mich_liu82
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Hi,
As I mention in my previous thread, my #2 DD is attending school.
She now refuses to eat when she is at school and even at home. Lunch dun 1, tea break dun 1. Milk oso dun 1. But during lesson, the principal told me she is ok. I;m worried she will get gastric, is this normal? Her way of not eating is like on strike dun wanna go school.
Lately her behaviour is really horrible n out of hand. She demands for this and that, and if she dun get it, she screams on top of her voice! If I scold her, she runs to Daddy. If Daddy scolds her, she run to me. And she seems to be making life so difficult for us, for a moment she says she wants "A", den when give her "A", she twist her word, say she want "B", den give her "B"oreadi, she twist her word again, say want "C", so when I give her "C", she suddenly dun 1. Den cry, throw tantrum, scream...
She always want her comfort toy which is her teddy bear. I dunno if she is feeling insecured or wat. I recently just gave birth to my #3 DD. B4 I was preggy with #3, #2 was ok. Den during my pregnancy, her behaviour changed. Now its even worse!!!! She will cry and scream to demand what she wants, den when give her liao, keep twisting her words around.
I was driven crazy by her last night and this afternoon. That I actually hit her on her thighs till its all red with my hands. Then I scream n shout at her at her face! Then just now I told her not to call me mummy bcoz I dun have such a notty daughter. Den I tell her, every moment I see her I will scream n shout at her. I even take her comfort toy and throw it on the floor, den when she came to my bedroom, I shouted at her to get lost.
But now I'm filled with guilt and pain... I dunno what to do, I am so lost... Den see her cry, I so heartpain. But her behaviour really beyond control and I really cannot take it...
Help, Help, Help... I''m losing it...
Or anyone knows where I can get professional help? Should I stop her school. I really dunno wat to do anymore... :embarrassed::tconfused::teek::tno:
As I mention in my previous thread, my #2 DD is attending school.
She now refuses to eat when she is at school and even at home. Lunch dun 1, tea break dun 1. Milk oso dun 1. But during lesson, the principal told me she is ok. I;m worried she will get gastric, is this normal? Her way of not eating is like on strike dun wanna go school.
Lately her behaviour is really horrible n out of hand. She demands for this and that, and if she dun get it, she screams on top of her voice! If I scold her, she runs to Daddy. If Daddy scolds her, she run to me. And she seems to be making life so difficult for us, for a moment she says she wants "A", den when give her "A", she twist her word, say she want "B", den give her "B"oreadi, she twist her word again, say want "C", so when I give her "C", she suddenly dun 1. Den cry, throw tantrum, scream...
She always want her comfort toy which is her teddy bear. I dunno if she is feeling insecured or wat. I recently just gave birth to my #3 DD. B4 I was preggy with #3, #2 was ok. Den during my pregnancy, her behaviour changed. Now its even worse!!!! She will cry and scream to demand what she wants, den when give her liao, keep twisting her words around.
I was driven crazy by her last night and this afternoon. That I actually hit her on her thighs till its all red with my hands. Then I scream n shout at her at her face! Then just now I told her not to call me mummy bcoz I dun have such a notty daughter. Den I tell her, every moment I see her I will scream n shout at her. I even take her comfort toy and throw it on the floor, den when she came to my bedroom, I shouted at her to get lost.
But now I'm filled with guilt and pain... I dunno what to do, I am so lost... Den see her cry, I so heartpain. But her behaviour really beyond control and I really cannot take it...
Help, Help, Help... I''m losing it...
Or anyone knows where I can get professional help? Should I stop her school. I really dunno wat to do anymore... :embarrassed::tconfused::teek::tno: