mizzyeika
New Member
Hi Ladies!
I had my first miscarriage at 5 weeks in March 2010. I was so sad and disappointed especially when the hubby and both of our family members were looking forward towards my pregnancy as this will be the 1st grandchild in the family.
I didnt went for d/c as i lost it in a natural way and i had my menses for almost 2 weeks. Went for a traditional malay massage and my masseusetold me try not to conceive for the next 3 months. I was sad, of course but i tried not to think so much.
Me, husband and both of our families tried not to think about me conceiving so fast. All i could think of is to recover fast and recuperate myself as the process of m/c is so painful. I cant even walk/stand properly. Totally felt like bedridden. I got better after the traditional massage thou.
On mid-may, i was 5 days late for my period. I thought maybe after m/c my menses will be irregular. Talk to my husband and he said he dont think im pregnant and he dont want to put high hopes anymore after the first miscarriage. But i have this instinct, i might be pregnant. I told myself to check next week but this lady is so itchy as i have 3 spares more of pregnancy test kits. Check it and to my astonishment, im pregnant. Everyone is so shocked and delighted esp my hubby.
Had a bleeding a week after, had check with gynae and im already 6 weeks pregnant. Did an ultrasound (as they are afraid it might be ectopic) and they found a small sac. Had to return 3 weeks later and thats when i saw my baby with his/her heartbeat. Im now in my 10 weeks.
So ladies. Please dont lose hope. Try not to think so much and let nature takes it course. Best wishes to all ladies who are trying to conceive.
Sorry for the long winded post. Just have to share something here. =)
I had my first miscarriage at 5 weeks in March 2010. I was so sad and disappointed especially when the hubby and both of our family members were looking forward towards my pregnancy as this will be the 1st grandchild in the family.
I didnt went for d/c as i lost it in a natural way and i had my menses for almost 2 weeks. Went for a traditional malay massage and my masseusetold me try not to conceive for the next 3 months. I was sad, of course but i tried not to think so much.
Me, husband and both of our families tried not to think about me conceiving so fast. All i could think of is to recover fast and recuperate myself as the process of m/c is so painful. I cant even walk/stand properly. Totally felt like bedridden. I got better after the traditional massage thou.
On mid-may, i was 5 days late for my period. I thought maybe after m/c my menses will be irregular. Talk to my husband and he said he dont think im pregnant and he dont want to put high hopes anymore after the first miscarriage. But i have this instinct, i might be pregnant. I told myself to check next week but this lady is so itchy as i have 3 spares more of pregnancy test kits. Check it and to my astonishment, im pregnant. Everyone is so shocked and delighted esp my hubby.
Had a bleeding a week after, had check with gynae and im already 6 weeks pregnant. Did an ultrasound (as they are afraid it might be ectopic) and they found a small sac. Had to return 3 weeks later and thats when i saw my baby with his/her heartbeat. Im now in my 10 weeks.
So ladies. Please dont lose hope. Try not to think so much and let nature takes it course. Best wishes to all ladies who are trying to conceive.
Sorry for the long winded post. Just have to share something here. =)
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