lis
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Hi der..rite now..i'm feeling quite vexed over woteva happen to me today n oso ol tiz tym..! y muz HE (hubby) owaes quarrel w me over sumone else..?! for example - ma mom, brother, sis-in-law, stepfather, father, ma x, his parents..ezier to say is olmost everibodi tat link to me..! it's so irritating n tiring to quarrel w him everitym..! sumtyms it's over small issues lyk i forgot to throw ma son diaper in the bin..can u believe it..?? HE'll make a mountain out of a molehill..! Argh...!!!! i feel so stressed up..i juz duno wot to do..at tyms i do get soo angry n started throwing tantrums..instead of him comforting me, HE'll scold me back..do u tink it's fair..? n in the end i hav to comfort him n sae sorie tat i'm wrong..!! can ani of u see wer's the problem..?
ok..let me tell u sum facts bout ma family so u'll roughly noe wot is going on.
btn me n ma stepfather,ok he ever molest me for 3 tyms..the last tym wen i was in Sec 5..i couldn't take it anomire,i reported it to ma counsellor so ma mom was called down for the issue..she was v unhepi n she din even wanna tok to me..the issue ended up as a police case..thus he was send off to jail for 9 mths..! but tat's not enuf for me..it's too little..! it's b'coz ma mom kip pestering me to tell ma IO to close the case..she beg me not to send her HUSBAND to jail..! is she being fair to me..?! i'm her daughter n yet she's siding her beast husband..! n she even told me not to tell ma late brother(at tat tym,he's still alive) bout tiz..coz she noe it v well tat iv i tell ma bro,he'll beat him(stepfather) into pulp..HAHA..but ma elder bro knew bout tiz matter..but he kept mum oso..he oso pretend as thou nuting had happen to his sista..! tat's wen i felt so useless n started staying away frm hm..i started working n went to tampines to overnite w ma frens or cuzins..everidae was lyk tat for me..it's v tiring..but i can't do aniting but tiz..den one day,i get to noe ma hubby at ma work plc..he was ma customer bck den..we started dating..b4 we get serious,i told him everiting bout wot had happend to me in the past..he was soo annoyed over the incident bout ma family members as dey din do aniting to protect me..! so we started dating seriously..coz he said tat he will protect me..den came ma x in the picture..he wanted to get back to me..but i ignored him..ma hubby was toO jealous n had v little faith in me(i tink)..thus he owaes quarrel w me over ma bloOdy x..! btw he got v jealous over him b'coz tiz paticular x of mine used to stay together w me coz he was chased out by his parents.. - tis's the whole story..tat's wen ma hubby started b'cum soO protective of me..! he dun wan anibodi to get near me n hurt me..!
the story btn ma dad n me is..he's owaes taking advantage of me..as in he's owaes asking me to do tiz n tat for him..v long story la..
den btn ma MIL n me is..woteva i do,she'll find me sore in her eye..! Wen i stay at hm(during ma off daes), i'll cook,clean the hse,take care of ma son, do the laundry..etc. but she'll tell ma hubby tat i stay at hm doing nuting..like princess lyk tat..she'll bad-mouthed me..but of course ma hubby dun believe woteve she saae la..coz he noes tat i'm not in the wrong..so ma MIL was not hepi w ma hubby n me coz ma hubby sides me..den she chase us out..she got no PITY on his grandchild oso..bo pien..i moved back to mom's plc..wer der's MONSTER..
so now i'm bck at ma mom's plc..tat's y owaes quarrel w each other over other ppl..!
Haiz..!! but now..to me..he oso start to hurt me..coz he owaes scold me over small issues..am i right to sae tat he's starting to HURT me..?? or he juz loves me soO much tat he din realise wot he's doing..??
can sumbody please sae sumting to me..advise me..wot shud i do..i'm feeling soo low n stressful..i hope u guys understand wot i'm sayingn ma situation..ancing_angry:
ok..let me tell u sum facts bout ma family so u'll roughly noe wot is going on.
btn me n ma stepfather,ok he ever molest me for 3 tyms..the last tym wen i was in Sec 5..i couldn't take it anomire,i reported it to ma counsellor so ma mom was called down for the issue..she was v unhepi n she din even wanna tok to me..the issue ended up as a police case..thus he was send off to jail for 9 mths..! but tat's not enuf for me..it's too little..! it's b'coz ma mom kip pestering me to tell ma IO to close the case..she beg me not to send her HUSBAND to jail..! is she being fair to me..?! i'm her daughter n yet she's siding her beast husband..! n she even told me not to tell ma late brother(at tat tym,he's still alive) bout tiz..coz she noe it v well tat iv i tell ma bro,he'll beat him(stepfather) into pulp..HAHA..but ma elder bro knew bout tiz matter..but he kept mum oso..he oso pretend as thou nuting had happen to his sista..! tat's wen i felt so useless n started staying away frm hm..i started working n went to tampines to overnite w ma frens or cuzins..everidae was lyk tat for me..it's v tiring..but i can't do aniting but tiz..den one day,i get to noe ma hubby at ma work plc..he was ma customer bck den..we started dating..b4 we get serious,i told him everiting bout wot had happend to me in the past..he was soo annoyed over the incident bout ma family members as dey din do aniting to protect me..! so we started dating seriously..coz he said tat he will protect me..den came ma x in the picture..he wanted to get back to me..but i ignored him..ma hubby was toO jealous n had v little faith in me(i tink)..thus he owaes quarrel w me over ma bloOdy x..! btw he got v jealous over him b'coz tiz paticular x of mine used to stay together w me coz he was chased out by his parents.. - tis's the whole story..tat's wen ma hubby started b'cum soO protective of me..! he dun wan anibodi to get near me n hurt me..!
the story btn ma dad n me is..he's owaes taking advantage of me..as in he's owaes asking me to do tiz n tat for him..v long story la..
den btn ma MIL n me is..woteva i do,she'll find me sore in her eye..! Wen i stay at hm(during ma off daes), i'll cook,clean the hse,take care of ma son, do the laundry..etc. but she'll tell ma hubby tat i stay at hm doing nuting..like princess lyk tat..she'll bad-mouthed me..but of course ma hubby dun believe woteve she saae la..coz he noes tat i'm not in the wrong..so ma MIL was not hepi w ma hubby n me coz ma hubby sides me..den she chase us out..she got no PITY on his grandchild oso..bo pien..i moved back to mom's plc..wer der's MONSTER..
so now i'm bck at ma mom's plc..tat's y owaes quarrel w each other over other ppl..!
Haiz..!! but now..to me..he oso start to hurt me..coz he owaes scold me over small issues..am i right to sae tat he's starting to HURT me..?? or he juz loves me soO much tat he din realise wot he's doing..??
can sumbody please sae sumting to me..advise me..wot shud i do..i'm feeling soo low n stressful..i hope u guys understand wot i'm sayingn ma situation..ancing_angry: