SunShine07
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yeah i do hope that my son won't be angry with me in future. Like my husband keep saying : 'my son will surely hate me for leaving his father'*hug*
family violence this kind of things, there is once, there will be twice.. actually, have you guys been to counselor and see if things can work out?
your son like to play with your brother in law doesnt simply implies he lacks father love.. kids are like that.. whoever enjoys playing them, they will enjoy playing with that person.. my dear daughter loves to play with my bro also.. maybe becoz guys are better with action funs? my dear daughter love it whn my bro throws her into the air, or let her ride his back like pony.. mummy and grandma surely won have this kind of stamina.. hahaa..
father role is important (especially to daughters), but if the father is absent in the family, as long as there is a male figure the kid can look up to (e.g uncle, grandpa, family friend), i believe they should be fine ..
seeing daddy always beating mummy and daddy is angry, mummy is sad doesnt makes the kid happier nor emotionally secured even if the 'complete family' image is there.. so if divorce is something you have to do to make everything better, you are not making the wrong move ..
JMHO
and what he said really keep me worry about this. Because my husband's mother left him for another man, so he hated his mother so much that he almost didn't get to see her mother on her death bed.
I am very worry that my decision is selfish.
Well, just hope myu son will understand when he grow up