most of u hv problem with your MIL but i hv problem with my FIL!
i stay with my in-laws. no choice, hubby is very filial type, kinda promised them that he will always live with them... MIL has been doing all the chores and kept very busy at home and helps me with bb too but i am v possessive and do most of the stuff myself or stay in my room to latch her. FIL does nothing, sleeps and eats at home in the day, now will also carry baby at home ever since bb joins the family, and without fail FIL will go drinking downstairs everyday.
just now FIL back from drinking, MIL had put bb into cot b4 that while i was bathing, but when i finished bathing and came out, bb woke up... but playing quietly so i just leave her. then i went into living room and FIL saw me and asked abt bb, i told him bb playing in cot, he happily rush in and carry bb. bb can lie quietly in cot why go and carry?! and come out say... oh bb haven't slp, need me to carry.. then bb poo while he carrying.. then he just keep saying... u poo poo, smelly.. in chinese. and keep repeating. i dun wan her first words to be 'poot poot' or 'chou chou' can?! i wan her first words to be 'mama'! then he rock her so hard, another time told him off in front of my mil already saying rocking bb will cause damage to bb's soft brain, luckily mil is on my side, say she heard of news where the maid rock too hard caused damage to bb... then he stopped that time. but he still rock her just now!! he rock her, she cries, he rock harder, she cries harder la omg... so i quickly carry bb over...
later gonna complain to my hubby once he comes home.. he's still outside, tonight got work function. now come here to vent first grrrr..
i stay with my in-laws. no choice, hubby is very filial type, kinda promised them that he will always live with them... MIL has been doing all the chores and kept very busy at home and helps me with bb too but i am v possessive and do most of the stuff myself or stay in my room to latch her. FIL does nothing, sleeps and eats at home in the day, now will also carry baby at home ever since bb joins the family, and without fail FIL will go drinking downstairs everyday.
just now FIL back from drinking, MIL had put bb into cot b4 that while i was bathing, but when i finished bathing and came out, bb woke up... but playing quietly so i just leave her. then i went into living room and FIL saw me and asked abt bb, i told him bb playing in cot, he happily rush in and carry bb. bb can lie quietly in cot why go and carry?! and come out say... oh bb haven't slp, need me to carry.. then bb poo while he carrying.. then he just keep saying... u poo poo, smelly.. in chinese. and keep repeating. i dun wan her first words to be 'poot poot' or 'chou chou' can?! i wan her first words to be 'mama'! then he rock her so hard, another time told him off in front of my mil already saying rocking bb will cause damage to bb's soft brain, luckily mil is on my side, say she heard of news where the maid rock too hard caused damage to bb... then he stopped that time. but he still rock her just now!! he rock her, she cries, he rock harder, she cries harder la omg... so i quickly carry bb over...
later gonna complain to my hubby once he comes home.. he's still outside, tonight got work function. now come here to vent first grrrr..