When one acts strong or pretend to be happy, one can get tired out.
When one is truly happy and at peace and not affected anymore by whatever negative things others say, people will realize and tire of their efforts to disrupt or hurt our peace. Just like a star that shines in adversity.
Easy...
Hope your adoption process went well.
Children are precious and are such blessings to us.. May we provide the best and most secure environment for our kids to grow up in...
I like your tagline: the child grew and became strong in spirit... Cool...
If it's me as the wife, I'd want to know.
If it's my friend doing wrong, I'll tell him off so bad he'll regret it for the rest of his life.
If it's my staff, I'll confront and make him stop.
If its my boss, I'll warn, he doesn't stop, someone will whistle blow.
Be a thermostat. Not a thermometer.
When you are so calm, composed, collected and competent, you will view every situation differently from previously. Your level of astuteness will increase, people will sit up and listen tight.
Went with my girlfriend to two law firms today. Exhausting day... Lots of tissues used up and lots of crying... My heart aches to see her go through it....
Now to next stage, which is to collect evidence, I guess.
Which PI would you ladies recommend? Any other tips would be greatly greatly...
Yes, keep calm.
But one thing I learnt, never confront without solid evidence. Best is to catch them in the act. Else you will just be embroiled in a "I did not! Yes you did!" kind of endless quarrel, you cry, he shout, say you crazy, say this n that...
At the end, your eyes will be swollen...
Someone asked me this: how many moments in your life do you want to live fearing everything?
He reminded me to live passionately and without fear. (easy to say, right!!!!.....)
But well, really, you never know if he will hurt you again. Maybe yes, maybe not.
But be bravely! Live...
Which one charge 1k for a week of following? Sounds like a cheap deal? The freelance?
But can't use the video in court?
Did they give you details of the other party and something they term a Final Report?
Unforgiven is very astute. You are right, sounds like the two firms and the "freelance PI" (an idea I never heard before!) seem very different. Its amazing. Just like how the same mom can send her kids to PAP and then ST james or nanyang kindergarten then a unregistered tutor within the same few...