LOL...I was just discussing it on the M'sian forum with the ladies there. Yeah, my mum can be considered as a Tiger mum - her parenting skill is similar to Amy Chua's. I was lucky that my dad was around to help balanced things out but it was still quite bad.Anyone read this?
I'm quite intrigued at the parenting style described in the book.
Reminds me of... Meiteoh's mum from the way Meiteoh described her in a few different threads (no offence)
So, were you brought up by a 'tiger mother'??
&, do you believe in being one?
*hearts hearts hearts*i think the book wouldn't have caused so much controversy if she simply do not generalise and say that her style of parenting and filial piety is Asian and then compare it and declare Asian style as superior.
It's a really lousy book. She can just name her style Amy Chua Style rather than Asian. She has just drew more misunderstandings and stereotypes between Asian and Caucasians. I hope it doesn't lead to any disputes or online war.
I remember one story in particular where the author shared about how her high achiever sister did everything by the book (because her mum was a Tiger mum) and in the end, killed herself. It was poignant to say the least.It will only lead to online wars when immature people refuse to share their side of the story and simply insist that she's wrong.
Actually, I've seen the 'Amy Chua Style' happening to my foreign students, particularly the Chinese students here on scholarship. & they take it as 'part & parcel' of growing up. They have no resentment towards their parents because they know that their parents are doing it for their sake.
I was joking with my mum that if she had adopted the 'Amy Chua Style' for me and my siblings, we would probably be doctors/lawyers/professional musicians by now.
And you know what's my mum's reply?
这样你们就没有呢么多时间找男女朋友。 还有,我会有机会呢么早抱孙子吗?