You need to drill this message into your hubby's head:
YOU CHOSE TO START THIS FAMILY WITH ME, PLEASE PUT IN MORE EFFORT & RESOURCES.
You've already given enough to your parents & you are just spoiling them to the extend that they don't know how to rely on themselves anymore. Can you provide for them FOREVER???
My hubby gets this very clearly. Our family is the one he chose to start with me, not his parents. He was born into that family - not his choice. As long as he has done his duty as a son, he should put HIS FAMILY first.
YOU CHOSE TO START THIS FAMILY WITH ME, PLEASE PUT IN MORE EFFORT & RESOURCES.
You've already given enough to your parents & you are just spoiling them to the extend that they don't know how to rely on themselves anymore. Can you provide for them FOREVER???
My hubby gets this very clearly. Our family is the one he chose to start with me, not his parents. He was born into that family - not his choice. As long as he has done his duty as a son, he should put HIS FAMILY first.