I felt so helpless and have lose my trust on my hubby. Before marriage, I agreed to share on studio album taking (S$2k). It was later that I found out it should be paid by the guy and I told my hubby about this. Instead of offering to return me the money, he said I was unfair to ask him to pay all. I told him to check with other couples and he asked me why he should verify. He was disappointed that I did not value fairness and ask me what will I feel if I am treated unfairly. I cried and he did not console me and said that if he console me, its like agreeing to the behaviour of a spoilt kid. I was then on silent war with him. This is not the first time that we quarrel over finances. He also did not offer to pay all for the gynae fee and delivery. After I told him and all silent war, he agreed to pay medisave in full and cash equally. Even the confinement and tonic he said he share equally. Sometimes I would imagine my hubby treating me nicer but he lived by "principle" of fairness. I really hate him talking about fairness. I was upset that he did not care about me crying when I was pregnant. He said I was unfair to him if I ask him to pay all. Do you think I am asking too much? Because of this, I have lose my trust in him. He did not care how I feel. How I wish he is like any other husband out there who loves their wife.