he never respondsmy request, I already do what I do already e.g. talk to him, email, notes, sms,etc.YanZee
I am asking because if he still responds to your request, you can at least ask him go to the room and listen to you talk.
If you need his reponse to you, have you ever wonder is it something that you have done recently?
is it because you need to take care of your girls so you used to nag him a lot or something?
at this moment, we can't force him to do anything.
but just to say in a marriage, a lot of things take 2 hands to clap.
to be happy in a marriage, it takes 2.
to break a marriage, it takes 2 as well.
would like to suggest you give things 1 last try.
ask him to go inside your room. say you wish to discuss something.
maybe mention that you want to discuss about your girls will help.
so that you can talk to him about him being so cold.
first start by saying sorry although you dont know what you did wrong.
be prepared things might get worse.
after talking if he still does not open up after a few days, then maybe you just focus on your girls
if he opens up, then like what JuzAngel says, better to go for counselling.
Although we can go to FSC, but take note that some FSC their system is not good.
Maybe you can suggest go look up for a private counsellor.
I do not recommend Feiyue family services.
I not sure if I really did something wrong to him last time, I know I’m wrong in the 1st place when our 2nd daughter is born that time, no times with him as you know is not easy to take care 2 kids especially new born baby for working mom, I already ask for forgiveness from him if I really did something wrong that time.
already ask him, let discuss or talk what happening around lately, our daughter is really missing daddy so much, have your ever care what our daughter being doing lately, even our daughter is sick, I bring her to see doctor, even take leave totake care them, cool treatment to me etc.
I see that everything, the problems start after our 2nd daughter is born, do you all think so too ?