Anyone had ectopic pregnancy experience? We can share how we feel to feel better...

twinsymom

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Re: Anyone had ectopic pregnancy experience? We can share how we feel to feel better

I am so glad i found this forum tho is not very active...joining this thread to share my story..

i found out that i was pregnant after trying for 2 years. my hubby and i were overjoyed! but good things dont last.my baby heartbeat stopped at week 7. i did a D&C on week 8...we thought all was well and told i can try again after my 1 cycle.

3 weeks after my D&C..my horror began. I had a terrible stomachache one fine day. from the date i was pregant till then..i had constipation. in fact, constipation is my first sympton. but why after DC i am still constipating?? initially i thot i was suffering from food poisoning but the pain was so bad that i could not even walk. every move is painful. i cant even turn to my side. an ambulance was called and i was sent to TTSH A&E. was told i might be having a etopic pregnancy! i told the doc it is not possible as i had a DC 3 weeks ago and no intercourse since then!

docs did their test on me. every touch sent me screaming. my blood pressue is only 30/50...doc saw my uterus was bleeding. I had my first op for the day. the surgeon stopped my bleeding and told me that they confirmed i am having an etopic preg. and need to be operated immediately.

i was in 4 hours operation and lost 3 litres of blood. i was hospitalised for 3 days and 1 month of hospitalisation leave..

after my recovery, i went back to my gynae..he was shocked and in his 30+ years of practice, i was the 2nd patient he encountered with "heterotopic pregnancy" (ie 1 is in the tube & the other is outside the tube)..and the chances is 1 in 1000.

the sad thing is etopic pregnancy cant be detected unless there is pain. but throughout my 6 weeks of preggie, i had no pain..

doc told me to try again after 6 months..but i duno if i have the courage to try again as recurring etopic pregancy is possible..

when i see my pregnant friends..my heart still hurt..
 

soapie

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Re: Anyone had ectopic pregnancy experience? We can share how we feel to feel better

Hi twinsymom, sorry to hear abt what happened to you. I have not heard of heterotopic pregnancy before... I had ectopic pregnancy in Aug 2011, so I can totally relate to your stories. I tried Chinese medicine and it could be coz of that ... I was successfully in 2012 and delivered a daughter in Oct 2012. Just want to say ... Don't be despair! Give it a try again after 6 months ....... I was scared of a recurring ectopic, but as we wanted to hv kids, we decided to give it a try... Have a good rest, eat well ... n Jia you !!
 

soapie

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Re: Anyone had ectopic pregnancy experience? We can share how we feel to feel better

Twinsymom, can email to me if you need someone to 'talk' to .......... =)
 

crystaloves

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hi

Hello ladies!!! I am truely glad that everyone who have the same situation or otherwise gathers at the same place and share thoughts and gice encouragement to each other. Im glad to create such a space for u ladies.. I tried for 4 years and had 1 mc and 2 ectopics.. I success deliver my girl this january.. its a bumpy ride and I almost gave up.. but trust me.. god will give when the right time arrives.. it might be really tough but u will get your answers. .. remember to recuperate well both physically and mentally.. such special pregnancy cases normally happens based on environmental effects which u cant see.. stress is a big factor.. one day u will see your little beanie hb and thats when u know.. this is it.. hugs to u ladies k...
 

reiann

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Re: Anyone had ectopic pregnancy experience? We can share how we feel to feel better

yup I agree with other posters above. really so glad to hear other mums with ectopic having babies successfully! cos I also happily have a beautiful baby daughter last september.

any mums with ectopic and now have TWO or more babies? hehe
 

twinsymom

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Re: Anyone had ectopic pregnancy experience? We can share how we feel to feel better

Twinsymom, can email to me if you need someone to 'talk' to .......... =)
thank you soapie :)

the other night i was asking my hubby should we try again. he was like "huh, so fast" guess i will try again in 2 mths time. give my body 4 months to recuperate.

thanks ladies for sharing your successful stories after etopic.
 

gracerays

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I just had an ectopic pregnancy.. am just wondering if there are any gynae recommendations that you have after your ectopic journey.. thank you.. :)
 
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