hi! been very long since i logged into forum.
life hasn't been very good, still in the midst of home ownership transfer (dam), and the loans and CPF are giving me headaches. i think i have moved on on on..been doing lots of yoga lately, it seems to zen out the mind. the x is dealing with crappy...
he has many other issues n i think he is very firm he can nvr be with me again..i tried many times but he is just rejecting times n times again..i dun wish to push it anymore...let him settle all the other issues first..if we can ever get together maybe its fate..if not just let it b..now he is...
1978 - i duno how true when you say there's no more feelings..i realise the more i hate, the more i irked at the thought of him n her is because i care, and the basis is love..if there's no love, there's no need to think so much of such negative thoughts..u would have just 看开and let it go..i am...
1978 - its a conflict isn't it. on one hand i hope that he can u-turn, but yet i know there will be lingering issues maybe never resolve for our characters are like that...to move on, takes a great leap of faith, losing a pillar which i have leaned on for so long..
i have seeked the various...
pls dun mind me venting out..since i really dun have outlets to pour out to..
i have frens who support who standby me but i can't keep telling them how negative i am feeling, how actually like shit i am feeling..but i have to assure them i am fine, i am moving on, i am ok, i will be strong n...
1978 - my D is in process already, i doubt there is a point of return.
He has choosen to stay away from us (move out since Feb this year) and i believe has no intention of coming back anymore.
Probably he feels guilt after the countless affairs (not only 1) and that our marriage was a mistake...
Hi
though i have yet to finalise the D, but i suppose its a matter of time. Never in my life did i imagine that a D would occur in my life, things have been smooth sailing all along, but yet i din see the red lights within the 1st few years of my marriage, until it came to a point of no return...
