Though we are without a maid (domestic helper) now and after discussion we insist to do without a maid (by choice) as we are too frightened/put off by the sharings of relatives and friends, I will referred by my buddy the following good article by a mommy:

Hope this is of great reference to any family engaging a domestic helper..

PLs feel free to add on any interesting and useful comments ir sharing to this thread..

Wishing all happy relationships with your domestic helper!