are u a SAHM? perhaps u can leave ur kids at ur in laws for a day or two to take some time off..
it's NOT good to vent ur anger on your children..
1stly, they r innocent... n being mischievous is in their nature.Afterall, they are still young.
2ndly, it will affect them emotionally n...
hmmm.. is ur boy v small in build? cos i think 12kgs is pretty light for a 4yo.. my girl was 12 kgs when she was 1 yo... 2yo was 14kg.. cant really recall how heavy she was at 3 n 4 but i think abt 16-17kgs.. now at 6 she is abt 19-20kgs.
i believe trust takes time to build up.. initially when i was with my hubby during our dating period, of cos i hv my reservations... plus he was gg overseas to study for 2.5yrs when we were in the 3rd mth of our rs. but as time goes by, and i start to get to know him better, of cos the trust...
Scarlet, well, i dont know if u married (initially) for the right reasons, or divorced for the right reasons... but to reconcile with someone whom u separated with due to communication problems just for the "sake" of giving ur child a happy future, i believe are the wrong reasons..
what makes u...
i think its a very common prob for teenagers (and adults as well) and this is also a very sensitive age to be dealt with. if u handle it wrongly, it might get worst as she might feel that u are trying to control her and might turn rebellious.
i think it would be good to hv a good talk with her...
uh, actually if u do some internet research, shaving ur hair WONT make it grow thicker.. be it ur head or ur armpit or leg hair.
Christina, yes, i just trim the ends abit to cut as yisi yisi. shaving head n stuff, its just a tradition n olden days belief. u can go ahead to do it or u can just...
hmmmm actually some of my mum side relatives also didnt know i was a single mum.. i think some guessed, some just pretend not to know, some probably just assumed i was married.. keke, so some gave me n my daughter, some just gv my daughter! those tt give just take, my mum say cannot reject cos...
my girl's hair was very thick n nice too, so i didnt cut, i only trimmed. if my husband comes to tell me that it is dirty, then i will tell him: isnt tt where ur penis goes into? shld u cut it off each time we have sexual intercourse? since its DIRTY?!
hmmmm so far i didnt have any problems with finding a job due to my single mum status.. i guess i was lucky. :) good luck to the rest looking for jobs! to me i personally find nth to hide n i told my interviewers that my girl is in childcare so there wont be any issue on that. =)
sorry to hear what u are going thru.. it must be very hard on you...
my take is, leave this man. he is useless and not trustworthy... all these while he has been lying to you and how can he not believe tt his own wife is pregnant?
Gather evidence and divorce him based on adultery. As for the...