Our Mobile App: iPhone · Android

  • You are trying to conceive?
  • You have pregnancy questions?
  • How do you know whether your baby's teething or has a cold?
  • You have Family, home & financial issues?

...Then you have come to the right place!
we will try to help you with your problem.

Like Tree700Likes

We are trying to concieve-ing!

This is a discussion on We are trying to concieve-ing! within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Hi all, Question. you gals shld know I had problematic ewcm, therefore I tried to study whatever cm I hve... ...

  1. #19051
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hi all, Question. you gals shld know I had problematic ewcm, therefore I tried to study whatever cm I hve... today is my cd11 and I noticed I get these whitish watery cm. Not sticky, just watery, diluted type of milky cm. So is that norm? I thought I shld be getting at least some clear cm that resemble ewcm? I know I hve very little (sometimes dont even hve any, sad rite..) ewcm but I guess even if its a little, it'll give me a little hint that I might be O-ing? Pls Help!!!! so frustrated with my cm

  2. #19052
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    read that watery milk-like cm means its those not fertile cm, correct me if I m wrong

  3. #19053
    Imperial Concubine MXLO's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    SPORE
    Posts
    570
    Rep Power
    4

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hello good morning gals!!

    Maqisa watery milk like cm may progress to egg white cm?

    Sorry just wanna check if you have been seeing any traditional chinese medicine? you may have mention but I have forgotten! SORRY!

  4. #19054
    Imperial Concubine yukki's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2013
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    506
    Rep Power
    4
    Woo dragontail...is it common for sinseh to ask ppl stopped trying for the cycle? My sinseh doesn't...she only ask me to take her med...avoid cold stuffss...and take my bbt regularly..
    Anyway...your o time shld be coming soon right?

    My expected af is 8-dec...which i'm alrdy in usa ..

    Lol..yeah heard say the h&m stores there are huge and provide wider range of varieties...

  5. #19055
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    am not sure if this type of cm will eventually ''graduated'' to ewcm or not... think in my case, most likely not coz I dont seem to hve ewcm....

  6. #19056
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Maq, for my case, this is what happens thru my cycle :
    Cd1-3 : af
    Cd4-6 : spotting
    Cd7-10 : dry
    Cd11-15: gradual watery white/clear cm
    Cd16-19 : ewcm
    Cd20-30 : lotiony cm (a lot)
    Cd31-33 : getting dryer then welcoming new cycle.

    Each month hovers around there. As I get older, my ewcm day span also gets shorter.

  7. #19057
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Yukki it can be common. My last sinseh wanted me to take 2 months or so break after my mc. This new sinseh wants to tiao me first for one cycle then access. Because I have history of multiple mcs so he wants to make sure my body is ready before the next step.

  8. #19058
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Yukki me today is cd10. My o-day should be about cd18/19.

    Dont think about 8dec...think about your upcoming fun! By the way, are you a super thrill ride seeker?

  9. #19059
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Thks for sharing Dragontail... guess i'll just go back to preseed if theres little or no ewcm again... sigh.

    never knew I wld be so obsessed with my cm...

    told hubs we r gearing up for a new cycle, cd10 all the way to cd20... since I dont want to do opk yet. alt day bd hmwk. This month I dont care already, i m just goin to bd with a mission. He said i looked kindda scary when i was telling him our Dec baby making plan.

  10. #19060
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Mxlo: I did not go do any traditional chinese medicine. I think i shld but i m still indecisive which traditional chinese medicine to go to. I read that the Dr Chan frm Marine Parade is quite good frm feeling pulse. But the q sounds really frightful, as 2-3 hr wait is considered the norm... i shuddered at the long waiting time.

  11. #19061
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Both my sinsehs (and my fertility specialist) kinda say the same thing....bd not having to be obsessed with baby making in the mind.

    My last sinseh cited this(quite weird/extreme but maybe got some truth to it) that rape victims get preggie easily; and not when one consciously think about it. I was then joking with my hubby please rape me lol.

    And this new sinseh lagi more happy go lucky. He says to me "stressing yourself and your hubby won't produce any good result. Cannot always think WE WANT. If god dont give you you want also no point". Very ouch . But at the same time he also encourages us to just take a day as it comes.

    I feel we have been doing everything right past many months..opk , cm monitoring, bbt, bd marathon etc. But my sinseh says these are the things I have been doing "wrong". Just bd regular at the crucial period and leave the rest to him (his treatment to tiao me) and God's hand. Dont think of anything else already.

  12. #19062
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    dragontail: hey your traditional chinese medicine doc sounds so cool.. i like him already, hahhaha...

    actually, before all this crazy trying to concieve-ing days, i was quite nonchalant about when's the right day to go about it. I admit i m def damn On for last month n this... Actually i feel i m reaching the last leg in the trying to concieve race. I can kindda feel the exhaustion sinking in. Fast. Maybe after this month, i might just slip back to the usual bo-chup trying to concieve mentality.

  13. #19063
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    and all we need is 1 good strong spermmie coming in contact with eggy at the right moment. The perfect def to Easier said than done...

  14. #19064
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    This sinseh quite cool .

    To be totally dont think of trying to concieve every cycle is hard. I mean just like I tell you dont think of elephant. The elephant pops to our mind lol. Hard to be totally zen. But I guess just not being obsessed and focus on other things will be just fine.

  15. #19065
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Gals, just allow me to do my occasional senseless ranting to let off those in-built frustrations here ok?

  16. #19066
    Imperial Concubine MXLO's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    SPORE
    Posts
    570
    Rep Power
    4

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Yukki dont tink so much, just enjoy your trip and reward yourself with the shopping!! I feel so excited for you! HOLIDAY!

    Maqisa - yes the one at marine parade is good, my friend that got twins from ivf went to him before going to ivf. he was the one that read her pulse to say that she is expecting twins but the scan only show 1 sac. He explains that the other one is weak so cannot see. But after some medi from him my frend went to scan the 2nd time and finally the 2nd sac shows. heard long wait and no queue system, you just sit on the chair and wait.

    dragontail your both sinseh very funny but i reckon there is some truth. my sinseh quite serious kind. dont really joke. she just say can try this month.

  17. #19067
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Dr Chan is very famous indeed. However I dont't agree with the long queuing and I heard some mixed feedback about him so skipped.

    I just did my acu. Wah pain man this time. But those points he did really like catch the spot. Got strong sensation.

  18. #19068
    Imperial Concubine yukki's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2013
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    506
    Rep Power
    4
    Dragontail...im not a super thrill fun lover...no more guts...lol...but i will try out a few ..depends on hw exciting e rides are...lol...

    Anyway...me no care about the 8-dec...come come ...i alrdy prepared pads in case... me jz want enjoy my shopping...

  19. #19069
    Imperial Concubine MXLO's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    SPORE
    Posts
    570
    Rep Power
    4

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    dragontail - where pain!! your sinseh twist the needles? sensation! scary!

  20. #19070
    Worthy Lady
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    spore
    Posts
    47
    Rep Power
    0

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    hello ladies.. just popping by to say hi. anyway, i m out of the thread and no i m not preggy. seen the doc and i have to do more tests. but for now, it looks like ivf is the way to go for me after the initial tests. well i m not prepared nor intend to do ivf at all but just go thru tests and queue up for the counseling. so good luck to you guys, i see a few potential ones! will pop by as and when..

    yukki enjoy your trip! buy lots!

  21. #19071
    Imperial Concubine MXLO's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    SPORE
    Posts
    570
    Rep Power
    4
    Rainboww!!!! dont go!

  22. #19072
    Imperial Concubine Maqisa's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Punggol
    Posts
    512
    Rep Power
    5

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Rainbow: its always good to have another option, furthermore ivf procedure takes time and yes, i read that we gotta q up for it and undergo several tests, it cld be a couple of months till they do the procedure. Rainbow, its a tough and brave decision and i salute you. If you can, do share with us your ivf journey shld you decided to go for it, btw, i read that lotsa women gotten their bfp while waiting for ivf D day... stay positive!

  23. #19073
    Worthy Consort Dragontail's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    singapore
    Posts
    4,171
    Rep Power
    9
    Mxlo gee I dont know what he did man. The point is at the back middle near bra line. Ouch ouch.

    Rainbow, go with the flow. If ivf is what it takes, then you also have to stay calm and positive so the whole process will be not be too stressful. Remember we have to keep positive mind...it's very powerful!

  24. #19074
    Imperial Concubine yukki's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2013
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    506
    Rep Power
    4
    Thanks rainboww..i will definitely buy more...
    Anyway...stay positive! you have all of us supporting you... i'm sure all of us will graduate and become mummies to be...so stay positive n happy!

  25. #19075
    Worthy Lady
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    spore
    Posts
    47
    Rep Power
    0

    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    I m not mentally prepared. I knw i cannot take ivf disappointments so i m not doing yet.
    It may be more detrimental (mentally) than helpful for me..
    i m ok with injections but cannot take failures

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Connect With Us

facebook twitter rss

MummySG Facebook Group

Loading...
All times are GMT +8. The time now is 09:20 AM.