I still dont't know why didn't the gynaes detect the abnormalities till the 22nd week, or why Kandang Kerbau Hospital couldn't tell me what was wrong, until I visited a private hospital gynae.
No point pondering over them anymore either I suppose. I'm glad you've decided to try again. My aunt (many years ago) had the same problem. Except hers was never detected, and days before her due date, she could smell something rotten coming from within her, and she knew something was wrong. It was only them the hospital realised the baby was sick and dying. Years later, in her late-30s, she gave birth to a healthy baby girl, and later in her mid-40s, another healthy baby girl.
With such miracles happening everywhere, we'll pray and believe we'll receive ours too, soon. =)