Risty, hugs. Wipe your tears away ok.
I feel in life, comparing is our worst enemy. There's always someone richer, healthier, happier, etc than us. Or it can be the other way round. So I see that it's best to take pride in our own state and just make the best out of it.
As for your hubby, it's very typical of man. Maybe once a while go for a short trip? It really does make a difference when holidaying. No work, no computer game, no stress... just enjoy each other.
In fact, many couples seem to hit jackpot when they dont't think too much of baby making! So you never know, Risty.
Stay positive and healthy and happy. I am sure your dream will come true.