shop'! Super lucky n i m super envious... True, caretaking is an issue. But def a happy problem..

    Mxlo, your friend too! Whos e traditional chinese medicine super power can 'rescue' e baby?

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    Does that means poohy body temp is within e hopeful range?

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    There's no "ideal" temp when it comes to bbt. Everyone's bbt coverline is different (can google for bbt and we will see all sort of chart patterns!). Most importantly we try to catch/confirm o from bbt charting and of course if the temps stay elevated beyond the af due date then it can be indicative.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by rainboww View Post
    Dragontail your friend can 'close shop'! Super lucky n i m super envious... True, caretaking is an issue. But def a happy problem..

    Mxlo, your friend too! Whos e traditional chinese medicine super power can 'rescue' e baby?

    hahaha!! my frend was grumbling, 2 very ex...everything must buy 2.....she only wanted one. haha!

    My friend went to the Marine Parade one...damn famous and queue damn long .....heard no queue number, they just put chairs outside and you just sit there and wait.

    I can get the info from you if you want!

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    Wow that is cheaper than cedele ones theare 9.90 for 16 bag in I pack.

    Oh ladies if you drinking raspberry leaf. Please do not drink when you o and after till e 1st trim is finish than drink back.

    Quote Originally Posted by red dates:841467
    I just bot raspberry tea from halland & barrett at raffles city. Cheap ...1 pkt $5.9 & 2 pkt $9.9

    Cant wait to try in ofc later!

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    Omg! Cant wait to try the stuff man! But must wait till my bleeding stop first...hehe


    Quote Originally Posted by Maqisa:841478
    Red dates first try go easy on e gooey stuff k. I got kiasu n goes overboard on my first try n those exceds just trickled out..I got all sticky gooey overall just a very yucky wet mess. Hubs n I had a good luff over it though. He keep saying love juice volcano!!!

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    Fangning, thanks for the advise!

    Im also taking royal jelly in the morning and flax seed oil at nighy...i'll just try anything that helps w thickening my lining.


    Quote Originally Posted by fangning:841569
    Wow that is cheaper than cedele ones theare 9.90 for 16 bag in I pack.

    Oh ladies if you drinking raspberry leaf. Please do not drink when you o and after till e 1st trim is finish than drink back.

    Quote Originally Posted by red dates:841467
    I just bot raspberry tea from halland & barrett at raffles city. Cheap ...1 pkt $5.9 & 2 pkt $9.9

    Cant wait to try in ofc later!

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    My hub very cautious one...think he will use bit by bit...I always let him control the usage...hehehe

    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail:841480
    Good piece of advice there from Maq. I only use 2-2.5. Anything more likely the spermies gonna flow out with the preseed. That's what I think for my case.

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