You have to make it clear to your hubby as well. Men are always not very receptive of what we say. So it has to be stated very clearly to them.
Just tell them, I am the mother and I know what is best for my child. Thank you so much for your "kind" gestures, comments and opinions, I will try to take that in mind. Now would you all please have the basic courtesy to leave me and baby alone to rest as this is the period that I need my rest the most! Thank you.