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    suicidal thoughts

    Stay strong
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    Yet another in laws problem

    Is there any relative from the wife side that your on better relationship with? Can try to ask the person as a middle man to help speak words for you. Otherwise, can have a "open talk" with your parent in law including your wife. You can tell them about the stress that you are facing, and what...
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    in law issue

    have u found alternative care for your n.o 2? If yes, then u can tell her that u hope to give her time to go relax and enjoy life, say it in a nice and sincere way.
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    How couple manage their finances

    I am SAHM and I manage the finances at home. Basically my hubby only look at the "big picture", so he doesn't care much so long as I keep at least one month of his pay in our joint account. We have joint and separate account, but basically the cheque book, online banking token for his bank...
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    i have a lousy husband, lousy marriage and life

    ask yourself the reason u marry him in the first place. There must be something good about your husband or some thing u love about him that made u wanted to spend the rest of your life with him right. Try to talk to him "nicely", tell him how u feel, ask for his help to make this marriage work...
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    Please help

    before u commit to buying any policy, is advisable that u take a look at your next five years cashflow expectation, regardless ur buying a single or regular premium. Cos now the rates on policy r quite low and lock in quite long. So u may also want to consider just parking your savings in some...
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    Hubby always nt happy with me

    I m d hot temper one, I always scold him if he makes mistake or slow in responding to my request (super guilty :x ) My husband is older than me by abt 9 yo, he always give in to me no matter how mad I am. Sometimes he cannot control and loss it, he w apologise later. He dun care abt anniversary...
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    Losing faith

    He must have other qualities that's y you fall in love w him in the first place right? Are the qualities still there? Do they outweight his weakness? For me and hubby, there r things that he wont do unless he kenna scolding from me (every time) and of cos there r things that I do that he hates...
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    Zhu Sheng Niang Niang

    Think it was fated that I was just told abt Song Zi Guan Yin ysday, just found this thread today, google then realise tmr is Lunar Mar 20, ZSNN's birthday. Me n hubby w go pray tmr at TPY SL Temple tmr. Good luck to all who r ttc-ing :)
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    Where got 送子观音庙 ?

    Anybody knows where got 送子观音庙? Thanks !
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    cant find a job

    Retrenchment of abt 500 workers at HGST, then d 5 stars tours collapsed.
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    cant find a job

    if u still consider working, then dun give up on finding a job. There seems to be alot of bad news recently, but w the cut on the foreign workers head count, hopefully it w be easier to find a job for Singaporean. Meanwhile, enjoy your stay at home cos once u find a job, no more tai tai life liao.
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    Relationship problems

    If u really love him, give him another chance, since u have asked and he din want to answer, maybe he not comfortable sharing the problem with u now. Give him the benefit of doubt (i.e. dun assume is becos of another woman). Be extra nice to him recently, help him to relax, show him your...
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    Want to start saving…which bank offers the best rates?

    CIMB 0.8%, so far I think is the highest for savings account in Singapore!
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    how to punish husband's mistress?

    Rather than spending time thinking of how to take revenge on that girl ur husband classify as "easy target", and trying to tolerate your husband until u cannot take it and "leave for your own good", meanwhile must well spend more time to see how u can get more from your husband in terms of money...
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