There is an increasing number of affairs with married men, not because there is an increasing number of immature and selfish women, but because there are men who back out from their commitment of marriage. Because i strongly believe that even if there are millions of girls who try to win your man, if your man is committed enough, and who loves you enough...then there is no polygamy. there are so many beautiful and smart women around. but it is your husband who makes the call. #just my two cents.