EDD in Dec 2011

missesjoanna

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No, PIL not doing my confinement, when I just preggy we informed them and they already made it clear that they won't help.
They asked us to get confinement lady.
When SIL preggy, MIL got her confinement lady and they even go and helped out!
Actually I got no expectations from them also, just hope that they don't upset me can Liao ........
I know I not their daughter so no place in their heart, and can't compare!
luckily PIL never do confinement for you. if not i don't think you will have peace! is very 明显 they super dote on this daughter of their!!!
yea la don't expect so much from just hope they don't do anything to make you angry or upset during your confinement period!
your mum will pop by your house everyday? if yes, at least your mum will be there for you.

everyone have their own stories de... although PIL is good to me but sometime i also will feel like not fair when PIL treat his elder and youngest bro so good but hub like different treatment.

We are other ppl's DIL so no choice de. What's most impt is hubby must standby us! So don be so upset okay :D
 

bingtingyin

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oh okay but if ds guai guai then no need lo... cos BIL told me first month both he and his wife take turn carry till morning 6am! i was WAH!
Oh no, they too over Liao. Rem I told u, dun keep carry them. Let bb lie more on bed, even in hospital also let bb lie down n dun keep carry. Our voice can calm them down. Usually bb dun sleep is either they hungry or nt feeling well. So feed them drink more milk so they can sleep longer.
 

hibernate

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oh... hahah yea cos it's a small bottle only.

yea i know is an excuse but what to to do in-laws also no power so diam diam . my sisters' who know also keep asking hahahah. if my mum know sure more jialat!
but i dont't really like her attitude and character so do hub so we dont't care ... as long as their kid will called us title then okay .



WIN !!! want ang pow then called you titles!!!! 真显示!!!



you really more fierce than I do! yea true they should comfort us and not add oil and salt!



YES! you still got your family to love you!!! Sometime really can't comapre ... 人比人气死人!



oh okay but if dear son guai guai then no need ... cos brother in law told me first month both he and his wife take turn carry till morning 6am! i was WAH!
yah lor small bottle, i use 3bottles liao! hahaha

make sure their kid are well-mannered than their own parents! lol =X let their kids put them to shame. but if the kids end up like parents also boh bian .. not our kids, we cant do anything too

want ang bao must be sweet .. no sweet = no ang bao ..
 

hibernate

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luckily parent in law never do confinement for you. if not i dont't think you will have peace! is very 明显 they super dote on this daughter of their!!!
yea dont't expect so much from just hope they dont't do anything to make you angry or upset during your confinement period!
your mum will pop by your house everyday? if yes, at least your mum will be there for you.

everyone have their own stories ... although parent in law is good to me but sometime i also will feel like not fair when parent in law treat his elder and youngest bro so good but hub like different treatment.

We are other ppl's daughter in law so no choice . What's most impt is hubby must standby us! So dont be so upset okay :D
your last sentence .. i fully agree .. whatever we do we'll never be their real daughters one .. treat them how nice also like that. but no matter, dont do bad things, cus what goes ard will come ard. hahahhaa. i dont want my future dil to treat me like crap =X

yeah Xmm as long as your hubby's with you, you'll brave through it!
 

hibernate

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Oh no, they too over . Rem I told you, dont keep carry them. Let baby lie more on bed, even in hospital also let baby lie down n dont keep carry. Our voice can calm them down. Usually baby dont sleep is either they hungry or not feeling well. So feed them drink more milk so they can sleep longer.
is it a good idea to feed baby FM before putting him to sleep at night? and feed him breastmilk in the day ..
 

bingtingyin

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is it a good idea to feed baby FM before putting him to sleep at night? and feed him breastmilk in the day ..
It depend hw u wan feed them. Me last time is night feed FM n abt 2mths I stop nite feed. My frien who gv birth in jun also gv FM at nite so her bb can sleep frm 11 to 5am. Daytime gv her BM.
 

hibernate

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It depend hw u wan feed them. Me last time is night feed FM n abt 2mths I stop nite feed. My frien who gv birth in jun also gv FM at nite so her bb can sleep frm 11 to 5am. Daytime gv her BM.
because i heard FM more filling than breastmilk, can allow baby to sleep through the night. haha. so fast im thinking abt being lazy liao =X
 

missesjoanna

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Oh no, they too over Liao. Rem I told u, dun keep carry them. Let bb lie more on bed, even in hospital also let bb lie down n dun keep carry. Our voice can calm them down. Usually bb dun sleep is either they hungry or nt feeling well. So feed them drink more milk so they can sleep longer.
they are nephew's parents. i think i did told u how extreme they are right? to them doesn't mean bb crying is hungry wan okay! PIL got scolded just because she say "oh bb crying must be hungry!"

yah lor small bottle, i use 3bottles liao! hahaha

make sure their kid are well-mannered than their own parents! lol =X let their kids put them to shame. but if the kids end up like parents also boh bian .. not our kids, we cant do anything too

want ang bao must be sweet .. no sweet = no ang bao ..
WAH! 3 bottles!!! hahaha my one still lying in the cupboard cos i dunno how to use it... hahaha

yea hopefully they will well-mannered lo... if they won't i also bo bian ma right? anyway i don't really sayang nephew hahahahah OOPS!!!
just hope don't like their paretns lo...

got such things meh?! but they don't feel paisey meh... want ang pow then called you! faintzzzzz

your last sentence .. i fully agree .. whatever we do we'll never be their real daughters one .. treat them how nice also like that. but no matter, dont do bad things, cus what goes ard will come ard. hahahhaa. i dont want my future dil to treat me like crap =X

yeah Xmm as long as your hubby's with you, you'll brave through it!
yea! no matter what we do we are not their daughters. even everyday bring them go high class restaurant they won't think we are great. maybe outside telling others dunno why my DIL like to ruan hua qian like husband money can anyhow spent. Especially like me i'm not working so cfm no income and allowance sure come from hub. so sometimes i also need to be careful in buying things and not to let PIL saw it.

Xmm as long as your hubby is always there to support you don't worry too much okay
 

bingtingyin

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because i heard FM more filling than breastmilk, can allow baby to sleep through the night. haha. so fast im thinking abt being lazy liao =X
Yes. FM more thick then BM. Me also think to gv FM at nite so we can sleep longer time. We also hv to prepare for us to return back to wrk. If every nite wake up first time think I next time can't concentrate to wrk. Me also will use bottle feed but sometime latch on.

they are nephew's parents. i think i did told u how extreme they are right? to them doesn't mean bb crying is hungry wan okay! PIL got scolded just because she say "oh bb crying must be hungry!"
Ya, I rem. Nvm la, they wan spoil their son n dun feed him then we also cannt say. Sometime old ppl say one is quite true. 不听老人言, they will regret one. U jus rem they nt good example, dun follow. Hehe.. Do wat u think is rite for ur own bb.

Today morning big sun n nw like going to rain. Lucky all clothing dry n later go can shop shop Liao.
 

missesjoanna

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Ya, I rem. Nvm la, they wan spoil their son n dun feed him then we also cannt say. Sometime old ppl say one is quite true. 不听老人言, they will regret one. U jus rem they nt good example, dun follow. Hehe.. Do wat u think is rite for ur own bb.

Today morning big sun n nw like going to rain. Lucky all clothing dry n later go can shop shop Liao.
Yea lo. Hub already told me don't listen to them too much or rather not to listen!
Hub have eyes to see also la... I won't follow their way too scary le... But true sometimes must listen to eldery lo.
They maybe right at times de.

Looks sunny just now till I went and see raining wor.
But don't think will rain like yesterday so big.
 

bingtingyin

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Yea lo. Hub already told me don't listen to them too much or rather not to listen!
Hub have eyes to see also la... I won't follow their way too scary le... But true sometimes must listen to eldery lo.
They maybe right at times de.

Looks sunny just now till I went and see raining wor.
But don't think will rain like yesterday so big.
Lucky ur hub stil can see n tell wat right n wat wrong. Good!!

My side stil sunny jus can see dark clouds coming.
 

missesjoanna

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Ya lor. Funny weather!! Ur hub wrk today? Me so lazy nw. Hope can lie on bed but my girl keep asking y nt yet go out. Hai...
yea and now it's raining heavily with thunder! hahahaha yea!!! today weather abit funny though!

yea he's working today... so i'm quite sian.. niece not in sg. nephew not coming. maybe going to nap later if can....

so later gotta bring your girl out? maybe in the evening go out for dinner now raining so heavily le...
 

Xmm

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luckily PIL never do confinement for you. if not i don't think you will have peace! is very 明显 they super dote on this daughter of their!!!yea la don't expect so much from just hope they don't do anything to make you angry or upset during your confinement period!your mum will pop by your house everyday? if yes, at least your mum will be there for you.
everyone have their own stories de... although PIL is good to me but sometime i also will feel like not fair when PIL treat his elder and youngest bro so good but hub like different treatment.
We are other ppl's DIL so no choice de. What's most impt is hubby must standby us! So don be so upset okay :D
My mum's health no good and she can't help out much and I also don't wanna tire her.
I will try manage myself.
 

Xmm

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your last sentence .. i fully agree .. whatever we do we'll never be their real daughters one .. treat them how nice also like that. but no matter, dont do bad things, cus what goes ard will come ard. hahahhaa. i dont want my future dil to treat me like crap =X

yeah Xmm as long as your hubby's with you, you'll brave through it!
Can I ask, is it expected that being the eldest son and DIL, we ve to care for PIL when they old?
Since they so dote on their daughter and gave her so much, then their daughter should take care of them instead of me right?
 

missesjoanna

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My mum's health no good and she can't help out much and I also don't wanna tire her.
I will try manage myself.
Then find a CL to help out. Cos first mos is not easy for us to handle alone after all we are first time mummy.

Can I ask, is it expected that being the eldest son and DIL, we ve to care for PIL when they old?
Since they so dote on their daughter and gave her so much, then their daughter should take care of them instead of me right?
By right yes elder son no choice had to look after his parents. But if for me since his parents dote on their daughter so much then she should look after them lo!

But ur hub so 孝顺 I doubt he will not look after....
 
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