do u ML to DH often

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chachaleo

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Hi me & DH hv nt ML for quite some time..i always make excuses like very tired etc..or u nt feeling well better dun do or i nt feeling well. Frankly speaking i tink i dreaded making love now.

I read the posts here n im oso worried if things continue this way my DH might go find pros or hv affair..:tconfused:..cos he visits those singapore sex forum ( i found out recently). i noe i shld try to bring bk our sex life but i jus feel dun like it anymore. really dunno how nw
 
wilcris

wilcris

Member
We will ML at least once a week. But sometimes due to my boi sleeping with us, he will lost interest cause scare disturb boi wakes up.
I think my sex drive is higher den my HB.
 
tommyBoi

tommyBoi

Alpha Male
wilcris said:
We will ML at least once a week. But sometimes due to my boi sleeping with us, he will lost interest cause scare disturb boi wakes up.
I think my sex drive is higher den my HB.
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I envy ur dh leh.. :tlaugh:

My dw has low sex drive.. so got to do it myself sometime when the need arise.. :001_302:
But no matter weather she is high or low, i will still love her deeply.
 
tommyBoi

tommyBoi

Alpha Male
chachaleo said:
Hi me & DH hv nt ML for quite some time..i always make excuses like very tired etc..or u nt feeling well better dun do or i nt feeling well. Frankly speaking i tink i dreaded making love now.

I read the posts here n im oso worried if things continue this way my DH might go find pros or hv affair..:tconfused:..cos he visits those singapore sex forum ( i found out recently). i noe i shld try to bring bk our sex life but i jus feel dun like it anymore. really dunno how nw
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There is a chance he might be finding someone to release his urge. Try nt to reject him too much becoz a man will feel bored in a marriage wif no sex at all.
 
LoVeS

LoVeS

Well-Known Member
tommyBoi said:
I envy ur dh leh.. :tlaugh:

My dw has low sex drive.. so got to do it myself sometime when the need arise.. :001_302:
But no matter weather she is high or low, i will still love her deeply.
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YES tats the way man !! If partner dun wan, always can DIY!! A responsible person shouldnt stray be it man or woman juz bcoz of SEX as there is always an option to DIY. U marry the person bcoz u love him/her nt bcoz of SEX n if tt is the case, WHY marry? Dun marry u can *ahem* as much as u wan or as many ppl as u wan. Married should b responsible for ur own actions n respect ur partner. Rmb the VOWS we made when marry? :001_302:

My dh aso like tt as we seldom ML liao abt 1-2 times a mth after giving birth coz most of the time i am too tired or sum other reasons BUT of coz i wont purposely make up xcuses not to do it.
 
babypris86

babypris86

Member
haha me and DH highest record is 9 months no ML haha haha.... only recently in new yr we did like every day for 2 weeks... den now stop again... reason beong both our working timing is different... some times when he touch me i also wont know haha guess i will sleep like pig....
 
mmy_lizz

mmy_lizz

Member
hey mommies.. i didnt know tis cud be a topic but seriuosly it opened my eyes even bigger to realize act many hav tis prob.aft me n DH got married i felt we dropped in ML. dont know y but i wish we were still like going out when die2 try make time to ML. hmmm.. makes me wonder. now we only ML once a week.. either me or DH will start 1st.i feel we shud try harder on tis, if not we will start feelin distance from him. or if dont want to ML, juz sleep, the least is body contact. mayb yr hand on his body or watever..
 
mmy_lizz

mmy_lizz

Member
act to me no ML like mayb a month is ok.. but at least i want to sleep mayb in his arms or at least like he hug me somethin like tt.. if not ahh.. like feel very far lehh~~ hahahah.. so near yet so far.. ;P
 
babypris86

babypris86

Member
haha me and my DH sleep differently cuz his room is small so i will sleep on the single bed... he will sleep on the mattress on the floor hehe hehe... so we don have much interaction... but actually DH and I both have low sex drive de ehehehehehe...
 
ireneliau

ireneliau

Member
maybe take a break to go a short trip and both of yr will have the mood.. nowaday we are too busy working and feeling very stress and tired.. After work still got to come back and look after kid that why too tired to do other thing then sleeping..
 
Leanne

Leanne

Active Member
I hate SG sex forum. Sammyboy or whatever. Grr.

DH used to go there before we got tgt so fine.

If he goes there even now, he's dead. LOL.

Back to topic, yes, we ML very often. @ least 2 times a week. Up to 4-5 times :)
 
mcqueen

mcqueen

Member
Hi, Leanne

We also the same when we was the age like u. But now to me...that is very "gd & enough" liao if can maintain once a wk. haha. Hope u can maintain same "schedule" when u reach 30, 35 ...:001_302:


Leanne said:
I hate SG sex forum. Sammyboy or whatever. Grr.

DH used to go there before we got tgt so fine.

If he goes there even now, he's dead. LOL.

Back to topic, yes, we ML very often. @ least 2 times a week. Up to 4-5 times :)
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bluechin

bluechin

BMSG Moderator
Due to work committments, we ML at least once a week, otherwise between 2 - 5 times a week.

Either of us will initiate but both of us thinks i have higher SD. :p

Hubby believes in having a date night each week that we will just spend time together, not necessary ML and we think it does help the relationship a lot. Even my extended family knows about this and is extremely supportive about our Date Night Policy. :)
 
elaine01

elaine01

Member
looks like i'm rather active too:tlaugh:

i've higher SD before we had DS.

after DS came, he initiate most of the time, his SD higher than me now. sometimes i so tired, i only what realise what we had "done" when he entered me or worse, when everything's over!

then i clean up, get dressed & go back to sleep.....................:tlaugh:
 
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