Agree. keep things to yourself first, until you feel things is too much. If not your hubby will think you too complainy. :)
sometimes if you can tahan, just tahan first. ;)
To be honest, I dont think you can get back much "justice", if money is what you are looking at. You said he is w/o a job. If he can't even stick to a job while he is married, how can he stick to a job when he has all the freedom now?! No responsibility and burden. What makes you think so that...
I agree! Kids are attracted to cute and presentable items. Spend more time to cut the fruits into cute shapes and all. It will be worthwhile for all the time spent when you see them finally eating veggy and fruits!