Clinic, previous church, etc etc.. dont't feel good about this.. Example we were on marriage counselling a period of time.. Our 2 follwed us to pastor's office .. And the kind pastor will buy my boy lollipop.. Waaaa.. Then the next day, he'll cough badly with lots of phelgm followed by fever.. sigh.. After two times it happen, I explained nicely to our pastor not to give him sweet .. I really panic when he has high fever one.. Then our pastor switched n give them little stuff like stickers and balls etc.. heehee..
Present church dont't give sweets like the previous one does (for rewards etc) and we are really glad.. Tried our best to minimise.. The elder boy is controlled till recently, he's 5 now but tough to do so for our ger.. Her keke old enough to have a little but a little to her age is alot .. Whatever he has, she wants too..
Sweets really make them hyper one.. And additive too.. And I believe sweets will reduce their immune system.. Some have coloring which some kids are allergic too..
Now whenever i see sweets or no so good snack inside goody bags etc, will take them away.. Sometimes throw them away.. No good to give to other kids if i chose not to give to mine ..
Yes, now I buy goat milk sweet to give them..