I agree with this totally!!
katytan, imagine wetting yourself in school. It would be a horrifying experience.
Also, I don't think there are any 8 year olds who refuses to use the toilet and pee/poop themselves on purpose. There is obviously some problem that needs to be overcome before she will...
At least there is some progress :)
Now, I guess the important thing is to make sure she doesn't embarrass herself in school. Especially, the problem of not knowing how to sit properly and showing off her diapers.
Hmm, is that really the only way to get her out of diapers?
Maybe can leave her in her pull ups and keep bringing her to the toilet every 30 mins?
Honestly I don't feel comfortable making her go cold turkey without diapers. It will be an absolute nightmare for her.
Maybe the fact that...
I am already 30 this year and still single. Would appreciate any advice you ladies would give.
In fact, I've never even been on a date before. This is because I am urinary incontinent since secondary school and need to wear adult diapers all the while. I've always been too embarrassed about...
Don't you think that is a bit cruel?
It's like she cant even control and you take away her diapers. How about school? Everyone will find out and she will be embarrassed. Also, this kind of pants wetting reputation will stick to her even when she moves to secondary school. People will remember.
You might want to consider letting her wear the mammy poko xxl diapers instead of the pull ups. They are cheaper and after all, she doesn't even use the toilet at all. They are also more absorbent, so less chances of embarrassing leaks. Just let her change into pull ups for PE lessons.
Hi, I developed urinary incontinence in secondary school and had to wear diapers all day and night since then. I didn't have any help then and had a hard time. So, I would be glad to help someone else with any questions regarding hiding diapers in school and incontinence in general :)