Think she shld be in those edd thread ...
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Mxlo, how are you doing??
Think she shld be in those edd thread ...
Lynn: fwah... you r so young!!! Why you think bout menopause? Think Menopause come to me faster then to you man.. and poohy, I lk your attitude gal. Yes, my menses also become lesser, not dat I hve loads to begin with, at some point I do worry but come what may...
Think I m on e abnormal side coz normally gals start to hve their period at 12-15 in my case, I didnt get my period till I m bout 18! Scary right...
No .. If im near 50s, then i wont be scared of menopause, cos i ever heard my friend telling me her colleague menopause at around 30plus.. thats why I scared. I think it does happen but maybe rare cases..somemore Im very skinny n heard skinny gals will have more of such symptoms. Now I just "switch off" pretending im just pco patients.. sometimes i feel being ignorance is a blessing too! Know too much will make us worry for nothg! My menses is very light, sometimes the first 2 days already no more.. thats why i worry. Now i kw pcos is like that, menses is supposed to be light..must learn to accept it. I started to have my menses at around 14yr old.. menses was a lot could last for 5 to 7 days.. only last yr then i realised i got this prob.
Wah, you started hving yr period at 18yr old, I heard if you started late, you will menopause late.. better rgt?
I have the same experience as you. I think Dr Wu's medicine is more heaty, when i tried for the first dose, it quickly warmed up my tummy. Thats why she did not want me to take red dates tea as she said if i got sore throat, got to stop her medicine. If under Dr Wu, she can help me see "blood" every month within 35days, I will be very happy cos at least i kw im not going near menopause..haha..then from there I shall see if i want to try IUI or IVF.
Lynn: think its myth... yeah dat time my mom was damn worried, thought I m those who might never get their period. I rem her bringing me to see dr after dr n even seen a specialist once. I wasnt too freaked out thou. I just thought its nice not having any menses coz I was not comfy with blood, pad etc.
Lynn: do you get very bad menses cramp?
Hi Maqisa, are you referring to my pcos? I normally dont't always get menses cramp but only last month when I took ice cream one day before my menses, then I got super bad cramp till I got to take painkiller. I think pcos symptom varies among diff patients.. cos normally is for overweight patients with high sugar level or high cholesterol, with more hair on the body etc.. but all these i dont't have. Thats why when i told my traditional chinese medicine dr su, she seems to be surprised.. but i just got a feeling she is not very confident in treating my condition. Esp when i asked her if acupuncture can help, she said "can try.." plus got a feeling that her med works super slow compared to Dr wu.
Btw when you started to have yr menses at age 18, were you underweight that time? Coz im underweight n I heard usually if underweight, menses would come slightly later than normal females, although I got my first period at age 14 but also not regular till age 15 onwards..I envy those gals who can have their menses on the same exact day every month. Coz it created lots of inconvenience when im out without kwing my menses came out of sudden.( esp no signal like cramps).
Nope. Not under or overweight. N it wasnt herditary either so itz kinda mind boggling as to why I didnt get mine
I got My period at age 11 I think.... omg means I will menopause early than everyone here !?!?
Littlehamster, dont't scare yrself.. It may not be true.. Maybe myths?? Relax ok..
I remember exactly i had my first af on 1 Nov when I was 14
My granny had her menopause in her 30s. Yup that's very unusual. But that was after she popped 8 children. But my mom meno late. And my eldest sis has no sign of early meno yet at the age of 47 now.
Dragontail, you give me hope.. My mum menopause late too.
Hurrrr I'm still the youngest to have period soooo early!!!! I recall that in pri sch, all the girls having this 'girl' talk by Kotex n whisper then a lot girls was like wtf Are they talking about.. Then I that time already knew. Why????? I still so young n cute why I come period so earlyyy. Now Lynn say I can menopause early then omg I'm an old woman soooooon?????? If one day I get all weirdo you all will know I menopause??? I hope I can preggy and pop before 30 (I say before I hope to have by 28, then by 29) will I continue every year to say I wanna pop before 31, 32, 33? Who knows I menopause next year then I won't able to preggy n have kids how ????? I not underweight also, maybe during pri sch I got slightly chubby abit. I feel I'm normal and my period always come on time. Never thought menopause will come for me so early Lynn you no need worry now cos I think I more will have early menopause than you
Omg! dont think that way ok.. Littlehamster. Lets not talk about menopause anymore.. We also not sure when will it happen to us rgt? All these just old people sayings, may not happen.. My mum also didn't have pco but I have rgt? I'm also puzzled why am I hving all these.. My aunties all dont't have also.. That's why I think maybe its our lifestyle.. Now I try to be positive a bit.. Though its not easy for me. So long you got yr menses regularly you are pretty safe.. I'm more at higher risk. dont't scare yrself..
you kw when I told my gynae I suspected I'm going to menopause soon coz I always skipped menses etc. She gave me a " blur" look as if I'm a " alien". Thereafter before I did the scan, she already told me most likely was pcos. N she confirmed the diagnosis. I hate this pcos coz it really makes me feel misleading!
Yay we are not going to talk about menopause here ever! Yay!!
Still bit hard to not say But I kept thinking about it every since I realised this thru all these talk . I going See Kandang Kerbau Hospital doc again on 2 Apr. you think I shld bring forward by appt??? I want ask her about this, why So long till now I have preggy. So sadded. Or Maybe I shld check with DrC? I'll bet He And other traditional chinese medicine Sure tell me same thing dont think So much dont think So much. I dont want let My hubby down let his Mum down. So hard , being the first son's daughter in law. His Mum always ask ask ask, luckily his side n My side No grandma or grandpa if not I cannot imagine What will happen . (*>.<*) awwwww.. I know everyone here cares for me, I appreciate all these.. somehow somehow... :'(
Lynn, since you already decided on western So shldnt be a problem for you right. Got root cause can get correct medicine to treat. Me dont know anything
Last edited by littlehamster; 02-03-2014 at 01:02 PM.
yeah! We are not going to talk about those negative thgs anymore! Lets live happily..
Littlehamster, dont worry ok.. we are still young.. So you still need not worry so much.. furthermore you are not like me .. Im more "problematic" rgt?
But still i got to accept this now.. trying hard to accept it or get use to it.
Er.. i actually kw next wk when I see my gynae, she will give me hormones pills to regulate my menses, I am sceptical of taking hormones pills so I dont think i will take too long, just for a start to 'get rid " of the polycystic ovaries.. then later i continue with Dr Wu med to regulate my cycles.. i believe she can help me due to my previous experience with her. Thereafter I will do blood test to see if under her, i got ovulate or not..before i decide to go further with my gynae to do IUI or IVF.
Little hamster dont't worry too much!
Is it results review for your 2 Apr appt?
Just write down the list of questions you wanna ask
No question is silly question.
At least you ask, dr answers. Then you have an answer to your query rather than getting stressed up guessing where went wrong.
Cd24 (dpo10) today.
Think out this cycle again..
Next month going to start clomid and keeping away the opk and bbt thermometer as advised by Kandang Kerbau Hospital dr tan.
However hub will be overseas for work during my fertile period.
Aww lilhammie. Hugs. Auntie loves you ok
soursop, it's too early to give up just for this cycle. Anything can happen ya.
Me CD14. I have been bleeding since my hsg. Think I didnt have a good experience with hsg. Anyway I am on medication (went to O&G 2 nights ago because of the bleed. Not heavy but more like af tail). Now 4 days after hsg and the bleed is definitely subsiding. No discomfort or whatsover.
soursop, if hubby not around next cycle, would you want to postpone your clomid?
Ya dont talk about mxxxpaxxx .we are all young! Theres so much for us to do!
Littlehammie...you still younger than many of us here..dont't worry and dont bomb your doc with such questions. .go ask something else. Haha..else the doc kick you out of room before you reach main point
Yeah dragon tail jia you...eat more nourishing food.
Pcos is not a big big problem and seems to be used quite lightly. Anyway I also got friend wjo said got pcos but also preg naturally. Guess we all must continue healthy diet and dont anyhow eat. .keep tum tum warm.
Oppss am I getting too naggy
Dragontail, are you okay? Did the o&g mentioned why you bled?
i rem the dr did told me to monitor for bleeding after hsg, if there is then need to go to the 24 hr o&g clinic cos worried about infection
As to whether should I postpone clomid..... We'll I'm thinking he will be gone from my cd 13 onwards .... So I'm banking that his spermies can survive till my ovulation which is usually on cd14....
dont nut want to postpone clomid