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    Hehe FF indeed detected O to b cd21

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    oh no I feel so depressed now. can someone confirm if opk+ and becomes - again, does it mean O has happened (given that BBT was not taken)? cos I was tracing back last month's record and found that my temp only increased 2 days after my +opk. and I have been missing the right day to bd. cos I always bd on day of +opk and for the next 2 days my dear husband has got to "rest" so I always dont have the after +opk days covered...sigh...

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    HFA actually you did it on the right day. It doesn't mean you should only bd on exact ovulation day because the swimmers also need time to travel up to your ovaries. The best is the spermies are waiting for the egg to pop rather than the egg wait for spermies to come fertilize her. Spermies can live in the tubes for few days. So imagine you bd only on ovulation day, might be too late.

    A negative opk after a positive doesn't mean one has definitely oed. Yes a bbt should confirm o instead.

    After my positive opk, I always o one or two days later. Think this is quite so for most ladies.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Thanx Dragontail. I hope hub's swimmers can last for 2days.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Hfa, ever since I know hubby SA so low, dont want him to bd everyday. Too tiring n no good spermies

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Littlehamster, yes that's y it's so very impt for us to get the exact day cos we can't afford to have many days covered....

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    HFA girl spermies can last longer! Boy ones not so. My first bfp im very sure we bd many days before ovulation. And his SA ain't exactly fantastic. So anything can happen. If you can afford to only bd once, I find the the day of positive opk is the best.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    My previous bfp, I bd on 31Oct and 3nov and got bfp on 20nov. I did not take opk but I took bbt. My bbt spiked on 3nov. Do you think I got my bfp from 31oct or 3nov?
    why I ask this is cos I couldn't understand whether I got preggy from bd-ing before O or after O. If I got preggy from 3nov then it means I shouldn't bd every time I c +opk! instead shld bd when I c bbt spike.

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    I think for that we will never know....but every bfp is different I guess.

    Maybe next cycle you bd a day after positive opk?

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    No more next cycle....will go iui...can't take another disappointment.

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    Yeah go go go. Good luck to your IUI!

    Next tue is my gynae visit. I will know then if I'm going for ivf.

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    OPK n BBT difficult for people with difficulty in conceiving. I always have difficulty understanding. So glad I decide to stop both n go IVF.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Minty, how's your ivf story? Have you started already?

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragontail, my AF just came today so visiting CARE tomorrow to get my stimulation injects n learn self injection. Finally it's starting....

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Quote Originally Posted by Dragontail View Post
    Yeah go go go. Good luck to your IUI!

    Next tue is my gynae visit. I will know then if I'm going for ivf.
    Still hoping to have a chance before iui...will test next week if AF never come.
    but if your AF hasn't come, dont have to c gynae on tue right?

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Dragon tail, I am also seeing the gynae next tue at nuh.
    Can I ask for some help, these are my opk for the past few days but it seems i never got a actual + opk.
    Am I right to say all these are - opk?

    I got a smiley using clear blue on CD15, dont know why the opk never show +
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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Minty yes finally it's here... Self injection just takes a few practice and you will be a pro shortly. I also self inject for two cycles last year.

    HFA yes we both hope for this cycle surely. Also must be prepared for my plan B. I'm testing on Monday. Because if bfp then I need to get my ass back to work on tue! Haha because tue which is the Kandang Kerbau Hospital appt I'm taking mc.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Msyoyo oh update after your appt ya.

    Trust your clear blue. I'm sure that was your LH surge on cd15. dont't bother about these cheapies already.

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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Thanks dragontail.. Shall not think too much for now.. We bd on cd 15 and 16.. It was so tiring to bd for two consecutive days..

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    Hello gals

    Maqisa I should be 7 to 8 weeks now. MS of cos. Whole day long and worse during evening and nite time. Feeling quite sick sometimes.

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    Am seeing Dr Ho at Mount e

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    Msyoyo...you cn trust cleablue...quite accurate !
    Anw dont gg tink too much...gg see your gynae first...me went for mine and have lots of additional info...knw what to do next after tis cycle...

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    We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Just visited gynea today after completing all tests..my left tube blocked.she suggested i go for lapo..anyways i mentally prepared myself already..she say no pt try iui since based on scans done before i o fr left side in 2 consecutive mths..no wonder on clomid O fr left ovary cant get preg...any ladies went through lapo?

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    BD on consecutive days is too tiring
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    Re: We are trying to concieve-ing!

    Mintminer, all the best for your ivf journey!

    heartz, what's the Lapo for? To unblock the left tube? If I'm not wrong, lapo is key hole surgery right?

    can move on to ivf instead since gynae says no point iui?

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